00:00:00- I wanted to get you to react to an image
00:00:02that had been going very viral for a while.
00:00:04I'm not sure if you've seen this, you may have done already.
00:00:06- Sure.
00:00:07Yeah.
00:00:09- So it's a famous image of Piers Brosnan and his wife,
00:00:12and I think it's maybe 20 years apart, something like that.
00:00:14And it's him and her at what looks like the height
00:00:17of his 007 fame, and she's looking very young,
00:00:20and then it's him and her, and she's gained a lot
00:00:22in the chest, and got a little bit older, but so is he.
00:00:25And the best response that I saw to that,
00:00:28dear men, this is your daily reminder to avoid marriage,
00:00:30the best response that I saw to that was,
00:00:33that man hasn't aged a day in three decades.
00:00:37Where do you think that regulation came from?
00:00:41That is the single best advert that you could see
00:00:45for marriage, because look at how he is flourishing,
00:00:50and is that really the thing that you're--
00:00:52- But see, I'm shocked that anyone looks at that.
00:00:56Like, first of all, this is a successful marriage
00:01:00in an industry where there is no such thing.
00:01:03Like, I have done a lot of actor divorces,
00:01:06and believe me, they suck at being married.
00:01:09And so, this is a successful, happy marriage
00:01:13that produced children, it is a long marriage.
00:01:18Now, I will tell you, I don't know these two people.
00:01:22That is still a very beautiful woman.
00:01:24- Damn right it is. - Has she gained weight?
00:01:26Okay, she's gained weight, like--
00:01:28- Pierce Brosnan has gained great as well.
00:01:30- Right, okay, but this is a stunningly beautiful woman.
00:01:33And this is a woman who is aging appropriately, right?
00:01:37So she's not trying to do 50 million things wrong--
00:01:39- Aging better than appropriately, but yeah.
00:01:40- But I'm saying, she's not trying to undo the inevitable.
00:01:45And the truth is, if you're with a partner long-term,
00:01:52you don't always see those changes as much,
00:01:55just like you don't notice in yourself
00:01:57that you've gained or lost weight until stuff feels tight.
00:01:59- How old do you think your mom sees you
00:02:01when she looks at you? - Right, right.
00:02:02- You're still 12. - Right.
00:02:04And so, isn't that a beautiful expression of love?
00:02:08Like, I always tell people when they talk about this,
00:02:11sort of like, oh, well, you're gonna age,
00:02:12and when someone ages, they just, okay,
00:02:14I have a dog that is 16 years old.
00:02:18I got that dog when the dog was four months old.
00:02:23What a youth, the dog is now deaf, okay?
00:02:26Gets up every morning tail wagging,
00:02:28can't wait to eat breakfast.
00:02:29He's got a great quality of life.
00:02:31When he no longer has a great quality of life,
00:02:33I will do the thing you need to do,
00:02:34which is to the brave and difficult choice.
00:02:38But he wakes up every day tail wagging,
00:02:41has to get carried up and down the stairs.
00:02:43But once he's there, can't wait to eat his meal,
00:02:45can't wait to do his thing, so he's a happy dog.
00:02:48Do you think I look at that dog,
00:02:51deaf, has to be carried up and down the stairs,
00:02:54and go, dude, I gotta get a puppy.
00:02:57This is like this fucking dog.
00:02:58Look at this old ass dog, can't even hear anything.
00:03:01Like puppies can chase ball.
00:03:02These kid dogs can just chase balls.
00:03:03He was so fun.
00:03:04He used to run like a wind.
00:03:05I got videos of it on my phone.
00:03:07Now look at him, he's like a broken little.
00:03:09The opposite, the opposite.
00:03:12I love that dog more and more.
00:03:14I know I'm in the bonus rounds.
00:03:16I know I don't have all that much time.
00:03:17And I have to tell you, I fucking love that dog.
00:03:20If you, how do you know that those people
00:03:23don't look at each other and just go, look at us.
00:03:26And look at that photo of us when we were fucking kids.
00:03:30And we didn't know what it was gonna be.
00:03:32And we were so scared.
00:03:34- I'm so glad we're here now.
00:03:35- And here we are.
00:03:36- I'm so glad we're not there.
00:03:36- Right, and by the way, you won.
00:03:39You won.
00:03:40- That's escape velocity.
00:03:42- Yes.
00:03:43- You had this escape velocity.
00:03:44- How do you look at that and not admire it?
00:03:47And by that, so, but again, I get it.
00:03:49If you're that unbelievably shallow,
00:03:53that you go, oh, could Pierce,
00:03:55Pierce Brosnan is a handsome, successful man.
00:03:58He could pull 20 something year olds easily.
00:04:02- And have his--
00:04:02- Easily.
00:04:03- And have his mind turned inside out by the inability--
00:04:05- Oh, hundreds of, but I'm saying,
00:04:07this is not a man who doesn't have options.
00:04:09And this is a person who he chooses.
00:04:11And I'm sure, and she, I'm sure has choices as well.
00:04:14So you look at these two people
00:04:16and I would look at that and say, wow,
00:04:19that's a success story.
00:04:20That's something to aspire to.
00:04:22Again, if they're happy, if they find joy in each other,
00:04:24but to just look at that,
00:04:25and that's more about what you are seeing in your life
00:04:29and your emotional state,
00:04:31than anything that's actually going on
00:04:33between those two people.
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