00:00:00First,
00:00:00if we use a graph where the X-axis represents wealth and the Y-axis represents happiness,
00:00:04reducing suffering would increase happiness,
00:00:07right?
00:00:07Now,
00:00:08there's a level of suffering that money can solve,
00:00:10and then there's a second category of suffering that money can't fix.
00:00:13So as you keep earning,
00:00:14there comes a point where making more money won't increase your happiness anymore.
00:00:19But this graph has two major flaws.
00:00:20Can you guess what they are??
00:00:30Hello, I'm Olga.
00:00:31Today,
00:00:31continuing from last time,
00:00:33I want to talk about economic freedom..
00:00:35The final destination of economic freedom,
00:00:37but the three types of people who fail even after achieving it.
00:00:40Last time,
00:00:41we looked at four key elements of economic freedom: skill,
00:00:45risk,
00:00:45inefficiency,
00:00:46and time.
00:00:47But as we all know,
00:00:48economic freedom is just a means,
00:00:50not the final destination.
00:00:51Let me use mountain climbing as an example.
00:00:54If the main goal is to enjoy the scenery,
00:00:56you should pick a mountain with good views,
00:00:58and ideally the climb itself would be scenic too.
00:01:01But what if you ignore that main goal and just think any mountain will be fine as long as you reach the summit?
00:01:07You focus only on climbing,
00:01:09which might lead you up a steep,
00:01:11barren mountain by mistake.
00:01:12Then you keep climbing higher and higher,
00:01:14stuck on the wrong mountain because the view isn't good yet..
00:01:18Similarly,
00:01:19pursuing economic freedom can lead you down the wrong path too.
00:01:23That's why,
00:01:24if you want to achieve economic freedom,
00:01:26you absolutely need to ask yourself first: why do I want it?
00:01:30While the surface reasons might vary from person to person,
00:01:34the underlying truth is the same for everyone.
00:01:37We pursue it to seek pleasure and fulfill our desires,
00:01:40or to eliminate suffering from life.
00:01:43Really, it's two sides of the same coin..
00:01:45Because the frustration of not experiencing pleasure right now is itself a form of suffering.
00:01:50For example,
00:01:50suffering from seeing a boss you don't like every day at work,
00:01:53suffering from not being able to pay hospital bills,
00:01:56not having enough to give to your parents,
00:01:58not being able to buy what you want,
00:02:00not being able to afford luxury sports or a nice house—we pursue economic freedom to escape these kinds of suffering.
00:02:05In a word,
00:02:06suffering comes from the world not being under your control the way you want it to be.
00:02:11And economic freedom helps reduce that suffering by letting you control a lot more of your world.
00:02:16It gives you the freedom to have what you want and do what you want,
00:02:18and the freedom to not do what you don't want.
00:02:20But here's the problem: freedom isn't the opposite of suffering.
00:02:24In other words,
00:02:25having more freedom doesn't necessarily mean your suffering decreases.
00:02:28You've probably heard of bucket lists.
00:02:31But today,
00:02:31I want you to make a list of your suffering instead.
00:02:34Actually,
00:02:34a suffering list is a broader concept that even includes your bucket list.
00:02:38Because each item on your bucket list is something you're suffering from not having accomplished yet.
00:02:43So if you think about what might be on a suffering list,
00:02:46it could include workplace issues or friend troubles,
00:02:49problems with children,
00:02:50family conflicts,
00:02:51health issues,
00:02:51fear of aging,
00:02:52missing someone you've lost or parted with,
00:02:54mental health problems like anxiety and depression,
00:02:57frustration from not being able to buy what you want,
00:03:00lacking time for hobbies you enjoy,
00:03:01envy of others,
00:03:02jealousy,
00:03:03unmet need for recognition,
00:03:04a job you hate going to,
00:03:05dissatisfaction with your appearance,
00:03:07and much more.
00:03:09So before moving to the next chapter,
00:03:11I want you to pause the video and actually write down your own suffering list.
00:03:15And you should include not just current suffering,
00:03:17but also suffering you might experience in the future.
00:03:20Especially if you're young,
00:03:21don't forget to add health issues.
00:03:22Even if you have no health problems right now,
00:03:24you should still include it..
00:03:26It's wise to include potential sources of suffering that might emerge even after you achieve economic freedom in your future.
00:03:33Now,
00:03:34once you've finished your list,
00:03:36go through it and mark which items can be solved with money.
00:03:40From the things I mentioned,
00:03:41I'd say about four of them can't be solved by money.
00:03:45The other things might be helped by money,
00:03:47but aging,
00:03:48physical health,
00:03:48missing someone you've lost,
00:03:50relationships,
00:03:50and mental health are things that fundamentally can't be solved by money alone.
