“They Wanted A Bad Guy, So I Became One” - Ryan Garcia

CChris Williamson
운동/피트니스경영/리더십정신 건강세금/절세

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00:00:00i'm fascinated by you saying that you don't think when you're in the ring what's happening
00:00:04i'm just picking up on cues really um and then kind of like there's these instincts and intuition
00:00:11that are just kind of there you know like oh me like you kind of get a feeling where okay i need
00:00:16to start putting pressure on this man or i need to you know uh move a little bit it's just like
00:00:21kind of momentum shifts that you're kind of noticing little by little and then um there's
00:00:26obviously times where i'm thinking like sometimes i'll just have like mantras in my head like
00:00:29that i've done in camp you know stay focused like the last fight the whole time when i was fighting
00:00:34him i would just say like stay focused stay focused stay focused you know so it was just like little
00:00:38things that i would say in my mind but i'm not really necessarily thinking not thinking
00:00:43but thinking but yeah of course does that mean when you look back on a fight
00:00:50how much of it can you remember the pivotal moments like um
00:00:56like my last fight uh i remember i started getting comfortable in like the 11th round just messing with
00:01:03the guy smacking him looking at the trainer and then lowering my hand a little bit and then you know
00:01:08tasting the right hand i was like don't do that and then kind of like snapping myself back in so i
00:01:15remember those moments i remember you know when i dropped them but i mean for the most part i have to
00:01:21like look back at the fight to really recall most of it and that's strange it is weird it's so strange
00:01:26so i'm friends with musicians comedians sports people and i do live stuff too these conversations
00:01:34once you get into a flow state and you're not thinking that much and things are just happening
00:01:38that's what people want to get to it's really enjoyable it's why your performance is at its best
00:01:44you're moving quickly your brain isn't getting in the way of what you're supposed to do yeah but it's
00:01:49also the thing that kind of robs you of your memory because you're not thinking and you're just doing
00:01:55yeah you're you can't remember it's so funny i mean obviously your job is not to have a good time
00:02:01yeah your job is to win yeah and winning requires you to be in the best state possible
00:02:06but it is funny that the mental state that humans perform best in is also the one that they can
00:02:12remember the least so i wonder how many people that are elite performers comedians artists musicians
00:02:18sports stars look back on their career and they go i'm glad that it was video dude because i'm i kind
00:02:24of wasn't really there for it all that much yeah i mean it is interesting but then also you have like
00:02:30guys like um i guess i don't know if it's like necessary a sport but you know chess guys like uh
00:02:36magnus carlson and just like all those top chess players they could memorize games from you know when
00:02:41they were like five and you're like oh shit like you know where's that come from that's a different
00:02:46kind of sport maybe it is it is yeah i mean you have to use your brain there yeah yeah but i i wonder
00:02:51even if in that you go okay you know what the movements were but can you tell me what you were
00:02:55thinking how you were feeling what you were wearing can you tell me where people were sat can you tell me
00:02:59what emotions were coming up maybe not they're just optimized for one very specific thing which is
00:03:04what are the exact movements on the chessboard right right it's funny yeah it is funny yeah
00:03:10well i all i know is uh i like to win that's all i you know i mean the joy comes after the fight
00:03:17right well you've got a job to do you're a professional yeah i think i like the idea of
00:03:21people treating their pursuits as a professional even people that aren't doing it in that way but you
00:03:28know you're uh i like the the journey of understanding like how much levels there
00:03:34actually is to anything right like say construction or something that's their profession but like
00:03:40there's levels to it people that could construct like these huge buildings and people are constructing
00:03:45you know a little table but there's also levels to building a table some people make a better table
00:03:51than others why is that you know that's that's cool in itself so i find that uh the fun part of my job
00:03:59is just like damn there's so much more even when you think like you know i'm a world champion but i know
00:04:04there's just even more levels to it so you know so i just love that that part of it i didn't know that you
00:04:10started at seven years old and got homeschooled so that you could spend more time boxing around like 15
00:04:16that's when okay do you ever resent or regret missing out on a more normal childhood
00:04:24teenage years teenage experience stuff
00:04:27do i regret it no but i i do think it would have helped me
00:04:33if i went through that you know stuff earlier in life i wouldn't have got into some stupid shit later
00:04:40on you know what i mean because i would already had experienced a little bit of it you know
00:04:44it's kind of like a it helped me get to where i was at but then i didn't have experience with uh
00:04:49with things that came with you know money fame all those other things you want to make teenage
00:04:54mistakes when you're a teenager not when you're in your 20s exactly exactly 100 that's part of
00:04:59where i'm like ah maybe that could help me a little bit but strange the sacrifices that you've got to
00:05:04make in order to get to where you want to be yeah like that yeah i mean everything in life the
00:05:10greatest thing that came uh in this world came through a sacrifice right i mean i believe in jesus so
00:05:15that to me shows that if you want anything in life it has to require sacrifice in some way i don't know
00:05:22you know for other people obviously it's different but for me it was my childhood it was um
00:05:28it was many hours of training as a little kid running non-stop you know having to go to a bunch
00:05:35of tournaments and just kind of just my whole life was just all boxing what was a typical week like
00:05:43for you as a kid uh just my dad would you know have me train uh the whole week and then fight on the
00:05:48weekend so that's a 200 and something amateur 225 amateur fights yeah so there's a lot of uh road trips a
00:05:56lot of uh a lot of gym sessions and a lot of road work yeah but to me it was fun like i loved it going to
00:06:06the tournaments and the tournaments and hanging excuse me hanging out with all the kids uh you know to me that was like the moment i had a little bit of
00:06:14but yeah i had a lot of childhood and you know fun it was just those community yeah exactly the community of the sport so
00:06:21that was fun but yes everything requires sacrifice everything i think a lot of young guys did some sort of sport i did i was dedicated to cricket which is the
00:06:33some may some may some may say the elevated form of baseball uh but yeah uh it's kind of british pastime
00:06:40and that was my entire life from the age of 10 until the age of 18 i would play sometimes five or six
00:06:47matches a week plus training plus school games and i'd get pulled out of school to then have to go and play
00:06:54and then the only reason i went to university is because i thought that i was going to be able to play
00:06:58full-time when i went there and that that like dedication teaches you an awful lot but you do look
00:07:06back and go i wonder what i missed but if it set you up for the rest of life there's very few guys that
00:07:11i know that have ended up with a a really great work ethic in later life that didn't have something
00:07:17that they dedicated themselves to as a kid even if it was academic academia right some people just
00:07:22dedicated themselves to school they wanted to become really good at this thing it seems like
00:07:27extremely hard but i have seen so many people really dedicate themselves to school and i'm
00:07:30like dang how'd you do that that wasn't your vibe oh no i mean i was into math for a little bit
00:07:37and uh you know that was probably the only thing i excelled in but other than that i was kind of like
00:07:44not my thing your dad wanted to be boxer right my dad was a boxer for a little bit like an amateur
00:07:50fighter it was my uncle that was kind of uh more uh i guess uh
00:07:57you know i guess better um he was uh he went to the nationals he was the only one in my family that
00:08:02went to the nationals at that time and uh he lost but he said you know somebody in our family is going
00:08:09to come back here and uh you know he always he always oh i guess it's what he told me he said that
00:08:16you know he would always look for when a kid was born like all right this is going to be the one and
00:08:20then he said none of the all the kids came and you know he was like nope nope nope and then he said
00:08:26when i was born he was like all right that's the one that's insane i know i know it doesn't
00:08:29fucking sound real but that's that's what he said maybe he's just filling in my head so i could think
00:08:34yeah yeah you know and prepare like you know propel me to be like yeah i was always that guy
00:08:41yeah exactly but that's what he said it's a good story yeah so does it does it ever feel like pressure
00:08:46to have you know the weight of a a dad's maybe unfulfilled career and then an uncle's partly
00:08:53fulfilled career all of this riding on your shoulders not only that but all of the other
00:08:57kids that came and went it's like it's not you it's not you it's like the hunger games inside
00:09:01of a single family yeah i mean uh i still feel pressure you know but i think that's why part
00:09:08like partly i dedicated this last fight to my dad for the like you know my first world title i really
00:09:14wanted just to win that for him my whole reasoning for boxing just evolved over time i always you know
00:09:22i was in love with the game but then it kind of evolved to more uh a spiritual journey of you know
00:09:29where i feel uh i'm being guided to and however that is you know a lot of it is because of boxing
00:09:37you know what i mean uh and i don't know what the reasoning is but i just like to follow that
00:09:42so ever since i was little i felt like um little nudges here there you know what i mean i kind of
00:09:47trusted that and always wanted to understand what that is and why every time i followed it good things
00:09:53happen you know what i mean even if i don't get it then so that's kind of where i'm at of why i box
00:10:01that's like actually the only reason why i box it's just because it's always that's what's in me right
00:10:07now maybe it'll take me somewhere else later but right now it's like this is where i'm at there's
00:10:12something pulling you toward it oh yeah yeah so but uh you know i'm happy i won the championship
