[Wall Street Uncle] The Formula for Financial Freedom - Part 2

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00:00:00First,
00:00:00if we use a graph where the X-axis represents wealth and the Y-axis represents happiness,
00:00:04reducing suffering would increase happiness,
00:00:07right?
00:00:07Now,
00:00:08there's a level of suffering that money can solve,
00:00:10and then there's a second category of suffering that money can't fix.
00:00:13So as you keep earning,
00:00:14there comes a point where making more money won't increase your happiness anymore.
00:00:19But this graph has two major flaws.
00:00:20Can you guess what they are??
00:00:30Hello, I'm Olga.
00:00:31Today,
00:00:31continuing from last time,
00:00:33I want to talk about economic freedom..
00:00:35The final destination of economic freedom,
00:00:37but the three types of people who fail even after achieving it.
00:00:40Last time,
00:00:41we looked at four key elements of economic freedom: skill,
00:00:45risk,
00:00:45inefficiency,
00:00:46and time.
00:00:47But as we all know,
00:00:48economic freedom is just a means,
00:00:50not the final destination.
00:00:51Let me use mountain climbing as an example.
00:00:54If the main goal is to enjoy the scenery,
00:00:56you should pick a mountain with good views,
00:00:58and ideally the climb itself would be scenic too.
00:01:01But what if you ignore that main goal and just think any mountain will be fine as long as you reach the summit?
00:01:07You focus only on climbing,
00:01:09which might lead you up a steep,
00:01:11barren mountain by mistake.
00:01:12Then you keep climbing higher and higher,
00:01:14stuck on the wrong mountain because the view isn't good yet..
00:01:18Similarly,
00:01:19pursuing economic freedom can lead you down the wrong path too.
00:01:23That's why,
00:01:24if you want to achieve economic freedom,
00:01:26you absolutely need to ask yourself first: why do I want it?
00:01:30While the surface reasons might vary from person to person,
00:01:34the underlying truth is the same for everyone.
00:01:37We pursue it to seek pleasure and fulfill our desires,
00:01:40or to eliminate suffering from life.
00:01:43Really, it's two sides of the same coin..
00:01:45Because the frustration of not experiencing pleasure right now is itself a form of suffering.
00:01:50For example,
00:01:50suffering from seeing a boss you don't like every day at work,
00:01:53suffering from not being able to pay hospital bills,
00:01:56not having enough to give to your parents,
00:01:58not being able to buy what you want,
00:02:00not being able to afford luxury sports or a nice house—we pursue economic freedom to escape these kinds of suffering.
00:02:05In a word,
00:02:06suffering comes from the world not being under your control the way you want it to be.
00:02:11And economic freedom helps reduce that suffering by letting you control a lot more of your world.
00:02:16It gives you the freedom to have what you want and do what you want,
00:02:18and the freedom to not do what you don't want.
00:02:20But here's the problem: freedom isn't the opposite of suffering.
00:02:24In other words,
00:02:25having more freedom doesn't necessarily mean your suffering decreases.
00:02:28You've probably heard of bucket lists.
00:02:31But today,
00:02:31I want you to make a list of your suffering instead.
00:02:34Actually,
00:02:34a suffering list is a broader concept that even includes your bucket list.
00:02:38Because each item on your bucket list is something you're suffering from not having accomplished yet.
00:02:43So if you think about what might be on a suffering list,
00:02:46it could include workplace issues or friend troubles,
00:02:49problems with children,
00:02:50family conflicts,
00:02:51health issues,
00:02:51fear of aging,
00:02:52missing someone you've lost or parted with,
00:02:54mental health problems like anxiety and depression,
00:02:57frustration from not being able to buy what you want,
00:03:00lacking time for hobbies you enjoy,
00:03:01envy of others,
00:03:02jealousy,
00:03:03unmet need for recognition,
00:03:04a job you hate going to,
00:03:05dissatisfaction with your appearance,
00:03:07and much more.
00:03:09So before moving to the next chapter,
00:03:11I want you to pause the video and actually write down your own suffering list.
00:03:15And you should include not just current suffering,
00:03:17but also suffering you might experience in the future.
00:03:20Especially if you're young,
00:03:21don't forget to add health issues.
00:03:22Even if you have no health problems right now,
00:03:24you should still include it..
00:03:26It's wise to include potential sources of suffering that might emerge even after you achieve economic freedom in your future.
00:03:33Now,
00:03:34once you've finished your list,
00:03:36go through it and mark which items can be solved with money.
00:03:40From the things I mentioned,
00:03:41I'd say about four of them can't be solved by money.
00:03:45The other things might be helped by money,
00:03:47but aging,
00:03:48physical health,
00:03:48missing someone you've lost,
00:03:50relationships,
00:03:50and mental health are things that fundamentally can't be solved by money alone.
00:03:55Wealth solves suffering only up to a certain level.
00:03:57But it doesn't eliminate all suffering.
00:04:00As I mentioned in episode 12 of the previous series,