00:03:55Wealth solves suffering only up to a certain level.
00:03:57But it doesn't eliminate all suffering.
00:04:00As I mentioned in episode 12 of the previous series,
00:04:03every study and statistic shows a consistent message,
00:04:06and it makes sense logically too.
00:04:07By this point,
00:04:08many of you probably think I'm stating something obvious.
00:04:12Of course happiness increases up to a certain income level,
00:04:15right?
00:04:16The level where happiness stops increasing with income is around 100 million won a year anyway,
00:04:20and it's uncertain whether we'll even reach that income level.
00:04:23So what's the point of this theoretical discussion when we're not even sure we can get there??
00:04:27Shouldn't we just focus on making money right now?
00:04:31Why discuss this??
00:04:32But we absolutely need to have this discussion now,
00:04:35while you haven't achieved economic freedom yet.
00:04:37You need to know which mountain to climb before you start climbing.
00:04:40That way,
00:04:41when you actually achieve economic freedom in the future,
00:04:44you won't have regrets.
00:04:45First,
00:04:45if we use a graph where the X-axis represents wealth and the Y-axis represents happiness,
00:04:50reducing suffering would increase happiness,
00:04:52right?
00:04:53Now,
00:04:53there's a level of suffering that money can solve,
00:04:55and then there's a second category of suffering that money can't fix.
00:04:58So as you keep earning,
00:05:00there comes a point where making more money won't increase your happiness anymore.
00:05:04But this graph has two major flaws.
00:05:07What could they be?
00:05:08The first is that this is just an average graph,
00:05:10but when you look at individual cases,
00:05:12results vary drastically.
00:05:14The second is that this data comes from surveying people at different income levels at the same point in time.
00:05:18It doesn't show change over time—just fixed values at a single moment.
00:05:23For example,
00:05:23it likely reflects whether people had privileged upbringings or didn't—what we call being born with a silver spoon or not.
00:05:28What's important and what we really want to know is what happens over time when a specific person,
00:05:36especially myself,
00:05:37tries to move up from this income level.
00:05:40But this graph doesn't show that..
00:05:43So when we assume that as wealth accumulates,
00:05:46time also passes,
00:05:47people actually experience very different paths as they build economic freedom.
00:05:53I can't cover every case,
00:05:54but let me discuss a few representative ones.
00:05:57Now you need to think of the X-axis as representing not just wealth accumulation but also the passage of time.
00:06:02Let's assume that as time passes,
00:06:04you're moving toward economic freedom.
00:06:06The first example is someone who indulges in more and more pleasure as they earn more.
00:06:10Actually,
00:06:10this case is very common among young people who earn a lot of money.
00:06:14If you start earning without thinking about happiness,
00:06:17self-discipline,
00:06:17or self-improvement,
00:06:19at first pleasure might actually make you feel happier.
00:06:22But most pleasures you can buy with money—alcohol,
00:06:25cigarettes,
00:06:25going out,
00:06:26drugs—always come with the opposite side of the coin: suffering.
00:06:30Hangovers,
00:06:30health problems,
00:06:31loneliness,
00:06:32mental health decline.
00:06:33And these pleasures follow the law of diminishing marginal utility..
00:06:37All pleasures are most intense the first time,
00:06:39and as you get used to them,
00:06:41they fade.
00:06:41You need something even more intense to feel satisfied..
00:06:44That's because the human brain's dopamine reward system is designed that way.
00:06:49So as you pile up wealth while pursuing pleasure,
00:06:51over time the law of diminishing returns kicks in,
00:06:54and the side effects of that pleasure take their toll.
00:06:56Happiness gradually decreases..
00:06:58And as it does,
00:06:59you end up squandering the money you accumulated.
00:07:01Now you're moving left and becoming even more unhappy.
00:07:04This is economic freedom.
00:07:06But freedom isn't the same as happiness.
00:07:09For someone unprepared to handle freedom,
00:07:12it can be a double-edged sword.
00:07:13According to American sports agents and the NBA Players Association,
00:07:1760% of NBA basketball players and 78% of NFL football players go bankrupt or face serious financial difficulties within five years of retirement.
00:07:25More academic papers cite a bankruptcy rate of around 15%,
00:07:29but either way,
00:07:30it's far higher than the general population.
00:07:32Basketball and football players both earn enormous amounts of money at a young age.
00:07:37And they retire young.
00:07:39They can't handle that freedom,
00:07:40so they end up following that graph downward.
00:07:42The second case is someone who sacrifices current happiness in pursuit of economic freedom.
00:07:47Now I'm not saying living life to the fullest is good.
00:07:49Saving for the future is good and wise.
00:07:52But in this case, it goes beyond that.
