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Middle managers walk a tightrope every day between the demands of practitioners and the profit metrics of executives. The moment you enter a meeting room without preparation, you will be swayed by the counterpart's aggressive demands and end up eroding your team's margins. Unstructured negotiation eventually leads to losses.
10 minutes before the meeting, take out a sheet of paper and spend one minute each writing down the following three things:
When the counterpart's practitioner puts forward unreasonable conditions, refer to this memo and respond immediately. If the counterpart delays the contract, take the lead in applying pressure by quantitatively mentioning the costs they will incur due to the delay.
If you feel like you are getting caught up in the counterpart's logic during a conversation, pick up a pen immediately. The act of writing down the counterpart's key keywords on paper reduces the cognitive overload of your working memory. The 3 seconds spent writing serve as a physical defensive shield that prevents emotional reactions.
When the counterpart makes an unreasonable demand, follow this protocol:
If you only write keywords in your notebook and make eye contact with the counterpart, the flow of the conversation will not be interrupted.
Do not concede hastily when stuck on a single issue. You can improve economic outcomes by utilizing the Multiple Equivalent Simultaneous Offers (MESO) method from the Harvard Law School Program on Negotiation (PON).
Divide the clauses to minimize losses.
Compose items only within the range that your internal operations team can manage. If data does not support the items, follow-up management will become complicated.
Verbal agreements evaporate over time. Borrowing the U.S. Army's After Action Review (AAR) model, summarize the following and store it in your internal database within 24 hours of the negotiation:
As these records accumulate, new managers can also replicate previous negotiation patterns to reduce trial and error. Negotiation is not a one-time transaction but a game of accumulated data. Start recording from the very next meeting.