00:10:17yeah i'll take it of course exactly so um but yeah i think this was my dad's i mean it's my it's
00:10:25everything for my dad he's so happy he's excited and my uncle's probably you know he's super thorough
00:10:30so it's cool it really is uh amazing to see how much joy that brings you know for me i just i just
00:10:38think okay just continue to stay focused you know don't get too high and don't get too low just stay
00:10:45stay stoic and just uh keep your you seem very regulated today you know regulated oh yeah you know
00:10:52just in nice bit of peace yeah i've seen you with varying levels of energy oh i've had that many times
00:10:59you don't want to get me started but you know it's okay man i told you i had to learn a lot
00:11:06so what have you learned recently been a tumultuous few years for you right i feel like what i've really
00:11:12learned is your body is uh literally a temple and what you put in it is uh just as important as what
00:11:19you put out you know what i mean so um just that journey of understanding how my body works and what can
00:11:26propel it to be at its best because usually you know when i was younger man i could put obviously
00:11:32anything in my body and i'm made of rubber and magic you can bounce back exactly and i'm just like
00:11:37thinking i'm unstoppable but god will humble you real quick and god or your liver or your brain yeah
00:11:43oh man it comes in many ways so um yeah i just just didn't like that certain things were taking me so
00:11:52much like you know off course that much and uh it took a uh it took a while for me to really be like
00:11:59all right you're not superman you just gotta you know you are superman when you put the right things
00:12:05in you right but you could go down just as quick yeah well everyone's got their kryptonite right yeah
00:12:10superman yeah exactly you know you put the wrong oil in the car i don't care if you have a ferrari if
00:12:15you you know it's not gonna go you've said uh i'm surprised i'm here right now yeah in the past yeah
00:12:22what was there a specific moment when you realized that you'd gone too far or did it just creep up over
00:12:27uh i think that when when when you could no longer you know get a hold of yourself and you didn't see
00:12:39the decisions you're making that that aren't good and you can't see that anymore i think that you've
00:12:44probably a little too far you know there's times where i was moving so fast that you know it just didn't
00:12:52seem like anything i was doing was wrong but it was what's that mean i just felt like
00:13:00i just felt like even though i'm not a prideful person it was displaying as pride to myself you
00:13:06know now looking back like no that that means it was just being prideful you know what i mean like
00:13:12like it just didn't it it didn't hit me at the time but you know i lost track of of of myself and
00:13:20who i really am and then that's when i knew i was like oh this is not this is not good you know and
00:13:26that's why i was surprised like dang i'm still here you know what i mean like did you have one of
00:13:31the roughest runs of form like kid custody problem mom diagnosed with cancer divorce all basically at
00:13:39the exact same time yeah yeah how does a person even process all that much at once uh i didn't
00:13:48i just kind of shoved it down with uh alcohol and uh just acting out trying to self-destruct anyway so
00:13:55i'm like all right everything's going bad let's sink the whole shit make it worse yeah let's just make
00:13:59it all worse you know and uh i just you know i had just knocked out a man and beat him so bad
00:14:08while self-destructing that all right i could do whatever i can do this yeah i can do this and
00:14:14that's where the humbling came no you can't you know and uh yeah that was a very rough stretch and
00:14:21it's something i try not to look back too much because it's like oh yeah not so proud it's hard
00:14:26no i'm not but um well i think uh a crash out was coming sooner or later anyways you know what i mean
00:14:35so i'm kind of glad it happened uh a little earlier if uh if haney beat me that night do you think this
00:14:41spiral would have been worse or actually might have just saved you earlier i have no idea isn't that funny
00:14:47i know it's so weird because i should have lost no way there's no way that could ever be replicated and
00:14:54that's where when these young boxers were trying to do that i'm like no man i'm sorry it's a high
00:14:58risk strategy it's not the right one don't do it um and to this day i still don't know how i did it
00:15:04to be honest because i would you remember of that period like that that fight build up and then then
00:15:08that day and it's so weird because like when you're drinking all the time the the timelines become so
00:15:13mashed up sometimes i think it's the other training camp i was in like in dallas so it's so weird but
00:15:19i remember uh i remember that i was feared fueled with so much anger that's what it was i was so angry
00:15:30at the world and at people and how they seen me as a fighter and how they see me as a person how even when
00:15:39i wasn't sword on sword crashing out they still judged me like harshly on everything i do but other
00:15:45people there's no judgment so it's like dang i feel like i'm getting targeted with the you know with the
00:15:52ruling stick and then i just crashed out and i was all right you guys want to see a piece of
00:15:56shit i'll show you a real piece of shit i'll drink i'll smoke and i'll and i'll you know talk so much
00:16:03shit and i was just so angry i was angry at the boxing community because they never gave me my
00:16:08credit you know i've been fighting since i was seven and i was looked at as some just bum that's
00:16:13gonna just get his ass whooped by this guy even though i beat him three times in the amateurs it's
00:16:17not like you know and i was a 15 time national champion so i just felt really disrespected by people
00:16:23and just life and i was like all right i'm gonna give them what they want they want a bad dude i'll
00:16:29give you a bad dude and uh like i said i let them change me for a time i let them break me and become
00:16:37a person that i'm not and uh i was just feeling anger and i wanted her to mad that's all i was
00:16:43thinking in my head i like when i came with the shirt murder on my mind i was dead serious i wanted to
00:16:48murder that man in the ring but he also wanted to murder me he said it he said he actually was the
00:16:53first one to say it he was like uh he's like we're gonna we're gonna this is the death of ryan garcia
00:16:59and then i i just snapped when he said that i was like oh you want to go death all right let's go
00:17:05so yeah that i just remember that time as i was feared with anger and nothing was gonna stop me
00:17:11i didn't care i got i got in fights with my trainer my dad everybody i was just angry everyone's
00:17:16getting it inspiring like they were screaming and i was like i don't care let's keep going
00:17:21like i was just filled with anger at that moment and uh anger and emotion i would cry a lot too i was
00:17:28crying just so mad about what people were calling me crazy and things like that you know and then
00:17:38you know a lot of the stuff i was talking about okay yes a little bit was played into conspiracy and all
00:17:44that but when it came to like the children and you know children sex trafficking i was dead serious
00:17:49about that like that was been on my mind since i seen uh i may have always known about this kind of
00:17:55stuff it's kind of always floated around but then when it's like in your face and and now like
00:18:00now that everybody sees it it's kind of different but back then it's like
00:18:05if it's a billion dollar industry like where's all the money coming from you know what i mean and it was
00:18:10kind of that thing that i felt like they're within enough said and that there's so many other movements
00:18:15that people get behind but like kids like we can't all come together and be like hey i should probably
00:18:22look into this it really did upset me and i was already angry so all that together just kind of one
00:18:29big you know boom and then yeah um but i don't regret that part you know i brought awareness to it even
00:18:40though it came out of something ugly in my you know how i you know displayed it but a lot of people
00:18:46started looking into it and they're oh it's actually kind of true and uh now that i teamed up with like
00:18:51tim tebow and his foundation and we're actually making real steps um i'm happy when were you first
00:18:57exposed to that stuff and uh it's weird man so again might not be believable but i was like in 2021
00:19:08after i defeated luke campbell i had a weird vision i don't know how but like i seen like
00:19:14it was like some image playing in my mind out and i just kind of followed it i don't know why
00:19:20but it was like a a beast or some animal coming out of a sea and then i seen like uh
00:19:27pretty much a bridge and uh and in my brain i was like san francisco and then like it just showed
00:19:32like people in the woods and then it showed people doing weird things and conjuring up weird things
00:19:38and doing weird things to like be dreaming or you like no i was awake i swear it was so weird
00:19:43just the image playing in my brain and uh i looked into like is there things in the woods in san
00:19:50francisco and it's like bohemian grove and i was like oh that's a weird thing to see and
00:19:54then i look it up and there's actually people that come into the woods that's like a straight
00:19:58coincidence so i looked into it and uh yeah then that's when you see alex jones talking about it
00:20:05and uh all these conspiracy things but then actually it was real they do meet up in the woods and uh
00:20:13they sacrifice i mean it's fake right it's effigies but sacrifice something to an owl or whatever so
00:20:21part of it is a little freaky that these politicians and people do meet in the woods but we'll get back
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00:21:53some of the different stories i've heard i don't know whether it was
00:21:57alex jones's retelling of it or maybe somebody else's that i've listened to
00:22:04sometimes i i see stuff online and i hear stories conspiracism or bad behavior nasty behavior immoral
00:22:11behavior okay that's that's someone doing something wrong and then there's other stories that i hear
00:22:17and it sounds
00:22:21i can't think of a better word like cursed like like
00:22:27almost uh forbidden yes yes yes you go okay that's something else and the bohemian grove story
00:22:37whether how much of it's true or not is one of those ones where i've just wanted to lean back a
00:22:41little bit further when i'm listening to it yeah i really don't like this i really really really
00:22:47don't like this yeah i'm too sure why i feel that too at times you're just like oh yeah and it's like