00:04:03every study and statistic shows a consistent message,
00:04:06and it makes sense logically too.
00:04:07By this point,
00:04:08many of you probably think I'm stating something obvious.
00:04:12Of course happiness increases up to a certain income level,
00:04:15right?
00:04:16The level where happiness stops increasing with income is around 100 million won a year anyway,
00:04:20and it's uncertain whether we'll even reach that income level.
00:04:23So what's the point of this theoretical discussion when we're not even sure we can get there??
00:04:27Shouldn't we just focus on making money right now?
00:04:31Why discuss this??
00:04:32But we absolutely need to have this discussion now,
00:04:35while you haven't achieved economic freedom yet.
00:04:37You need to know which mountain to climb before you start climbing.
00:04:40That way,
00:04:41when you actually achieve economic freedom in the future,
00:04:44you won't have regrets.
00:04:45First,
00:04:45if we use a graph where the X-axis represents wealth and the Y-axis represents happiness,
00:04:50reducing suffering would increase happiness,
00:04:52right?
00:04:53Now,
00:04:53there's a level of suffering that money can solve,
00:04:55and then there's a second category of suffering that money can't fix.
00:04:58So as you keep earning,
00:05:00there comes a point where making more money won't increase your happiness anymore.
00:05:04But this graph has two major flaws.
00:05:07What could they be?
00:05:08The first is that this is just an average graph,
00:05:10but when you look at individual cases,
00:05:12results vary drastically.
00:05:14The second is that this data comes from surveying people at different income levels at the same point in time.
00:05:18It doesn't show change over time—just fixed values at a single moment.
00:05:23For example,
00:05:23it likely reflects whether people had privileged upbringings or didn't—what we call being born with a silver spoon or not.
00:05:28What's important and what we really want to know is what happens over time when a specific person,
00:05:36especially myself,
00:05:37tries to move up from this income level.
00:05:40But this graph doesn't show that..
00:05:43So when we assume that as wealth accumulates,
00:05:46time also passes,
00:05:47people actually experience very different paths as they build economic freedom.
00:05:53I can't cover every case,
00:05:54but let me discuss a few representative ones.
00:05:57Now you need to think of the X-axis as representing not just wealth accumulation but also the passage of time.
00:06:02Let's assume that as time passes,
00:06:04you're moving toward economic freedom.
00:06:06The first example is someone who indulges in more and more pleasure as they earn more.
00:06:10Actually,
00:06:10this case is very common among young people who earn a lot of money.
00:06:14If you start earning without thinking about happiness,
00:06:17self-discipline,
00:06:17or self-improvement,
00:06:19at first pleasure might actually make you feel happier.
00:06:22But most pleasures you can buy with money—alcohol,
00:06:25cigarettes,
00:06:25going out,
00:06:26drugs—always come with the opposite side of the coin: suffering.
00:06:30Hangovers,
00:06:30health problems,
00:06:31loneliness,
00:06:32mental health decline.
00:06:33And these pleasures follow the law of diminishing marginal utility..
00:06:37All pleasures are most intense the first time,
00:06:39and as you get used to them,
00:06:41they fade.
00:06:41You need something even more intense to feel satisfied..
00:06:44That's because the human brain's dopamine reward system is designed that way.
00:06:49So as you pile up wealth while pursuing pleasure,
00:06:51over time the law of diminishing returns kicks in,
00:06:54and the side effects of that pleasure take their toll.
00:06:56Happiness gradually decreases..
00:06:58And as it does,
00:06:59you end up squandering the money you accumulated.
00:07:01Now you're moving left and becoming even more unhappy.
00:07:04This is economic freedom.
00:07:06But freedom isn't the same as happiness.
00:07:09For someone unprepared to handle freedom,
00:07:12it can be a double-edged sword.
00:07:13According to American sports agents and the NBA Players Association,
00:07:1760% of NBA basketball players and 78% of NFL football players go bankrupt or face serious financial difficulties within five years of retirement.
00:07:25More academic papers cite a bankruptcy rate of around 15%,
00:07:29but either way,
00:07:30it's far higher than the general population.
00:07:32Basketball and football players both earn enormous amounts of money at a young age.
00:07:37And they retire young.
00:07:39They can't handle that freedom,
00:07:40so they end up following that graph downward.
00:07:42The second case is someone who sacrifices current happiness in pursuit of economic freedom.
00:07:47Now I'm not saying living life to the fullest is good.
00:07:49Saving for the future is good and wise.
00:07:52But in this case, it goes beyond that.
00:07:54People justify their current suffering while pursuing economic freedom,
00:07:57and they even postpone solving problems they could solve right now,
00:08:01blaming them on lack of money and using economic freedom as an excuse..
00:08:04For example,
00:08:05eating only instant ramen to save money,
