Why You’re Addicted to Always Being Productive

CChris Williamson
정신 건강경영/리더십다이어트/영양

Transcript

00:00:00I talked about this idea from Joe Hudson that operator guy to idea guy, which is you need
00:00:07to think about where productivity comes from a little bit more carefully.
00:00:13And I also realized that there is surprisingly an analogy between gastric band surgery and
00:00:19being busy.
00:00:20So the gastric band surgery of being busy is after ongoing gastric band surgery, people's
00:00:27risk of suicide tends to go up.
00:00:30And that's perhaps unsurprising because gastric band surgery is a big deal and can sometimes
00:00:35have complications, infections, painful outcomes, you're literally like putting a belt around
00:00:41your stomach to make it smaller so that you can't eat as much.
00:00:45So the old school version of Ozempic, you know, you're physically getting in there and having
00:00:51to limit the space.
00:00:53But one of the unseen reasons for this increased suicide risk is actually due to the surgery
00:00:59going right, not it going wrong.
00:01:02So you understand gastric band surgery, lots of complications, infections, painful outcomes,
00:01:07but it going right can have as bad of an impact on people as it going wrong.
00:01:12Many patients used food as a way to deal with issues in their lives, emotional challenges,
00:01:19loneliness, anxiety, and after having their stomach shrunk, the ability to use food as
00:01:24a comforting crutch has been taken away.
00:01:28But the emotional challenges that they were using food to deal with still remain.
00:01:34So the coping mechanism has been taken away and it forces patients now to face their issues
00:01:42without a release valve.
00:01:44And I think that there is an equivalent dynamic happening when you try to elevate your life
00:01:50to take your sense of self-worth from things other than your work and your level of busyness.
00:01:56So let's say that in the past you used busyness and chaos as a way to distract yourself from
00:02:03feeling unwanted emotions.
00:02:05It meant that you didn't need to reflect on your decisions or sit in discomfort, that you're
00:02:11moving so quickly that you never fully connect with the things that are happening in your
00:02:15life – lost relationships, disconnected friends, poor decisions, accumulated negative character
00:02:22traits – they're all swept away so quickly that you don't even have time to consider
00:02:29them by manic work rate.
00:02:32So eventually you realize that chaotic busyness is not your highest calling in life and maybe
00:02:37you value different things now or maybe you've outgrown that phase of your life or maybe
00:02:41realize that busyness for busyness' sake is detaching you from connecting to your existence.
00:02:47So the question here is what happens when this coping mechanism gets taken away?
00:02:54You are forced to face your issues without the highly distracting release valve that you're
00:03:00used to.
00:03:01The busyness anesthetic that you used to previously rely on has now been removed leaving you with
00:03:09two choices.
00:03:10One, ignore the lesson that chaos is not fulfillment and go back down the road you just escaped
00:03:17from by force feeding your way through this figurative gastric band.
00:03:22Number two, actually learn to handle emotional discomfort without distracting yourself with
00:03:28work and gastric bands I guess in the world of Mozempic are kind of like an old archaic
00:03:35technology but I do think that the analogy works that you have this realization that comes
00:03:42in with regards to your busyness, hey maybe this isn't where I should take most of my
00:03:46self-worth from, maybe I am hiding the deeper levels of connection between me and the world
00:03:51in my chaos and this heavily built-out calendar, what is it, a busy calendar is a hedge against
00:03:58existential loneliness.
00:04:00Okay, so that's kind of the what you call like the cognitive gastric band you've had this
00:04:06thing wrapped around you okay I've really limited my capacity to do that old workload and not
00:04:14feel sick by it.
00:04:17Why were you working that hard?
00:04:20Maybe because you just have raw ambition and I want to make the most of my life I'm going
00:04:23to make a dent in the world I'm going to do all of these things yeah and that will be some
00:04:27of it but that's not all of it man like it's a coping mechanism like what are you hiding
00:04:33from you're hiding from something and even if you're not hiding from something you will
00:04:37have hidden things by being that busy or maybe more accurately you will have been a been unable
00:04:45to notice things by being that busy so it's either notice hide or from being so busy have
00:04:53hidden and then when the busyness goes away start to notice so either way if the busyness
00:04:58begins to slow down stuff tends to bubble to the surface and look like I'm fucking speaking
00:05:04to myself here okay all of these are thinly veiled autobiographical notes to self but it's