00:22:56is it all just a distraction like do we even need to be paying attention to this you know what i mean
00:23:01how much is it even relevant to to like can we make a difference if even if they are doing something
00:23:07crazy wrong you know well uh that's how i think of it sometimes certainly what seems to
00:23:14be happening at the moment if you were to think about how little disclosure there was about this
00:23:17sort of stuff 15 to 20 years ago compared with now and let's say let's say that there is some
00:23:25nasty stuff going on behind the scenes with people that are in power yeah for the last 200 years up
00:23:32until 20 years ago you had a pretty clean run deny control the media i do it in different sorts of
00:23:40ways have people killed off or or pay people off or do whatever that's not as easy to do because
00:23:47everyone's got democratized access to just hey i saw this thing and this is really weird and here's
00:23:53some evidence and everybody else can go that is weird yeah that is some evidence yeah and it's
00:24:00if i was a person in power that was doing loads of gnarly for the last 50 years i'd be like okay we
00:24:05need to change our tactics yeah this can't we can't do this anymore because things are going to appear
00:24:10people are going to be able to do research and tie little bits of red string together and realize
00:24:14like this thing's connected to this no for sure and uh you see the you see how now there's so much access
00:24:24with phones and so much access to like anybody could make a video about anything recording devices it's
00:24:31just so crazy now yeah and i think that i mean look at the you you hear talks now they want to disclose
00:24:38uh all the ufo uh knowledge it's like a lot of knowledge is like all right you guys can have it
00:24:44now like but like we can't we can't keep it we can't keep it together yeah well i mean dude look at
00:24:50the uh look at the the trump assassin assassination attempt three number three yeah exactly the three
00:24:56pete um and then everybody dying to all the scientists like that's that is that real uh there's
00:25:02definitely nasa scientists that are dying i don't know what they're working on i mean give it a week
00:25:08and a half i'm sure rogan's gonna have someone on that'll explain it all so i'll just wait i'll wait
00:25:11for the i'll wait for the rogan episode to come out but i was thinking about the videos that came out
00:25:14of the correspondence dinner where trump's getting rushed off stage and stuff every single different
00:25:19angle of that that you need someone's got to i saw this i don't know if you've seen these two so
00:25:24there's one where everybody's being rushed out of the room and there's some old boy looks like he's
00:25:28maybe in his 70s or 80s just sat in the corner just finishing his food doesn't give a single
00:25:33fuck and then there's another one of some lady uh nicely dressed lady and everyone's being rushed
00:25:38out of the room and she gets up to sort of go away from a table and before she leaves she goes
00:25:42leans back over and grabs a bottle of champagne she's like i must take the champagne with me before
00:25:46i think i was like just to have that composition homeboy's finishing his chowder and she's i i'll take
00:25:52the veuve clico with me before i leave that's going to be important for me later on it's like fair
00:25:56enough man but we've got every single angle we've got the angles of the people still eating their food
00:25:59we've got this so if you're trying to do some secret shit like eventually somebody's going to
00:26:03uncover it i mean do you see the guy that snuck onto epstein's island recently oh that was insane
00:26:08the vlog yeah you got on a jet ski got on there there's a drone above unreal that was crazy i did
00:26:13see that that that's insane and it's insane that they release it then take it back yep yeah that's
00:26:21insane too you said um you said for a good while that you were angry yeah does anger help you as a boxer
00:26:32not necessarily but you do need an edge you need some type of grit and i don't know if that could
00:26:37come through anger or just motivation but you need something that is uh fueling you but uh i wouldn't
00:26:46say like rage is not good maybe a little anger can be good but rage blinds you and then you make mistakes
00:26:54and just you know are not focused but you need some type of like all right motherfucker sharpness yeah
00:27:03yeah a little a little bit of like yeah a tad bit anger but more of aggression that's the word i'm
00:27:09looking you need aggression a little bit yeah what happens if you turn anger into aggression sorry if
00:27:14you turn aggression into anger and into rage what do you lose because for most people who don't fight
00:27:21or fight at the level that you do they might look from the outside and see two people that are trying
00:27:25to hurt each other and think well hurt is fueled by rage and anger and aggression yeah but it seems like
00:27:32you must lose something as you move down that line towards sort of greater levels of extreme extreme
00:27:39aggression yeah so what do you lose well what you lose is um that that uh consciousness of a punch might
00:27:49come back you know what i mean like when you're focused and a little bit angry you could still you
00:27:53know you could still read a punch you could still you know counter react when you get angry and like that
00:27:59it's overtaking you then you've lose sight of what could come back to you it's like when you get too
00:28:05raged up and you want to push somebody you didn't see that you know there's a car about a pass by you
00:28:09just push them into a car you wouldn't necessarily wanted to kill them but your anger rage pushed you
00:28:13and you didn't even see the car coming so it's kind of like that narrows everything down yeah yeah
00:28:19yeah too much you know and then now you don't see what's coming at you on the other side you
00:28:24know i said oh man boom it's interesting because you see i don't know the do you know nikki rod do
00:28:31you know who he is nikki rodriguez he's a brazilian jiu-jitsu guy um i went to cgi the craig jones
00:28:37invitational year and a half ago we sponsored it with newtonic nice and um it was uh single two-way
00:28:44categories and the guys just worked up on a uh bracket style event all the way up to the final and in
00:28:51between each round most of the fighters were going back to a coach they're talking uh tactics they're
00:28:57getting hydration they're doing whatever nikki just decided to sit in full lotus like with his hands
00:29:02like this like a samurai with his eyes closed and then they'd ring the bell and he'd stand back up
00:29:06and go again so you've kind of got this it was kind of a bit of a lot but it was fucking sick it
00:29:11looked sick to see nikki rod's a beast but did he win yeah and he won a million dollars oh in one
00:29:16day so it's pretty oh and one weekend sorry that's nice um to see that on one side you think this is
00:29:23the almost like that samurai energy very very very calm but it seems like you're saying that there is
00:29:28edge an edge comes with aggression that's still important and to completely let go of that you're
00:29:33actually losing something there too that there's a middle ground that's good for you yeah yeah i think
00:29:37just like uh if you have a you know a tad bit of that it just gives you um
00:29:45it keeps you it keeps you i guess in the fight like into it you know i say like if you kind of get too
00:29:56you know too calm and too like peaceful too peaceful then then it's just you lost that bit of you that
00:30:06you know i'm a killer i have a killer instinct so it's kind of you lose the killer instinct in you
00:30:10you do want to hurt this person yeah yeah of course you're in a fight yeah yeah and he's hitting you
00:30:16it would be nice to try and hurt him yeah it would be nice and uh
00:30:20yeah i i just i know for me it helps a little bit you know what's happening with conaban talk to me
00:30:25oh yeah that's uh that that is being worked on you know me and my team uh we're we're trying to
00:30:32you know finalize it and make it happen to fight that i really want but there's also other options
00:30:39you know so if it doesn't get done you know we're also looking at roley romero and other you know
00:30:44opponents that we can fight um but that fight i would love to make happen i i want that one bad
00:30:50he's been a little too long uh he actually came in confronted me at an event while i was with my
00:30:58wife and it was just crazy recently about a year and a half ago and uh i still remember that it's like
00:31:04bro we're all in suits calm down what are you doing like be professional buddy this is like it
00:31:09reminded me of the movie southpaw you know when uh he gets confronted and she ends up getting shot like
00:31:14bro you need to chill uh but yeah i i would love to make that happen but it's not done yet what do
00:31:21you make of him as a fighter i think he's a good fighter uh he's too aggressive a little too aggressive
00:31:28how so uh he's a little reckless in the ring but i do think that he has a lot of tenacity and
00:31:35he makes for a good fight and an entertaining fight every time he steps in the ring
00:31:40but uh yeah i will show him that uh there's definitely levels to this and uh yeah
00:31:47is he one i mean he's number he's number one uh so he's my mandatory right so uh yeah there's so
00:31:53many politics and so much red tape in boxing that the number one yeah contender and the number one
00:31:58title holder somehow can't make a fight work you're right easily yeah i mean that's what that's how it
00:32:04goes dude boxing's so fucking complex it's so complex yeah it is a little did the politics get
00:32:09frustrating it's get frustrating for me as a fan yeah yeah no i mean like this guy should fight that
00:32:15guy because it's the coolest one and the world champ we should do it you know i'm like i said i'm all up
00:32:21for it it's just there's some things that need to be figured out but i'm all for it i'm sure he's all
00:32:28for it and uh i'm sure it's gonna happen i'm pretty positive what you make of the zufa deal
00:32:34ah that's uh it's a little weird i don't know i don't know exactly what kind of changes they're
00:32:42trying to make to the aliak to benefit zufa or i don't know what they're trying to do and i'm not
00:32:47saying i'm against the zufa at all i just want to give it time before i even like
00:32:54want to acknowledge it too much because i don't know if it's gonna make us i get paid as much i
00:32:59don't know if it's gonna make the sport better so i kind of wanted to sit back and watch what kind
00:33:04of unfolds there it is a funny sport from the outside to look at boxing and i think what's
00:33:09particularly interesting is to see it when compared with uh other organizations especially the ufc but
00:33:15also stuff like one championship like even bkfc well there seems to be so much i'll tell you a story so
00:33:24i did a couple of degrees in the uk and i went to what's called a russell group university which is