00:08:07not going to the hospital when they should,
00:08:09being overly stingy like a miser,
00:08:11sacrificing relationships.
00:08:12I've seen cases like this around me..
00:08:14One person had a very poor childhood,
00:08:16and because of those memories,
00:08:18until their 50s they saved every penny,
00:08:20worked like a workaholic,
00:08:22and became quite wealthy.
00:08:23But when they finally thought they should enjoy some comfort,
00:08:26they ended up back in poverty mentality at 50.
00:08:27If you live this way,
00:08:29the suffering that money can't solve keeps growing.
00:08:33Health problems get worse,
00:08:35relationships disappear,
00:08:36and later you end up regretting it.
00:08:39The third case is somewhat related to the second: habitual negative thinking.
00:08:44Making money and building wealth requires much more energy and stress than just staying at your current income level.
00:08:51If you relieve that constant tension and stress through unhealthy channels like gaming,
00:08:56partying,
00:08:56malicious comments,
00:08:57drinking,
00:08:58or toxic online communities,
00:08:59over time your ability to feel happiness from the same experiences decreases compared to others.
00:09:04That's because too many negative images pile up in your unconscious mind.
00:09:08Look at babies—they're delighted by falling leaves and laugh so hard playing tag.
00:09:14What about you?
00:09:16Can you feel joy when leaves fall?
00:09:18As we grow up and become worn down by life,
00:09:21as negative experiences accumulate,
00:09:23our sensitivity to happy experiences decreases.
00:09:26And so even if you achieve the same economic freedom,
00:09:29the maximum happiness you can actually feel becomes much lower.
00:09:33Who's vulnerable to heading in this direction?
00:09:36As I mentioned earlier,
00:09:37people who think 'I'll worry about this after I make money.' People who know money can't buy happiness beyond a certain point,
00:09:44but believe it can up until then,
00:09:46so they'll only focus on money until they reach that point.
00:09:50These people end up never feeling satisfied even when they make more and more money.
00:09:54They deceive themselves thinking 'I haven't made enough yet,
00:09:58' and if they take one wrong step,
00:10:00they might resort to illegal methods like insider trading or loan fraud just to make more money,
00:10:05falling into a bottomless pit of greed..
00:10:08If you too strongly believe that your unhappiness is due to lack of money,
00:10:12you'll reach the flat part of this graph but still think you don't have enough money.
00:10:17Only later do you realize it was never about money,
00:10:20and by then you're filled with regret..
00:10:23So I've organized five things necessary for pursuing economic freedom correctly.
00:10:27One: make a suffering list.
00:10:29Two: confront the fact that not all your suffering is caused by money.
00:10:32Three: start solving problems you can fix right now.
00:10:35Four: pursue economic freedom with the right methods and mindset.
00:10:39Five: develop habits that optimize happiness.
00:10:41Let's look at each one..
00:10:43We already made a suffering list earlier.
00:10:45For younger people,
00:10:46don't forget to add health issues to your list.
00:10:49Your list should include not just current suffering but also potential suffering that could arise once you achieve economic freedom.
00:10:56We covered step two earlier as well.
00:10:57Mark which problems on this list can be solved with money,
00:11:01and face the fact that not all your suffering is caused by money..
00:11:04Step three is that you need to start solving problems you can handle right now,
00:11:08little by little.
00:11:09Here are three reasons: making money does make you happier,
00:11:13but happy people also make more money.
00:11:15Some problems get worse if left alone,
00:11:18and eventually become unsolvable.
00:11:20And the more you get used to negative thinking,
00:11:22the harder it becomes to change later.
00:11:25Let's look at each reason..
00:11:27The first reason,
00:11:28as I covered in episode 12 of the previous series,
00:11:30is that while making money does make you happier,
00:11:32it's also true that happy people make money better.
00:11:35There are many studies and research papers on this,
00:11:38showing that people with higher happiness get promoted faster,
00:11:41earn higher salaries,
00:11:42and even in investing,
00:11:43happier groups show higher returns.
00:11:45It makes sense when you think about it.
00:11:46Anxious,
00:11:47depressed,
00:11:47and unhappy people naturally don't make a good impression in the workplace or society.
00:11:52Happy people look much better and make much better impressions.
00:11:55And when investing,
00:11:56stressed people are more likely to make impulsive trades or act greedily in a rush.
00:12:01The lower your satisfaction with the present,
00:12:02the stronger your tendency to gamble—to try desperate measures to escape your current situation.
00:12:06So if you make your current life a bit happier while pursuing economic freedom,
00:12:11you can actually move forward faster toward your goal.
00:12:15I can't show speed on the graph,
00:12:17but the point is you move slowly here and much faster here.
00:12:20Second,
00:12:20some problems get worse if you ignore them,
