What's the Point?
AAli Abdaal
Mental HealthBooks & LiteratureVideo & Computer GamesComputing/Software
Transcript
00:00:00The other day I was reclining on the couch playing God of War 2018 on the PS5.
00:00:04I'm a few hours into the game and I find myself at a crossroads, literally and metaphorically.
00:00:08I could choose to row my boat left and progress the main storyline, or I could choose to row my boat
00:00:14right and do a side quest that seems interesting but that wouldn't really progress the main story.
00:00:18I notice that my default thought process is "we've got to go left because that'll get us moving
00:00:22through the storyline faster", but then I stop and notice that thought. I think "hmm, that's
00:00:27interesting, I'm playing a video game here, so why do I feel the need to play it efficiently?
00:00:32Why does my first thought go to "what's the fastest way to progress the game?" and after some thinking
00:00:36I land on the question "what's actually the point of playing this video game?" and the answer comes
00:00:40pretty quickly. Obviously the point is to simply enjoy the journey of playing it. There is no
00:00:44cosmic significance to my playing God of War. It's not an exercise in self-improvement. The points or
00:00:49levels that I earn in the game have less than zero impact on my life. It's simply an arbitrary video
00:00:53game that I'm playing at an arbitrary difficulty level purely for the purposes of passing the time
00:00:58and doing something enjoyable. So I decide to turn right and take the more scenic route doing the side
00:01:03quest that has no bearing on the main storyline, but enjoying myself with the attitude of leaning
00:01:07back, relaxing, and enjoying the challenge of this arbitrary video game. The following morning I'm in
00:01:12the office with the team and I'm working on some designs for our new productivity app and I find
00:01:16myself feeling a tad on edge with how little time I've got available to work on it. I've just got a
00:01:21few hours of deep work before the next meeting and then it's lunch time and then my afternoon's packed
00:01:25with the gym followed by a couple of more meetings with the dev team and I find myself approaching
00:01:28these designs with an air of franticness. An air of feeling like I'm running out of time and therefore
00:01:33I've got to make progress on this quickly. But then I remember the feeling when playing God of War. The
00:01:37feeling of trying to do things efficiently. So I asked myself that question again. What's actually
00:01:42the point of us building this productivity app? Sure if the app does well it'll mean more money
00:01:46for the business and it would be cool to be building an app that lots of people around the world use and
00:01:50it helps them manage their time and achieve their goals. But in the grand scheme of things
00:01:53a few decades from now if not way sooner the app will be completely forgotten. A few more decades
00:01:58from now me and our entire team will be dead and no one will particularly care about this random app
00:02:03that we spent a few years building on planet earth. This app that I'm spending all this time and energy
00:02:07working on actually has zero cosmic significance. So what's the point? Well I realized that much like
00:02:12a video game the point is primarily to enjoy the experience of building the thing. If we build it
00:02:17well it'll hopefully have a little more impact on our lives than literally spending those hours
00:02:21playing more video games. But honestly not that much more on a cosmic scale. In many ways the
00:02:25journey of building an app is much like the journey of playing a video game. It's an arbitrary goal
00:02:30with an arbitrary level of difficulty played for the primary purpose of building something cool
00:02:34and enjoying the journey of building it. So then I think huh if the point of building this app is
00:02:39actually primarily to enjoy the journey of building this app what if I approached it like I approached
00:02:44playing God of War? What if instead of approaching it with an attitude of franticness or stress I
00:02:48instead take a breath I lean back I relax and I try to remember that building the app is an arbitrary
00:02:53video game where the primary goal is to simply enjoy the challenge. And you know what I have a
00:02:58pretty good time. For the next few hours I get my study with me Spotify playlist playing through my
00:03:01headphones. I take breaks every now and then to get a coffee and while approaching it in this relaxed
00:03:05fashion I make a lot of progress and I come up with a bunch of cool new ideas and I have a pretty good
00:03:10time. The very first chapter of my book Feel Good Productivity is titled Play. The whole thesis of
00:03:15the entire book is that when we approach our work in the spirit of play we actually become more
00:03:19productive more creative and less stressed. And on top of that the work ends up generating rather
00:03:24than draining our energy. But even though I've written that chapter and I've seen firsthand the
00:03:28benefits of taking a more playful approach to work I still find myself defaulting to the mode of this
00:03:33is a serious thing that needs to be done quickly and productively and efficiently. Over time I think
00:03:38I've gotten a bit better at catching myself when I do this and then trying to deliberately switch over
00:03:42to play mode but it still isn't my default setting. I'd love for it to be so that my approach to
00:03:46practically every goal or project in work or in life is to treat it with an attitude of lightness
00:03:51ease and sincerity rather than heaviness and seriousness. Zooming out even more I have found
00:03:56myself wondering this what if every goal we're working towards in our work our health our
00:04:00relationships our home life what if all those goals are merely arbitrary video games played on an
00:04:05arbitrary level of difficulty where the primary purpose is in fact to enjoy the journey of playing
00:04:09them what if the journey is in fact the destination. And after all that we've landed on a classic cliche
00:04:14thank you for watching see you next time.
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