00:05:11a challenge where do I take my sense of self-worth from now how am I going to deal with not being
00:05:17able to hide emotions in sweeping them under the rug of bravado and momentum is a good way
00:05:25to think about it and there's this idea from Ryan holiday that says be quiet work hard and
00:05:30stay healthy it's not ambition or skill that is going to set you apart but sanity and that's
00:05:38sounds fantastic apart from the fact that working hard often stops you from being able to remain
00:05:45sane especially if you push it if we accept and I think this is true that peace is a performance
00:05:51enhancer that if you are unpeaceful if you are in dysregulated states all of the time
00:05:57you don't get to access creativity which is the highest lever that you've got you're not
00:06:01enjoying the work so your motivation is going to decrease every single day even if each time
00:06:09that you do a thing it only saps naught point one percent of your motivation I'm about to
00:06:16hit episode 1000 I would be at zero percent motivation and there have been times when the
00:06:21way that I have done work has been net negative to my motivation so if you want to do a thing
00:06:27for a very long time like over seven and a half years which is I guess how long I've been
00:06:31doing the show I've done a pretty quick clip right like a thousand episodes in seven and
00:06:35a half years is pretty quick like even if I'd only lost naught point one percent of my motivation
00:06:41each episode I would I would be in the red right I would be overdrawn by now it is not
00:06:46ambition or skill that is going to set you apart but sanity and I think that that's because
00:06:49so many people make trades that they in the moment seem it seems smart but in retrospect
00:06:55you realize was actually the thing that was supposed to keep you going so given that we
00:07:01know that dialing back a little bit of the workload having a little bit of balance once
00:07:05you've reached escape velocity this is not for you in the first five years of doing whatever
00:07:08you're doing like end yourself that's the job the job is nose goes against grindstone sleep
00:07:14is out of the window the candle gets burned on three ends that's what you're supposed to
00:07:18do okay let's assume you've got to a little bit of escape velocity there's some momentum
00:07:24now you need to ask yourself some deeper questions because the monster that you created inside
00:07:29of yourself to deal with the challenges at the start of your journey is very difficult
00:07:33to handle becomes super unwieldy and undisciplined later in your journey and if you don't step
00:07:39in soon enough it's no longer like a dog on a leash pulling you forward it's more like
00:07:45a parasite that's grown inside of you and is staring out of your eyes like the difference
00:07:49between you and the drive is very hard to pull apart and I think that's why I've been talking
00:07:54about this so much recently that this last 12 months I've really tried sort of ask myself
00:08:00the question who am I if I'm not busy all the time or who am I if busyness isn't my primary
00:08:09contribution to the stuff that I do fucking hard question it's really hard question to
00:08:17answer but Mark Ranson as well just had this banger from the start of the year which was
00:08:23before you win everyone will ask you why you're working so hard and after you win everyone
00:08:27will remind you how lucky you got homo Z twisted that into before you win everyone will ask
00:08:33you why you're working so hard and after you win everyone will ask you why you're working
00:08:37so hard if that doesn't just go to show that most people are not worth listening to like
00:08:43myself included right but I do think that this is true like the like self-grandiosity of every
00:08:51person that's just come upon a an idea that they can't stop talking about I think this
00:08:55one's got some legs to it all right most people are not worth listening to me included but
00:08:59this one's got some legs so do your own assessment your results may vary but it's tough letting
00:09:05go of busyness leaning into what would a little bit of calm be like for a while and then turning
00:09:16that up and turning that up and turning that up because why did you work so hard if it was
00:09:19just to allow yourself to work harder in the future that's not to say that working hard
00:09:24isn't enjoyable but that by working hard you don't fully get to connect with life because
00:09:29it sweeps lots of things under the rug and it is a coping mechanism it is an obese person
00:09:35using food as a crutch you are obese with your workload you are a workload fatty and you are
00:09:41continuing to eat and that is how you deal with your problems so think about what it would
00:09:48be like to go on a diet a quick aside do you remember learning about the mighty mitochondria
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Key Takeaway