00:12:23and eventually become completely unsolvable.
00:12:26The prime examples are health problems and relationship problems.
00:12:29The third reason is similar to the second: the more you get used to negative thinking,
00:12:33the harder it becomes to change.
00:12:35Negative emotions like hate become addictive through dopamine release,
00:12:38and they turn into habits.
00:12:40There's something particularly scary about hate among negative emotions.
00:12:43In my 20s, I myself harbored hate toward certain groups.
00:12:45I had some prejudice against women,
00:12:47against foreign laborers,
00:12:48against sexual minorities.
00:12:50I'm still consciously trying to escape that shadow..
00:12:52Before my kids grow up,
00:12:54I want to be a better person,
00:12:56and I'm making that effort.
00:12:57Looking at my fellow younger viewers in their 20s and 30s,
00:13:01I see many following a similar path..
00:13:03Especially these days,
00:13:04the biggest issue is gender relations.
00:13:06Regional divides and generational conflicts have faded,
00:13:10and now hatred toward women and toward men make up 70-80% of social conflict.
00:13:14Society as a whole has systemic structures that amplify hatred in our hearts..
00:13:19Through five stages,
00:13:20hatred gets reproduced and becomes widespread in society,
00:13:24and I might cover that in a future video.
00:13:26Topics this sensitive get criticized no matter what,
00:13:29so it might be wiser not to cover them on YouTube.
00:13:32But if it can reach the hearts of some of my younger friends like siblings,
00:13:36I think it's worth the risk,
00:13:38so I'll cover it sometime..
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00:13:57So we've covered steps one through three of pursuing economic freedom correctly.
00:14:02Step four we covered in the previous episode.
00:14:05Pursue economic freedom with the right methods and mindset: skill,
00:14:09risk,
00:14:09inefficiency,
00:14:10and time.
00:14:10Polish your skills,
00:14:11manage risk appropriately,
00:14:13invest sufficient time,
00:14:14and explore inefficiencies.
00:14:15See the previous episode for details..
00:14:18The final step is developing habits that optimize happiness,
00:14:21not wealth.
00:14:22Our goal is to move upward on the graph,
00:14:25not just to the right.
00:14:27We move right because it helps us move upward.
00:14:31And another important thing: it needs to be about increasing happiness long-term,
00:14:35not just short-term.
00:14:37For example, let's say you get some extra free time.
00:14:39How should you use it?
00:14:41If you meditate,
00:14:42enjoy hobbies,
00:14:42or spend time with family,
00:14:43it won't help you accumulate wealth,
00:14:45but it will increase your happiness a bit.
00:14:47On the other hand,
00:14:48if you spend that time working without rest to make more money and become extremely stressed,
00:14:52you'll accumulate wealth,
00:14:53but your happiness will decrease even more.
00:14:55Or if you find a side job you enjoy or personal development you can actually look forward to,
00:14:58then you'll see upward momentum.
00:14:59Of course,
00:14:59these choices are just extreme examples,
00:15:01and there are actually many different ways to use your leisure time.
00:15:04In those cases,
00:15:05you shouldn't automatically spend all that extra time making more money.
00:15:08Instead,
00:15:08you should take a moment to think about where true happiness optimization lies before making your decision..
00:15:12Let me give another example: an office worker who absolutely hates their job.
00:15:16They can't stand their boss,
00:15:17they're constantly stressed,
00:15:18but the salary is excellent.
00:15:20So they earn good money,
00:15:20but their happiness decreases,
00:15:21and they try to compensate on weekends with hobbies and leisure activities.
00:15:24In that case,
00:15:25it might actually maximize happiness to switch to a less stressful company with more comfortable work environment,
00:15:30even if it pays less,
00:15:31and spend the extra free time on personal development or less frequent hobbies.
00:15:35Here's another example: the amateur full-time investor.
00:15:37The stock market happens to be in a good period,
00:15:39so they make significant profits.
00:15:40Thinking they're actually talented,
00:15:42they quit their job and become a full-time investor..
00:15:44Initially,
00:15:44even with small losses,
00:15:45they're happy because they don't have to see their boss or deal with workplace stress.
00:15:49But just because they're happy without losses should they go ahead with this decision?
00:15:51Of course not.
00:15:52As losses continue from full-time investing,
00:15:54their assets shrink,
00:15:55and their happiness drops too.
00:15:57Of course,
00:15:57all these examples are just hypothetical scenarios.
00:16:00Everyone faces completely different circumstances,
00:16:03and these patterns might not be accurate.
00:16:05But you understand the main point, right?
00:16:07What I'm saying is,
00:16:08try to find your own optimization within this kind of framework.
00:16:11As you pursue financial freedom,
00:16:13channeling all your limited time,
00:16:15capital,
00:16:15mental energy,
00:16:16and stress tolerance solely into earning more money isn't the best approach.