00:33:30kind of like um ivy league similar to the equivalent of an ivy league in in the us so these are very long
00:33:37established old universities and each time that i graduated there's graduation ceremony and everyone's
00:33:43parents come and you wear your silly robes and stuff and you get your little certificate i remember being
00:33:48there and watching this parade come in and it was five ten fifteen people who were all the different
00:33:59the dean of the university and the vice chancellor and one of them had a mace like a medieval weapon
00:34:06uh but like a symbolic version of a medieval but an actual medieval weapon they all had to doth their
00:34:11caps to different people in different orders i remember looking at it and going this is what
00:34:18happens when you have a country that's not been invaded for a thousand years right like when you
00:34:21have properly invaded like it's just one culture that's been able to accumulate loads and loads of
00:34:29weird traditions yeah and then the second time which was a masters was even more weird there was more
00:34:34people weirder outfits more stuff going on it was like a academic bohemian grove right right some type of
00:34:41rituals and um when i look at boxing and the world of boxing i do see some of that it's such a established
00:34:49sport that there are i mean the first five minutes of any press conference or the start of any fight
00:34:56is this weird land acknowledgement we must say thank you to the person from this thing and this thing and
00:35:01that other thing and this person's father and i've got a fucking athlete's foot and i could do with a
00:35:06back rub and you know and now we can start to talk and then you look at something which is
00:35:12newer which doesn't have quite so much of the baggage that's come along with it and you look
00:35:16at something like a one championship or you look at a ufc you think huh from an audience standpoint
00:35:21this is a slicker experience it's quicker right you get from the thing that people don't want which is
00:35:28the bullshit and the credits yeah to the movie starting i just want the movies right and uh
00:35:34i kind of feel the same thing when i hear about we couldn't make the fight work like how many
00:35:39uh i guess mayweather pacquiao were getting that to be run back so that's kind of hilarious but that
00:35:44almost didn't happen that was supposed to happen five ten times should have happened when they were
00:35:48younger should have happened when they were in their prime should have happened should have happened
00:35:51couldn't make it work couldn't make it work couldn't make it work you think
00:35:55how like why why why can't there be a way but it's because there's all of these different territories
00:36:01basically different countries inside of a single sport who are all competing for dominance and one
00:36:05person's got this and one person's got another and it's the wild wild west you think yeah it is
00:36:11everybody's like yes there's like like you said it's very established and has a rich history and
00:36:16you know the major players are the major players but everyone's pretty much it's a free-for-all
00:36:23everybody's out for themselves and it's like hopefully the business makes sense that two
00:36:29entities just come together all right let's do it yeah yeah so you know a bit of it is is kind of fun
00:36:37because like everybody gets a chance to make something huge happen but you know the sad part
00:36:44is that a lot of the fights don't happen because a lot of these promoters become greedy and they want to
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00:38:12fights don't happen is it money disagreements uh i would say splits money and some of these fighters
00:38:21over value themselves sometimes or they act like they really want to fight but they really don't
00:38:28so they hide behind the promoter and say oh we couldn't make the deal work when secretly i just
00:38:33didn't want to step in the ring so a lot of it's that i do think that boxing could become a little bit
00:38:39more uh slicker and sleek like you said with the you know ufc like we could cut out a lot of the
00:38:46bullshit you know there's new ways to to promote a fight then the standard
00:38:55you know i mean but
00:39:00i feel like boxing like a lot of people were trying to say it was dead and stuff but
00:39:05i mean we've been doing just fine you know what i mean financially wise so i mean it must be making
00:39:11some type of money because a lot of these boxers are getting paid pretty well but
00:39:17shoot uh i'm all up for change but as long as it makes sense as long as it's like all right we're
00:39:23evolving in the right direction and not like i don't want it to become the ufc that's what i'm saying
00:39:29like zufa's cool but like it looks too much like the ufc that i'm like uh not my vibe and then you
00:39:35can't wear your own shorts like bro your sponsor that's not gonna go away yeah you you won't get
00:39:41that out of me yet you know you don't have to i don't know what you would have to pay me but
00:39:47i just i like the style of boxing i like you know shorts i like the walkouts i like the the grand
00:39:53entrances that you could do you know ufc is just the guy walking now like i like the whole spectacle
00:39:59i like the entertainment part of it you know it's fun and if they take that away i'm just gonna have
00:40:05this there's a difference between
00:40:09getting rid of the but keeping the heritage yeah and respecting the tradition right you don't need to
00:40:16get rid of everything no but we can all say there could be some fat cut off yeah for sure yeah yeah
00:40:21yeah yeah yeah don't don't lose what makes boxing boxing what is the ali act what are the changes i
00:40:27haven't i don't know this i i don't know exactly what changes but i know that i don't know if it's dana
00:40:33white or i know nick khan spoke at the congress and oscar did for oscar on the side of not changing
00:40:40anything and then nick was trying to change things that's kind of what i got out of it and then um
00:40:48something about how um it helps everything be transparent i know the ali act like they have to
00:40:56show the numbers and it's a financial decision exactly and then i guess
00:41:02i don't know if they're trying to change it where we don't get to be disclosed the numbers
00:41:07i can't i don't want to speak for it because i don't really necessarily know interesting but
00:41:11that was oscar's point oscar's point was this was made to protect the fighters and make sure that
00:41:17everything's just transparent but who knows talking of the money thing a couple of years
00:41:22ago you said that jake paul's not a real boxer yeah has that changed after his joshua fight
00:41:28no he's definitely a real boxer for sure um he has balls man i mean it's the fact that he
00:41:35fought anthony joshua is pretty insane uh knowing that he's not even a heavyweight so
00:41:42now he's there and he is definitely earned respect um but i think uh it did humble him just a little
00:41:49bit like i mean josh had it'll typically humble somebody yeah i mean a broken jaw would probably be
00:41:55like all right maybe i should shut my mouth because i can't even move it but dude i mean i the people who
00:42:03saw that happen and also saw his response let's say what you want dude that was a
00:42:07fucking elite response to having your jaw cracked by a guy who's what did he say when he was on the
00:42:13ground oh he was like whoa that was hard yeah yeah i fucking bet it was dude that is so good funny
00:42:20nah jake's always been that type of dude man he he doesn't miss a moment for sure yeah you remember
00:42:25he's hyper aware of that that too yeah yeah well it's kind of like the first assassination attempt
00:42:31for trump where immediately he's like i mean i have just been shot a little bit but this is a great
00:42:36opportunity the same stretch it's like i think i might have broken my jaw and i'm definitely knocked
00:42:40down but this is a great opportunity right right this is probably a you know a clip farm yeah yeah that
00:42:47awareness is but i uh i mean he's got that deal now with netflix uh so money his own promotion yes
00:42:54that's pretty sick as somebody who's not a boxer yeah right to come in and do it no you got to give
00:42:59credit you know at the time obviously people and myself included were just i was just annoyed how
00:43:04he would always talk about me so you know i found my ways to talk you know but uh we've always been
00:43:11cool here and there and i think uh now i think we're on a better page now it's interesting right
00:43:17because so many people especially with boxing i'm not sure whether what would be an example of a sport
00:43:22that people could do when they could start as an adult maybe something like distance running endurance
00:43:26racing triathlons um most skill-based sport you're not going to start tennis at 20 and become a legitimate
00:43:36professional tennis player that'll be very hard i think dionte wild has started boxing relatively late
00:43:40yeah he's one of the few bernard hopkins sergio martinez uh those are the ones that come to the top
00:43:45of my head realistically though it's a sport that you start as a baby kid for me they started at three
00:43:53yeah at tiger woods with golf at two two yeah and he actually was hitting the ball good it's
00:43:58better than me yeah better than both of us yeah combined yeah um and i think that there's a
00:44:05there's a kind of appropriate gatekeeping that happens right it's like you don't get to speed
00:44:10run this with clout that this is a sport that you have to earn your stripes in it's to do with being
00:44:16hurt and that means that and everybody knows that there's ways to piece fights together with
00:44:23fuckery and red tape and weight classes and experience that allow you to have a wonderful
00:44:27record without actually having done anything that's that impressive for sure all of that together
00:44:31allows you to create the illusion of being good at it without not i don't know whether the same thing
00:44:38is true for winning a triathlon that while you're going to get the entire field of other people to
00:44:42not be that good even that your pace is compared with somebody else's yeah as opposed to in boxing
00:44:47it's just are you better than that guy and now are you better than the next guy and are
00:44:50you better than the guy and the crazy thing is a lot of the casual people can't tell the difference
00:44:56they can't they don't know if jake paul is not a world champion or is he or is he world champion
00:45:02of they they can't they could only see him beating anderson silva who's not a fighter like he's not a
00:45:08boxer but he's a ufc champ so all they see is jake paul is beating these fighters fighters that are
00:45:14names you know what i mean he's beating ideas so it's like it was a little frustrating because jake
00:45:21was good at writing that and making it seem like he was like muhammad ali and like with tro like that