Constant busyness often serves as a psychological crutch to avoid emotional discomfort, requiring individuals to eventually prioritize sanity and internal peace over manic productivity to achieve long-term fulfillment and creativity.

Highlights

The analogy between gastric band surgery and chronic busyness as emotional coping mechanisms.

Busyness acts as an anesthetic or 'release valve' that prevents individuals from facing existential loneliness or personal issues.

The concept of 'sanity' rather than just ambition or skill as the ultimate differentiator for long-term success.

Peace is identified as a critical performance enhancer necessary for accessing high-level creativity.

The 'escape velocity' theory: hard work is necessary early on, but creates a 'parasitic' drive that must be managed later.

The challenge of redefining self-worth when it is no longer tied to a manic workload or constant productivity.

Timeline

The Gastric Band Analogy of Busyness

The speaker introduces a provocative analogy comparing gastric band surgery to the habit of staying busy. He explains that just as some patients face increased mental health risks after surgery because their primary coping mechanism—food—is removed, busy people suffer when their work distractions are taken away. Busyness serves as a physical and emotional 'belt' that limits the space one has to feel anxiety or loneliness. This section explores how manic work rates sweep away negative character traits and failed relationships before they can be processed. Ultimately, the speaker argues that busyness is often a 'release valve' for issues that remain even when the work stops.

Confronting the Busyness Anesthetic

This section examines the moment an individual realizes that chaotic busyness is not their highest calling. Once this 'busyness anesthetic' is removed, a person is left with the choice to either force-feed themselves more work or learn to handle emotional discomfort. The speaker suggests that a heavily built-out calendar is often just a hedge against existential loneliness and deep-seated fears. He admits these observations are autobiographical reflections on his own struggle to find self-worth outside of productivity. By slowing down, hidden emotions bubble to the surface, forcing a confrontation with the 'bravado and momentum' previously used as a rug to hide problems.

Sanity as a Performance Enhancer

Referencing Ryan Holiday, the speaker asserts that sanity, not just ambition or skill, is what truly sets successful people apart in the long run. He discusses the idea that 'peace is a performance enhancer,' noting that a dysregulated state prevents access to high-level creativity. Without enjoyment and peace, motivation gradually saps away, which the speaker illustrates using his own journey toward 1,000 podcast episodes. He argues that many people make trades for productivity in the short term that eventually destroy the very sanity required to keep going. This section emphasizes that maintaining one's mental health is a strategic advantage for longevity in any field.

Managing the Internal Monster

The speaker explores the 'escape velocity' phase of a career, noting that while extreme hard work is necessary at the start, it creates an internal 'monster' that becomes difficult to control. This drive can transform from a helpful tool into a parasite that consumes the individual's identity. He challenges the listener to ask who they are when they are not busy and why they worked so hard if the only result is more work. The transcript draws a final parallel to being 'obese with a workload,' where work is used as a crutch similar to food. He encourages a 'diet' from busyness to allow for a true connection with life and existence.

Mitochondrial Health and Final Thoughts

The final section transitions into a discussion about physical health and the role of mitochondria in maintaining energy levels as one ages. The speaker shares his personal routine of using a urolithin A supplement called Timeline to clear out damaged mitochondria and recharge his cellular 'engines.' This segment is backed by mentions of clinical trials and doctor recommendations, connecting physical vitality back to the theme of long-term sustainability. The speaker concludes by offering a discount code for the supplement and congratulating the viewer for finishing the video. He emphasizes that taking care of the body is as important as managing the mind for those seeking high performance.

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