00:16:22You can invest these resources into earning more money and find happiness with that extra income.
00:16:27Or you can directly spend that time and capital on pursuing happiness right now and gain happiness that way..
00:16:34You should examine both options from a long-term perspective and optimize for the greatest happiness increase.
00:16:38Working two extra hours daily to earn an extra million won a month to give your parents might not bring as much happiness as calling them for 30 minutes daily.
00:16:48Or stressing over stock price fluctuations chasing a 10% annual return might be less fulfilling than a peaceful passive investment at 5% return while spending quality time with your daughter..
00:16:59But what if there's a way to increase your current happiness without spending any of these limited resources—your time,
00:17:05capital,
00:17:06or mental energy?
00:17:07That's like a free lunch in happiness optimization,
00:17:09so you absolutely should do it.
00:17:10So what is it?
00:17:11The hint can be found in the life of Buddha,
00:17:13Siddhartha Gautama.
00:17:14Buddhism,
00:17:15in its essence,
00:17:15isn't actually a religion in the traditional sense.
00:17:17Going to temples,
00:17:18bowing,
00:17:19praying for wishes to Buddha—those are devotional practices people added socially later.
00:17:23The historical Siddhartha spent his life pursuing an answer to one question: how can we escape the suffering of birth,
00:17:28aging,
00:17:29illness,
00:17:29and death??
00:17:30So he can be called a philosopher who pursued and researched this question.
00:17:32The direction Buddha pursued was this: complete liberation from all suffering.
00:17:35In Buddhist terms, this is called enlightenment.
00:17:37But I don't think we need to actually renounce the world and pursue enlightenment in our modern lives.
00:17:41However,
00:17:41I believe we can take useful hints and tips from Buddha's life and the lives of other practitioners to apply in our own pursuit of happiness.
00:17:49The most representative of these is meditation.
00:17:51I've briefly mentioned meditation in another video,
00:17:53and many people already know meditation is good,
00:17:56but it's actually difficult to start practicing it immediately.
00:17:59So today I'll introduce you to a simple method that doesn't even take much time.
00:18:02First,
00:18:03let me briefly explain the principle: our human autonomic nervous system is divided into two parts—the sympathetic and parasympathetic nervous systems.
00:18:09The sympathetic nervous system activates during stressful situations.
00:18:12In a crisis,
00:18:13the sympathetic nervous system kicks in,
00:18:15tenses our body,
00:18:16makes our heart race,
00:18:17and gives us the ability to respond to emergencies.
00:18:20But ancient humans lived alongside African predators,
00:18:23so the sympathetic nervous system was essential for survival.
00:18:25Modern humans,
00:18:26though,
00:18:26don't really face situations where we're likely to be attacked by wild animals or fall to our deaths..
00:18:31Due to evolutionary reasons,
00:18:32we're experiencing unnecessary stress and tension.
00:18:34Even when a boss yells at us at work,
00:18:36it's not actually a threat to survival,
00:18:37so we shouldn't be nervous,
00:18:39yet our sympathetic nervous system automatically responds.
00:18:41Beyond that,
00:18:42smartphones,
00:18:42gaming,
00:18:43pornography,
00:18:43sensational social media content,
00:18:45and malicious comments all overstimulate the sympathetic nervous system.
00:18:47This causes stress hormones like cortisol to be released while suppressing serotonin,
00:18:52which provides happiness.
00:18:53When this becomes chronic,
00:18:54it leads to various health problems..
00:18:56Actually,
00:18:56many problems we experience in daily life stem from this.
00:18:59In contrast to the sympathetic nervous system,
00:19:01the parasympathetic nervous system acts to counterbalance it,
00:19:04providing calm and relaxation.
00:19:05It reduces anxiety and stress while promoting healing.
00:19:08So we need to activate the parasympathetic nervous system,
00:19:10and Harvard Medical School researcher Dr.
00:19:12Herbert Benson's team has been conducting long-term studies on meditation..
00:19:16For example,
00:19:16research shows that transcendental meditation using mantras suppresses gene expression that triggers the sympathetic nervous system,
00:19:23which helps prevent cellular damage.
00:19:25This content is well-covered in this book,
00:19:26which I recommended in my last video.
00:19:28It's not an advertisement,
00:19:29and the author is a psychology professor at Seoul National University with no connection to me,
00:19:33though I found out he sadly passed away last year.
00:19:35But it's a really great book,
00:19:36so I recommend it to anyone interested in this topic.
00:19:39However,
00:19:39even if I talk about this in a video,
00:19:41not many people will go meditate immediately.
00:19:43Most will think,
00:19:44'Oh,
00:19:44that's nice,
00:19:45I should try it someday,
00:19:46' and forget about it.
00:19:47Or even if they get motivated and start,
00:19:48most will likely give up after three days..
00:19:50Because I'm the same way—I start and stop meditation constantly.
00:19:54So the method I found effective is starting with the simplest,
00:19:57minimal meditation possible,