00:45:26but like you said boxing is one of those things that like you have to be in the game for a long time and
00:45:31that sacrifice is like only boxers truly know like we had you have to go through a lot to even get to
00:45:37that moment there's also a level of skill i think that you access from doing it for so long i mean
00:45:43you were saying before that you're doing a couple of hours of pad work a week and the rest of it's
00:45:49just i want to feel good yeah because those rhythm grooves those movement patterns are you know you
00:45:56you could get like alzheimer's dementia everything you could get set on fire and the thing that would
00:46:01be left in your brain would be how to dodge your part yeah exactly you'd still be that would be the
00:46:05last thing that would go yeah right yeah um just because it's been done for so long yeah you know
00:46:10more than pretty much anything else and the question i always had in my mind with jake was how much can
00:46:16someone speed run learning skills that usually the time that you need just like the literal like eras
00:46:25of duration that you need yeah is longer yeah i mean the thing is you know people i don't know because
00:46:32they didn't care that he lost to tommy fury and tommy fury is not even good you know what i mean i'm
00:46:38sorry for taking a shot but like he's not like high level at all so people ignored the fact so i don't
00:46:45think you know he was speed running the the fact that he was getting these huge events that were
00:46:51like can he pay the number you know that people don't even dream of and they you know work your
00:46:57whole life so i think that upset a lot of people i think that's where it was well people want to sell
00:47:02tickets right when you talk about pay-per-view gate numbers rah rah rah there's two ways to get there
00:47:07one of them is to be really really good so good that people want to watch it and the other is to just
00:47:12have another way to make people want to watch you yeah it's like what's that thing like love me or hate
00:47:16me you're gonna buy it exactly yeah and i watch all jake paul's fine you know what i mean how many
00:47:21people have come to boxing because of that yeah you you know we don't know but we do know that people
00:47:26like to watch them you know and that's just the facts of it and uh you know if it was making boxing
00:47:32you know bigger in a way i'm all for it i love boxing so if good came from it i'm all for it what
00:47:39you make of the mayweather paquette fight uh it's ridiculous it's truly ridiculous like
00:47:47i mean i don't really want to see that you know they're the first fight was kind of boring
00:47:53the second fight should be even more boring you know they're not even close to their prime
00:47:58um it's kind of sad like why do they feel like they need to do that like are they broke you know
00:48:05there would only be like a couple reasons why they would want to do that didn't pacquiao just buy
00:48:10mayweather's gym and take a photo outside of the yeah i don't know if that was i think he bought his
00:48:16franchise right you know but and pacquiao is essentially royalty yeah oh pacquiao people i mean
00:48:24so i just don't get the sense that he's broke but i don't think pacquiao's but i don't think he can go
00:48:28broke because people love him in philippines like they'll always take care of him correct he's
00:48:32essentially the king yeah exactly uh mayweather i've heard things but i don't know if he's but i've
00:48:40watched a couple of youtube videos that break down the burn rate that mayweather's got and i just i
00:48:45mean it's really probably his security i mean to have because i had i used to have 24 security for
00:48:51like three months and i seen the check i'm like okay no absolutely not how much is three months of
00:48:5624 7 security for somebody like you i mean in the six figures because it's 24 7 and i was like bro this
00:49:06is ridiculous i i because i i needed security i forgot why some was just going down and i was like all right
00:49:13i'll pay for it but then i'm like i look after the three months i'm like no i look after myself dude and
00:49:18i'm like yeah i'll just never use security like i'm cool okay like if people want to hurt me i i guess
00:49:24why i don't know why they wouldn't i don't wear jewelry i don't i can walk around crazy like young
00:49:29la top yeah exactly so i'm like they want to run up on me i'm like bro you're hitting a little sweetheart
00:49:35i don't know bro you could take my shoes yeah but um yeah so yeah that's that could be a reasoning
00:49:43i mean he's taking private play i know those costs a lot um but then again like he always talked about
00:49:50investment so who knows i really don't know if he's i think in terms of athletes that have generated money
00:49:56i think that mayweather must be up there i mean would i don't know who they told what they said
00:50:03that he made like maybe a billion in his group i don't know whether that's gone to him or whether
00:50:07that's money generated across the board but whatever it is it's lots right the number is lots and i
00:50:13suppose yeah you're right there's the worst position to be in is to be somebody who has all of the
00:50:19challenges of fame but not the money to be able to deal with it so imagine if you needed security but
00:50:24whatever it was that you were doing that got you loads of attention didn't really pay
00:50:27that well you'd be like oh fuck like i really could do with being protected from my fame but my
00:50:33fame didn't make me any money so i can't pay for the protection that would really suck that would
00:50:37but the next thing is like well maybe it's just you just get this lifestyle inflation you i've got
00:50:45an assistant two assistants three assistants i got a house i got a holiday home aspen jet second jet
00:50:50car car fleet car manager wealth manager where's the money going before you know it you're like jesus
00:50:56christ this is so big and unwieldy and uh how do you think about that how do you think about avoiding
00:51:03getting the the financial thing too messy the team growing too much people who don't have your best
00:51:10interests at heart this aided by the fact it's a family matter i got lucky because i had to learn
00:51:16that lesson early you know i mean i got paid a lot of money when i was like 20. i started getting paid
00:51:21like i already made like my first million at like 19 and 20. so i learned quick how fast money can go
00:51:29and you're just like wow i had a no i don't i was like i had a million they definitely said that in my
00:51:38account but now it's gone um yeah you just realize taxes is a real thing and you're like ah god like
00:51:45i can't really be buying all that you know what i mean i was like about every car i wanted and then i
00:51:51realized this is stupid and then then i went through a little gambling type of thing i like to do and then i
00:51:57i was like this is even more stupid than the car thing yeah that thing was stupid yeah yeah and then
00:52:03you kind of just realize like all of it's pretty dumb yeah yeah this is a waste of money and nobody
00:52:09really even cares and and it's just like it's just like all just like stupid at the end of the day it's
00:52:16like all material materialistic things that you don't really get anything out of it you mean unless
00:52:21you're trying to impress a girl or whatever but that's maybe it and most girls like the ones that are
00:52:26impressed by that stuff are probably are you probably not the ones that you want to be be around but yeah
00:52:31i kind of learned all that quick and then uh and then i just have a good good good squad good good
00:52:38team around me that cares and they don't want me to go broke and i don't want to go broke one day
00:52:43it's too many stories like that mike tyson ran through 100 mil and and he ran it back in the 90s so
00:52:50fuck yeah what's that worth today it's probably 250 something like that yeah serious money yeah
00:52:57yeah i don't want to end up like that so i just kind of i i just know that i have to be focused
00:53:03and keep my head straight and uh and just try my best to to not make any big financial mistakes
00:53:12anymore yeah yeah yeah well again you know in some ways i suppose learning that lesson going from lots
00:53:20to not so much yeah on a million that's a good lesson to learn where you go ow i i'm not broke but
00:53:27i'm like back to basically baseline right after i had a lot that's a good lesson to learn on a million
00:53:32yeah it's a worse lesson to learn on a hundred million exactly so the same way as you said you know
00:53:36there were some lessons that i missed in my teenage years that i had to learn in my 20s well there's some
00:53:40lessons people learned in the 40s that you managed to learn that's why that's why i feel blessed i'm
00:53:44like dude i learned a lot of all this like pretty early like everything i wanted in life came pretty
00:53:50quick like i wanted to be a superstar fighter and i became quick and i wanted this and it came quick
00:53:57but then you're like oh like i'm actually happy it came quick because if it didn't then like i said
00:54:04you would learn it 30 35 years old 40 and you're just like with more money with bigger problems with less
00:54:09opportunity to make more too correct yeah i can't fix it in the same can't fix it so i truly am blessed
00:54:16but you know you you could always make a mistake you know i mean you could always go back down on that
00:54:21road you know your vices could take you there your ego your pride well i got this much money now i could
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00:55:33fit for all times i'm friends with a couple of guys at the moment who are um really trying to get
00:55:40their lives together but have a like very high level of exposure and a couple of them are in the same
00:55:46way that you are your 24 7 security they basically have 24 7 lifestyle watches to ensure that they
00:55:52don't go off the rails imagine like a sponsor to kind of but they're also a coach assistant driver
00:56:00like just hey we need to make sure that you don't fuck up that that's how tight the set of uh train
00:56:06tracks are that they're on it's a i mean it's not bad you guys do it for a training camp right we're
00:56:11gonna yeah everybody the whole team there is an intense thing there's no moment unless you want to be
00:56:15alone that you are alone there's always someone to keep you know i did a tour around australia new
00:56:20zealand and bali doing a live show and i realized that i was trying to think about um people that
00:56:27spend time on the road the ones that are the happiest and have the best mental health and the
00:56:31ones that are the unhappiest and i think that you have bands who have objectively a pretty shitty
00:56:37lifestyle tour bus sleeping in a tiny bunk even a really really good band if you're on a proper tour
00:56:43you're going from dallas to san antonio to houston back to back to back with shows you're in a bus
00:56:48dude and there's only so nice that a bus can be and if it's a big band you're in a bus sleeping on top
00:56:52of each other like even good big bands so but they seem to be pretty happy and then you think next
00:56:59step down might be comedians and i think that comedians have a little bit more room they don't
00:57:05need as much crew with them but the problem is because you don't have as many crew people with you
00:57:09you're on your own more maybe you got a warm-up maybe you got a tour manager but you know the
00:57:15mid-level good quality comedians most of the ones that i know that are doing gigs around the us they're
00:57:20like i got on a flight on my own and uh you know maybe i'll fly in business maybe not you're probably
00:57:24in business or whatever but i'm not flying private and i'm on my own and i get there and i do my gig and
00:57:28i go back to my hotel maybe my warm-up's there and we can hang and then the worst one djs the
00:57:33reason that the worst one is to be a dj i used to run nightclubs for ages djs have the worst lifestyle
00:57:38i think one of the worst lifestyles because they are always on their own unless they take a tour
00:57:43manager because you don't get to when you get booked at a nightclub you don't get to say i'm bringing my
00:57:47warm-up with me you don't have a sound guy you don't have a director you don't need anyone right a band
00:57:54needs the roadies and the guitar tech and the drum tech and the lighting director and the all of this
00:58:00stuff and the dj just has two usb sticks and it's oh yeah it's true later at night loads of drugs around
00:58:07loads of alcohol around true and there's always an after party and you can fit these gigs together back
00:58:12to back to back to back to back i was like right okay so i'm gonna go and do this tour around australia
00:58:17new zealand bali i did north america last year and you you can island later this year i was like i
00:58:23don't need really anyone i probably need one tour manager to make sure the venue's okay
00:58:28but 10 people came because i want to do what the bands do because they seem to have the best mental
00:58:34health they seem to enjoy it the most their sharing experiences it goes well they celebrate it goes
00:58:38badly exactly and it's the same as being in a uh a camp yeah no i understand i have my whole my
00:58:44whole squad pretty much live with me and uh yeah honestly that right there it just keeps things
00:58:53you know um it just makes things uh bearable i mean there's no other way to put it you're with your
00:59:04boys at least you can talk to them about things or anything hey guys let's play some video it could be
00:59:10anything honestly you being by yourself just sucks you know a lot of people say oh you can't be by
00:59:16yourself they always tell me that and i'm like i don't really want to be by myself like i don't know
00:59:21like i'm cool to be by myself but like like why is that a flex you know what i mean it's like i love
00:59:27companionship i love you know my brothers i love talking to people i love conversating i like picking
00:59:33people's brains no matter who they are you know what i mean i just like i just love conversation
00:59:40i love you know i love that it's just because you can do it on your own doesn't mean that you should
00:59:45yeah and uh it's all the intangibles you maybe it would be quicker or you wouldn't need to compromise
00:59:53as much you're certainly be fucking cheaper there's lots of different advantages you can see that are
00:59:57really obvious but all of the the disadvantages that you would miss are like well i'm going to be
01:00:02lonely and i'm going to be in my head and that probably means i'm just going to be scrolling
01:00:05my phone and that's going to fucking suck and oh dim scrolling is the worst if you wake up
01:00:10start scrolling i swear that's ruined day's ruined you get it it's the day is ruined before it started
01:00:17like i need to play my my like my just like meditation type of sounds before i even get close
01:00:25to the phone because oh my god it'll ruin my day because i'm just like this and i'm like i catch
01:00:29myself like i already told myself in bed for an hour what is going on here what is this phone doing to
01:00:33me why do i magnetically want to go and do that every time so weird every time uh i'm interested in
01:00:41what you think about conor mcgregor's trajectory because you're both guys who fight you're both guys
01:00:46that have partied and that like to party what's your perspective on his journey uh
01:00:54it's it's a it's it's one of those ones that you know see did he learn too late you know you know
01:01:02obviously we were talking about how like i'm happy that i learned you know as you know younger person
01:01:09it seems that you know i want him to be back though i want him to be back but i also know that like
01:01:15how old is he 30 probably five no something like that it's a little tougher to rebound you know um
01:01:23but he's one of those people that you know he he's a icon to his sport he's just a man he's just a
01:01:31g you know what i mean and i want him to really be like i want what path he's on to be like i want that
01:01:38to be real like if it's uh if it's his path with god and if he's found faith and uh and that's where
01:01:46you know he feel like his his motivation is driving out hopefully it's real you know i want it i want
01:01:51whatever he's gonna do i want it just to be real i want him to fight keeps on talking about a comeback
01:01:58doesn't happen how long has that been three years four years right or i don't know longer it might
01:02:03it might be you could tell me it's been five years since he fought yeah i wouldn't know yeah i can't
01:02:07remember and it's not as if the last few fights have been exactly drenched in glory either one stoppage
01:02:14like injury stoppage or whatever it was and then khabib and then i don't know it's just i think dustin
01:02:22yeah just i i don't know it's just it's such a shame dude it's such a fucking shame and the more
01:02:28that i think about it the more it's just sometimes i think about different versions of the universe
01:02:34where one thing happened or didn't happen and the the version of the universe where mcgregor kind of
01:02:39didn't get lost in the source right it's like oh my god more of those aldo moments of him just being
01:02:46like a like a samurai zen master type thing maybe it happened to him for a reason what if what if he did
01:02:52do that and he was that guy how much crazier would he maybe yeah yeah and he learned a lesson at 50.
01:02:57right right exactly um we'll never know i i just wish the best for that guy i hope he uh hope he could
01:03:06make uh i want to see him win one more good fight yes if he just does that i'm cool legacy saved
01:03:14a great i think he's got one fight left on his ufc contract yeah and uh yeah man i hope it i hope it
01:03:23happens but after a while there's a little bit of you know all of the bravado it becomes harder and
01:03:30harder to do the longer since you've fought and the older that you get right you're able to do this
01:03:35because you've still got bags of career ahead of you if you want to and you can well i feel like
01:03:41there should have been an evolution in it like you start off this young guy like connor bravado
01:03:47talks a lot of then you become this you know legend and you come this og and the og has to be more con
01:03:55more stoic more don't worry i got this like i've done this long enough watch what i do you know
01:04:02the opposite happened with a little bit of trash but then it just kept on going you know there should
01:04:07be some type of evolution there well i guess what actually happened because like mayweather stopped
01:04:11kind of being so very true you know that's a good point yeah yeah that is a really really good point
01:04:16as somebody that was one of the biggest talkers and then it toward the end of his career was just
01:04:23i'm gonna beat you and you're not gonna be you couldn't you couldn't fucking phase the guy
01:04:27no he already knows the game too much like when you know the game too much it's like all right
01:04:33talk and whatever like he already knows all the entertainment shit he's just there to be
01:04:38floyd mayweather i'm gonna come i'm a professional i'm here to do a job yeah exactly so i think he missed
01:04:43the evolution yeah yeah he did there was a a firmware update like the ios update didn't come there
01:04:51that's something that is kind of scary to see you know you were talking about aggression rage anger
01:04:55different components of how how a fight is sort of put together there is something really terrifying
01:05:01about somebody that just sees you as like a job to be dispatched like if you were to look if you were
01:05:07a plumber and you were to look on your day and you said i need to replace this toilet at 11 a.m you go
01:05:12okay you're just the toilet i'm replacing at 11 a.m this is just a standard day in the office for me
01:05:17thank you very much i'll see you on the other side like i'll see you once the toilet's fitted that's like
01:05:21oh my god i'm just a task i'm just a i'm just on the to-do list for today yeah i'm not even an event
01:05:28really i'm just like something that i'm moving through and when you see that with people you go
01:05:32like holy fuck yes like what am i getting myself into yeah are you worried are you conscious around
01:05:42long-term health stuff we talk we hear a lot about cte about tbi about brain health yeah how much does
01:05:48that factor in as somebody that's been doing this since seven years old this talk i imagine when you
01:05:53were the ct talk would have only come in in your teens like to have been really high levels of awareness
01:06:01honestly once uh it kind of got big with the football i forgot what year that was that was
01:06:06kind of the year that everybody started questioning oh like we should probably all start thinking about
01:06:13our house but it's also like look man i've already accepted whatever happens to me it's okay i just
01:06:23try my best to not look into to that type of future but if it happens i hope that the people
01:06:29that love me take care of me that's it you're just happy for that to be a side effect of your chosen
01:06:34career yeah because i i try to put all my decisions uh and let it be guided by god so if that's just uh
01:06:45the nature of what i've chosen to do and what i felt like was the right thing to do
01:06:50that's just what it is and there's really nothing i could do about it i mean but boxing
01:06:54avoid getting hit would be a good start oh yeah for sure um and i try my best to you know what i mean
01:06:59obviously i'm still feeling clean never broke my nose thank god you know what i mean so i'm doing
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01:08:17modern wisdom have you ever noticed anything has there been any
01:08:22i don't know memory loss stuff no i just feel like i've always had mental health problems i don't