00:19:58without any time or money required.
00:20:00And that is breathing.
00:20:02Most of the time, we breathe shallowly using our chest.
00:20:05But try changing just this one thing to deep belly breathing.
00:20:08It's simple—just let your belly expand and contract,
00:20:11not your chest.
00:20:11Do it consciously,
00:20:12and when you forget,
00:20:13just pick it up again the next time you remember.
00:20:15You can do it while walking,
00:20:16or right before sleep—whenever you remember.
00:20:18Each time you do this,
00:20:19your parasympathetic nervous system gets activated..
00:20:22If you observe animals,
00:20:23carnivores breathe deeply and maintain constant alertness,
00:20:26while prey animals breathe shallowly and rapidly,
00:20:29always tense.
00:20:29Another way to increase happiness is managing your unconscious mind.
00:20:34You've probably heard that beneath our conscious awareness lies a much deeper and wider world of the unconscious.
00:20:39Managing this part is actually quite important.
00:20:42When children are very young,
00:20:43they absorb experiences into their unconscious without filtering,
00:20:46which is why we need to be careful what TV shows we expose babies to.
00:20:49But even as we grow older,
00:20:50this management remains necessary..
00:20:51If negative experiences,
00:20:52emotions,
00:20:53and stress accumulate in the unconscious,
00:20:55they get expressed negatively in your emotions.
00:20:57When you don't process these in healthy ways and instead continuously seek stimulation through gaming or pornography,
00:21:02or vent through malicious comments,
00:21:03these negative patterns feed back into your unconscious,
00:21:05creating a vicious cycle..
00:21:07For example,
00:21:07leaving malicious comments comes from inner pain you're trying to release by hurting others' feelings,
00:21:13but the person who experiences this most vividly and immediately is yourself.
00:21:18The greatest harm comes to you,
00:21:20and it becomes the deepest imprint on your unconscious.
00:21:23So the second way to increase happiness vertically without spending time or money is managing your unconscious mind.
00:21:28But since words alone make it hard to practice,
00:21:30let me give you one simple tip..
00:21:32It's something I'm working on lately: consciously acknowledging positive experiences.
00:21:37Once a day,
00:21:37when something good or happy happens,
00:21:39try to consciously hold it in your mind for a few seconds and intentionally store it in your memory.
00:21:45Even the most exhausting,
00:21:47difficult day contains at least one small moment of happiness.
00:21:50When you find it—maybe you drank an incredibly refreshing glass of water,
00:21:53or on a truly hard day,
00:21:55the relief of lying in bed—try your best to imprint these moments in your unconscious..
00:21:59If consciously doing this feels difficult,
00:22:01a helpful method is keeping a gratitude journal.
00:22:04Writing a journal is a conscious, intentional act.
00:22:06When you write a gratitude journal,
00:22:07you're improving your unconscious mind through this conscious action.
00:22:09Also,
00:22:10among the people around you,
00:22:11there might be some you see regularly but who constantly give off negative energy.
00:22:15Try praising and thanking those people.
00:22:18As their unconscious gradually improves,
00:22:21that positive feedback will come back to you.
00:22:23Of course,
00:22:24I tried complimenting my wife yesterday,
00:22:27and I still need to see if it works out.
00:22:30So to summarize today's second part of the financial freedom formula: we pursue financial freedom because we want to escape suffering—the inability to control the world according to our wishes.
00:22:39However,
00:22:39only some of the suffering people experience can actually be solved with money,
00:22:43and there can be side effects if freedom is given to someone unprepared for it.
00:22:46Just like NBA and NFL players,
00:22:48we shouldn't blame all our current unhappiness on money or postpone happiness while pursuing financial freedom.
00:22:56Keeping these points in mind,
00:22:58the right ways to pursue financial freedom are: 1) Make a list of your suffering,
00:23:022) Acknowledge that not all your suffering is caused by lack of money,
00:23:063) Start solving problems you can address right now,
00:23:084) Pursue financial freedom with the correct methods and mindset,
00:23:125) Develop habits that optimize happiness,
00:23:14not just wealth.
00:23:15And for simple methods you can do right now to increase happiness: activate your parasympathetic nervous system and calm your sympathetic nervous system through meditation.
00:23:24You can simply develop a habit of breathing deeply to achieve this.
00:23:27Second,
00:23:28manage your unconscious by consciously recognizing positive experiences,
00:23:31keeping a gratitude journal,
00:23:33and so on.
00:23:33That concludes today's discussion on the financial freedom formula's final destination and the true purpose of financial freedom.
00:23:40I'm not someone who has it all figured out.
00:23:42Rather,
00:23:43I share the trial-and-error lessons I've learned and continue learning,
00:23:46hoping we can all make this effort together.
00:23:49Thank you for watching,
00:23:50and I'll prepare the next video to see you again..