01:08:28know if it comes from boxing but you know little you know anxiety sometimes um a little bit of like
01:08:37bipolar-ness but
01:08:40i've always kind of been that way like i don't know i don't think you get to yeah the level of
01:08:46obsession and focus without having need without having something in there you mentioned edge
01:08:51yeah that edge comes from somewhere my edge is that i am an obsessive thinker of like situations
01:08:58positions all right i'm here like like i'll study one position and and like where i'm at for like a long
01:09:05period of time because i'm like all right i know there's something more here you know what i mean
01:09:09and i'll get to that but it really is it's a lot of it's just with boxing and god like i don't really
01:09:15like to obsess over too many things but like boxing for some reason i could just like think about that
01:09:20moment so many times like okay that's where it was okay he'd do that but that's like i could you
01:09:25know if i shift here boom i could catch him quick and he might not notice like there's just a lot of
01:09:31you know with my brain with that it's just i love it so much that i just want to study that can you
01:09:35remember a position is the one that comes to mind that you spent a long time thinking about
01:09:40that then ended up being an unlock is there a particular sequence that you that you spent yeah
01:09:45even when i was like young i remember this i was sparring this kid and he kept catching me kept
01:09:51catching me and i was like i remember going back home and just thinking about it for like
01:09:56two hours three hours like why is he catching me with that and then i i i i had remembered i
01:10:03overthought about it so much that i was like all right dad i called my dad to the room i said call
01:10:09him back like i have something for him like let's go and he goes are you sure like he was pretty much
01:10:15whooping your ass like let's just wait a little bit i was like no call him the next day i figured
01:10:20something out and it was a when he would step forward he would show his jab so like he would
01:10:28step and then show the jab so i had caught on to it in my brain when i was replaying it so i told my
01:10:33dad every time he makes that move i'm gonna cut to the to the right and hit him with a right hand
01:10:37and i guarantee you he won't stop that because he can't stop doing this
01:10:41so every time he came in and i would catch him and my dad was like how do you figure that in a day
01:10:47i was like i don't know i just kept thinking about it like he kept on catching me with that shot but
01:10:52there has to be something that like i'm doing wrong or i'm not reading or something and my dad's all he
01:10:57always thinks about that story he's like that's all i knew like you're different because i would i could
01:11:02come back the next day and it'll i'll be a whole different fight like i don't know how but i just like
01:11:08the next day like the guy if he thinks he got an edge like bro i've been thinking about this all
01:11:12day so i try to tell my little brother like after swan you need just think i go in your room and just
01:11:18think think think like why did this happen why did that happen like like what was he doing that was
01:11:25throwing me off there was a couple instances like that in the ring it's like hmm there has to be
01:11:30something here you know what i mean so yeah i've learned so much things in boxing like
01:11:36just the whole aspect of it it's like it's almost like music notes i started learning that like
01:11:41like and when you're the ring it's like boom boom boom boom and then when something fills off that
01:11:45means because some note was off you know i mean like some movement okay oh i read that wrong that's
01:11:50where it was okay boom so it's like it really is like a whole level of just like beautifulness like
01:11:58that's why i said i really love boxing there's so much little things in it that like
01:12:03get me excited it's so fun have you been able to do that during any of your fights as a professional
01:12:09or have there been how often you surprised by that you say most of the time presumably you're
01:12:14studying tape you're thinking you're bringing fighters into the the gym and the camp that
01:12:19replicate the style that you're probably going to face the whole game is to not be surprised yeah when
01:12:24you get in there but presumably that's what the other guy's doing too yeah which means that they're
01:12:28trying to come up with something that you don't yet know which might surprise you which means that you
01:12:32need to go back and you've got forget two hours in a day yeah you've got a minute in the corner to be
01:12:37like yeah why is that thing happening is there have you ever had that happen as a pro no honestly i
01:12:44haven't i it's been more of so like when i'm on point and like when you know i'm in a good mental space
01:12:54nothing will surprise me because it's like i've already been thinking about like i've been looking
01:12:59at every scenario like the times i've lost um i literally it comes from a place of like
01:13:08self-sabotage and like i wasn't even in the camp i was just kind of letting the day go by
01:13:14and just kind of like not being there and i know it probably sounds like an excuse but that's just what it
01:13:20was um were they the better fighters that night for sure and i always give them credit on that but
01:13:26you know me at my best is uh when i'm thinking like this when i'm paying attention to every day when
01:13:31i'm everything is uh like intentional like when i wake up how i woke up was intentional on the phone
01:13:38not on the phone and i'm reading things i'm letting you know that inner wisdom just kind of
01:13:47flow me through the day you know what i mean i'm on track uh when it's like that it's hard to surprise
01:13:52me because uh i've been paying attention to everything so but now when i fight somebody
01:13:59it's like what surprises me is like oh wow they're really talented like they're fast that's cool you
01:14:04know what i mean like it won't be like a move or like a a shot that will surprise me just be like oh
01:14:09this guy he's on top of his game that's cool you know what i mean but as far as like a technique or
01:14:16anything it's kind of it'd be hard to surprise me but uh i feel like i've surprised people because
01:14:22a lot of people they'll be seeing that move they're like where do you even come up with that stupid move
01:14:26i look stupid but am i getting hit so i've been thinking about this i've been like mayweather he does
01:14:32a shoulder rope but he hides behind it a lot and people think like they call me off or turning my
01:14:39back but i'm just giving them the side and then you can't really hit me on it but everybody makes
01:14:44fun of me on it but i have not got hit once doing it so guys come on you call you called the silly
01:14:53shell they called the silly show right it's all good you're there to do a job dude yeah and if you
01:14:58dispatch someone yeah it's so funny to think about um obsession obviously it's it is very much a
01:15:03double-edged sword it's the sort of thing that can cause you to be obsessed with politics or porn or
01:15:09your ex or drugs or gambling or partying or status or money or how people see you yeah but it can also
01:15:16if you direct it in the right angle be the thing that causes you to completely change your game in
01:15:22the space of two hours as a professional sports star it's the sort of thing that can cause you to
01:15:27obsess over how well you write or tell stories as a writer that would be cool now that like i would
01:15:34want to learn how to do that like writing for some reason it just seems so like like if you could get
01:15:39a high level where you could make somebody feel something just by a sentence and you know it's
01:15:44going to hit that's pretty sick and what my housemate at the moment is just finished the first draft of
01:15:49his book which is going to be amazing and i'm watching him all he does every single day is in the spare
01:15:56bedroom and the house that we live in every wall is covered in post-it notes everything he's just
01:16:02living and breathing this book you know in uh in ai and chat gpt and stuff like that there's an idea
01:16:07of a context window and it means how big is the uh sort of world of information about what you're
01:16:14talking about that the ai has reference to so if you have a real long chat the context window is super
01:16:19huge if you start a new chat the context window is smaller his context window for his own book
01:16:25is like three galaxies big right he's got all of these different stories and he'll come downstairs
01:16:30and tell me i just learned this story about phil collins and how he wrote um like uh in the air
01:16:36tonight or how he wrote this song or the and it's so cool and i'm watching like you did i'm watching
01:16:42somebody who is so obsessed that my point being most people go through their lives without ever
01:16:48getting an obsession that's worth anything people can reach the end of their lives having either
01:16:53never been obsessed or only being obsessed about stuff that wasn't worth anything so if you're the
01:16:58sort of person who has an obsession that's pointing in a positive direction you really shouldn't waste it
01:17:04no it's a wonderful thing it's free motivation it's free discipline it's not that you as a kid had to
01:17:10be forced to train you couldn't not train all that you wanted to it wasn't like someone went into your
01:17:16bedroom after you lost that fight to that guy that kid and said you need to think about this for two
01:17:21hours if you told me to go and play video games i couldn't i can't not do this thing that's very true
01:17:27free discipline free motivation and that doesn't last forever and what you need is while the
01:17:35while the tide while the currents with you to sort of ride down now okay i'm going to do what i'm
01:17:40called to and i think that's what you were talking about up top of like i get little whispers yeah
01:17:44sometimes these fleeting thoughts these nudges that move my life in different directions i'm going to
01:17:49follow those because in future they might not be there and you missed them you missed them it's like
01:17:53the neon sign kind of just went past it like damn but i could have seen what was it what was it yeah
01:17:59it's cool just to see what it was you know what i mean yeah and just you know kind of see where that
01:18:05goes but yeah i always told people my biggest fear in life well because when they asked me like is it
01:18:09death is i was like no it's just not reaching my potential and just wasting it because i know i have
01:18:14so much so it's like that that just scares me you know pressure is a privilege dude hey i appreciate
01:18:20you i'm fired up to see what the rest of this year has for you thank you you're the man sir
01:18:24appreciate you until next time yeah goodbye everybody i'm gonna try this get it in you
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Key Takeaway

Professional success in high-stakes fields requires harnessing obsessive focus and tactical aggression, while simultaneously practicing stoicism to avoid the self-destructive pitfalls of early fame.

Highlights

  • Elite athletic performance often induces a flow state that limits conscious memory of specific moments, making video review necessary for recall.

  • Early childhood immersion in a singular, disciplined pursuit like boxing provides a competitive edge but sacrifices the development of normal teenage social experiences.

  • Aggression serves as a necessary tool in professional fighting, but uncontrolled rage narrows focus and blinds the athlete to tactical threats.

  • Strategic insight for combat often requires hours of intense, post-sparring analysis to identify and counter specific opponent patterns.

  • Managing fame and sudden wealth at a young age requires early lessons to prevent financial ruin and avoid common lifestyle-driven self-destruction.

Timeline

Flow State and Combat Memory

  • Optimal performance occurs in a flow state where instincts override conscious thought.
  • High-level focus during combat often creates gaps in memory, preventing athletes from recalling exact fight sequences.
  • Memory recall for physical performance requires external aids like match footage.

Athletic performance at the highest level functions through intuition rather than active thinking. While this state allows for rapid response, it paradoxically hinders memory of the event. Even elite chess players, while memorizing specific game movements, often lack recall of their emotional state or environment during the match.

Childhood Sacrifice and Professional Development

  • Dedication to a singular pursuit from age seven built a professional work ethic.
  • A lack of early teenage social experience created difficulties in navigating adulthood.
  • Family legacies often impose immense pressure on young athletes.

Training for over 200 amateur fights during childhood shaped a life centered entirely on boxing. While this dedication provided a foundation for professional success, it left gaps in social experience that caused later challenges with fame and money. This environment, often likened to family-wide competition, adds significant pressure to perform.

Managing Fame, Anger, and Self-Destruction

  • Anger functioned as a fuel for competition but led to destructive personal choices.
  • Self-destructive behaviors were used to cope with concurrent life crises like divorce and custody disputes.
  • Intentional exposure of human trafficking became a primary focus after a personal vision.

A tumultuous period characterized by professional and personal pressure resulted in acting out and self-medication. Anger at how others perceived his identity influenced the decision to lean into a 'bad guy' persona. Beyond the boxing ring, this period also prompted a serious, personal mission to raise awareness regarding human trafficking.

Boxing Politics and Industry Realities

  • Modern technology and social media have democratized information, making it harder for powerful entities to hide misconduct.
  • Complex politics and red tape often prevent the most anticipated fights from occurring.
  • Boxing culture retains traditional rituals and gatekeeping that differ from the modernized, slicker approach of organizations like the UFC.

The boxing industry operates through fragmented territories and complex negotiations, often resulting in stalled bouts between top contenders. Unlike newer combat sports organizations, boxing relies on long-standing traditions and elaborate pre-fight protocols. Digital access to information and recording devices has introduced new levels of transparency that challenge historical power structures.

Financial Discipline and Longevity

  • Learning financial lessons early after making the first million dollars prevented long-term insolvency.
  • Avoiding lifestyle inflation and excessive security spending is vital for maintaining personal wealth.
  • A dedicated team provides a necessary structure to keep professional athletes on track.

Gaining and losing substantial money at a young age provided a critical education in tax responsibilities and the futility of material status symbols. Maintaining a tight-knit, trusted team helps mitigate the risks of fame, such as excessive spending on assistants, luxury assets, and unnecessary security details.

The Strategic Use of Obsession

  • Obsession functions as free motivation and discipline when channeled into a positive direction.
  • Specific tactical improvements are unlocked through hours of intense, focused mental review of past failures.
  • Stoic regulation of energy is necessary to maintain the competitive edge without losing the killer instinct.

Obsessive thinking, while potentially dangerous if misdirected toward vice, acts as a primary driver for technical mastery. By methodically replaying sparring sessions for hours, subtle patterns are identified and countered. Maintaining this balance between aggressive instinct and calm analytical focus is necessary for sustained success.

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