Key Takeaway

Financial freedom should be pursued with the understanding that money solves only certain types of suffering, and true success requires simultaneously optimizing current happiness through practical techniques rather than postponing well-being until after achieving economic freedom.

Highlights

Money solves suffering only up to a certain income level (around 100 million won annually); beyond that point, additional wealth does not increase happiness due to diminishing returns

Three dangerous patterns emerge when pursuing financial freedom: indulging in excessive pleasure, over-sacrificing current happiness, and developing habitual negative thinking that reduces overall capacity for joy

Not all suffering can be solved with money—aging, physical health, lost relationships, and mental health issues remain problematic even with wealth, requiring a 'suffering list' to identify solvable versus unsolvable problems

Happy people earn more money and achieve better results in life, creating a virtuous cycle where improving present happiness accelerates progress toward financial freedom rather than delaying it

Two free techniques to increase happiness without spending time, money, or mental energy: deep belly breathing to activate the parasympathetic nervous system, and consciously acknowledging positive experiences through journaling

The mountain climbing analogy illustrates that financial freedom is a means, not an end goal—pursuing it without understanding your true destination leads to climbing the wrong mountain and experiencing regret

Five essential steps for pursuing financial freedom correctly: create a suffering list, acknowledge non-financial suffering sources, solve fixable problems immediately, use proper methods and mindset, and develop happiness-optimizing habits

Timeline

Introduction: The Flawed Happiness-Wealth Graph

The video opens by examining the relationship between wealth and happiness, presenting a graph showing that money increases happiness up to a certain income level before plateauing. The speaker, Olga, identifies two major flaws in this conventional understanding: first, it represents only an average across populations rather than individual trajectories, and second, it uses cross-sectional data from different people at one moment rather than showing how an individual's happiness changes over time as they accumulate wealth. The speaker emphasizes that pursuing financial freedom without understanding your true underlying motivation—whether seeking pleasure or escaping suffering—leads to climbing the wrong metaphorical mountain. This section establishes the critical premise that financial freedom is a means to an end, not the destination itself, and viewers must clarify their true goals before beginning the wealth-building journey.

Creating Your Suffering List and Identifying Money-Solvable Problems

The speaker introduces the concept of a 'suffering list' as a broader framework than bucket lists, explaining that every unfulfilled desire on a bucket list represents a form of suffering. The list should include current problems like workplace issues, relationships troubles, and health concerns, as well as future potential suffering such as aging and health deterioration. Viewers are instructed to pause and write their own list, then categorize which problems can be solved with money and which cannot—with aging, physical health, lost relationships, and mental health being identified as inherently resistant to monetary solutions. The speaker notes that research consistently shows only a minority of suffering sources (approximately four items from the examples given) cannot be addressed by money, emphasizing that wealth has real but limited power to reduce life suffering and that recognizing these limits is essential for making wise financial decisions.

Three Patterns of Failure After Achieving Financial Freedom

The speaker describes three common patterns where people achieve economic freedom but experience decreased happiness: first, indulging in excessive pleasure (alcohol, drugs, partying) which follows the law of diminishing marginal utility and creates accompanying health and mental problems, exemplified by statistics showing 60-78% of professional athletes go bankrupt within five years of retirement despite enormous earnings. Second, over-sacrificing current happiness while pursuing freedom—eating only ramen, avoiding hospitals, becoming obsessively frugal—which allows non-monetary suffering to compound and become unsolvable, exemplified by a case of someone who saved until age 50 but then remained trapped in poverty mentality. Third, habitual negative thinking and stress-relieving behaviors like gaming or malicious commenting, which accumulate negative images in the unconscious mind and reduce overall capacity for happiness even when circumstances improve. The speaker stresses that freedom itself is not the opposite of suffering, and unprepared individuals can squander economic freedom or fail to experience its benefits.

Why Current Happiness Matters While Pursuing Financial Freedom

The speaker explains three interconnected reasons why solving fixable problems immediately accelerates financial success rather than slowing it down. Research demonstrates that happy people make more money than unhappy people—they receive faster promotions, higher salaries, and achieve better investment returns because they make more rational decisions without stress-induced desperation or gambling behavior. Second, certain problems worsen if ignored and eventually become unsolvable, particularly health and relationship issues that deteriorate over time without attention. Third, habitually negative thinking patterns become increasingly difficult to change as they create dopamine-reinforced behavioral loops, making it harder to cultivate happiness later even after achieving wealth. The speaker illustrates this with practical examples of job switching to reduce stress, passive investing for peace of mind, or daily phone calls to parents—showing that strategic allocation of limited resources (time, capital, mental energy) toward present happiness can paradoxically accelerate wealth accumulation while improving life quality.

Five-Step Framework for Correct Financial Freedom Pursuit

The speaker consolidates the episode's guidance into five systematic steps: creating a suffering list to clarify problems, confronting the reality that not all suffering stems from money, immediately addressing solvable problems rather than postponing them, pursuing financial freedom through correct methods (skill, risk, inefficiency, and time management), and developing habits that optimize happiness rather than just wealth accumulation. The speaker emphasizes that the goal is to move upward on the happiness graph while moving rightward on the wealth axis, and that movement along both dimensions simultaneously is possible and preferable. This framework acknowledges that financial freedom pursuit requires not just earning strategies but also intentional life design that considers long-term happiness outcomes, including career satisfaction, relationship maintenance, and health preservation alongside wealth building.

The Autonomic Nervous System, Meditation, and Deep Breathing

The speaker explains the neurological basis for stress and introduces meditation as a practical happiness-enhancement tool that requires no time or money investment. The autonomic nervous system comprises the sympathetic nervous system (activated during stress, evolved for survival against predators) and the parasympathetic nervous system (providing calm and relaxation, promoting healing). Modern life—with smartphones, gaming, social media, and malicious comments—chronically overstimulates the sympathetic nervous system, releasing cortisol while suppressing serotonin, leading to health problems and reduced happiness capacity. Research by Harvard Medical School's Dr. Herbert Benson demonstrates that meditation suppresses genes triggering the sympathetic response and prevents cellular damage. The speaker offers a simplified alternative to formal meditation: conscious deep belly breathing (rather than shallow chest breathing) that can be practiced anytime while walking or before sleep, immediately activating the parasympathetic nervous system and providing cumulative benefits without requiring dedicated meditation time or practice discipline.

Managing the Unconscious Mind and Building Positive Memory Patterns

The speaker explains that the unconscious mind accumulates experiences, emotions, and stress, and when negative content dominates, it manifests as negative emotions and behaviors in daily life. Unhealthy coping mechanisms like gaming, pornography, or leaving malicious comments create a vicious cycle—the person intends to release inner pain by hurting others, but experiences the greatest harm themselves through unconscious imprinting and guilt. To increase happiness vertically without spending resources, the speaker recommends consciously acknowledging and holding positive experiences in mind for a few seconds, intentionally storing them in memory, and using gratitude journaling as a structured method for this practice. Even difficult days contain small moments of happiness (refreshing water, relief of lying in bed) that deserve conscious recognition and storage in the unconscious mind, gradually building a reservoir of positive experiences that increases overall happiness capacity. The speaker also recommends praising and thanking people with negative energy patterns, as their unconscious improvement may create positive feedback that benefits the speaker's own well-being.

Conclusion: Integrating Financial and Happiness Goals

The speaker summarizes the complete financial freedom formula, reiterating that economic freedom exists to escape suffering caused by lack of control over one's world, but recognizing that money has inherent limits in solving all suffering types. The speaker positions themselves not as someone with all answers but as someone sharing trial-and-error lessons learned through personal experience, inviting viewers to make this effort collectively. The episode concludes by reinforcing that simultaneous optimization of current happiness and future financial freedom is both possible and necessary, and that the practical techniques introduced (breathing, gratitude journaling, positive experience recognition) provide immediately accessible methods for happiness improvement while pursuing longer-term wealth goals without requiring significant additional resources or time commitment.

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