00:07:54People justify their current suffering while pursuing economic freedom,
00:07:57and they even postpone solving problems they could solve right now,
00:08:01blaming them on lack of money and using economic freedom as an excuse..
00:08:04For example,
00:08:05eating only instant ramen to save money,
00:08:07not going to the hospital when they should,
00:08:09being overly stingy like a miser,
00:08:11sacrificing relationships.
00:08:12I've seen cases like this around me..
00:08:14One person had a very poor childhood,
00:08:16and because of those memories,
00:08:18until their 50s they saved every penny,
00:08:20worked like a workaholic,
00:08:22and became quite wealthy.
00:08:23But when they finally thought they should enjoy some comfort,
00:08:26they ended up back in poverty mentality at 50.
00:08:27If you live this way,
00:08:29the suffering that money can't solve keeps growing.
00:08:33Health problems get worse,
00:08:35relationships disappear,
00:08:36and later you end up regretting it.
00:08:39The third case is somewhat related to the second: habitual negative thinking.
00:08:44Making money and building wealth requires much more energy and stress than just staying at your current income level.
00:08:51If you relieve that constant tension and stress through unhealthy channels like gaming,
00:08:56partying,
00:08:56malicious comments,
00:08:57drinking,
00:08:58or toxic online communities,
00:08:59over time your ability to feel happiness from the same experiences decreases compared to others.
00:09:04That's because too many negative images pile up in your unconscious mind.
00:09:08Look at babies—they're delighted by falling leaves and laugh so hard playing tag.
00:09:14What about you?
00:09:16Can you feel joy when leaves fall?
00:09:18As we grow up and become worn down by life,
00:09:21as negative experiences accumulate,
00:09:23our sensitivity to happy experiences decreases.
00:09:26And so even if you achieve the same economic freedom,
00:09:29the maximum happiness you can actually feel becomes much lower.
00:09:33Who's vulnerable to heading in this direction?
00:09:36As I mentioned earlier,
00:09:37people who think 'I'll worry about this after I make money.' People who know money can't buy happiness beyond a certain point,
00:09:44but believe it can up until then,
00:09:46so they'll only focus on money until they reach that point.
00:09:50These people end up never feeling satisfied even when they make more and more money.
00:09:54They deceive themselves thinking 'I haven't made enough yet,
00:09:58' and if they take one wrong step,
00:10:00they might resort to illegal methods like insider trading or loan fraud just to make more money,
00:10:05falling into a bottomless pit of greed..
00:10:08If you too strongly believe that your unhappiness is due to lack of money,
00:10:12you'll reach the flat part of this graph but still think you don't have enough money.
00:10:17Only later do you realize it was never about money,
00:10:20and by then you're filled with regret..
00:10:23So I've organized five things necessary for pursuing economic freedom correctly.
00:10:27One: make a suffering list.
00:10:29Two: confront the fact that not all your suffering is caused by money.
00:10:32Three: start solving problems you can fix right now.
00:10:35Four: pursue economic freedom with the right methods and mindset.
00:10:39Five: develop habits that optimize happiness.
00:10:41Let's look at each one..
00:10:43We already made a suffering list earlier.
00:10:45For younger people,
00:10:46don't forget to add health issues to your list.
00:10:49Your list should include not just current suffering but also potential suffering that could arise once you achieve economic freedom.
00:10:56We covered step two earlier as well.
00:10:57Mark which problems on this list can be solved with money,
00:11:01and face the fact that not all your suffering is caused by money..
00:11:04Step three is that you need to start solving problems you can handle right now,
00:11:08little by little.
00:11:09Here are three reasons: making money does make you happier,
00:11:13but happy people also make more money.
00:11:15Some problems get worse if left alone,
00:11:18and eventually become unsolvable.
00:11:20And the more you get used to negative thinking,
00:11:22the harder it becomes to change later.
00:11:25Let's look at each reason..
00:11:27The first reason,
00:11:28as I covered in episode 12 of the previous series,
00:11:30is that while making money does make you happier,
00:11:32it's also true that happy people make money better.
00:11:35There are many studies and research papers on this,
00:11:38showing that people with higher happiness get promoted faster,
00:11:41earn higher salaries,
00:11:42and even in investing,
00:11:43happier groups show higher returns.
00:11:45It makes sense when you think about it.
00:11:46Anxious,
00:11:47depressed,
00:11:47and unhappy people naturally don't make a good impression in the workplace or society.
00:11:52Happy people look much better and make much better impressions.
00:11:55And when investing,
00:11:56stressed people are more likely to make impulsive trades or act greedily in a rush.
00:12:01The lower your satisfaction with the present,
00:12:02the stronger your tendency to gamble—to try desperate measures to escape your current situation.
00:12:06So if you make your current life a bit happier while pursuing economic freedom,
00:12:11you can actually move forward faster toward your goal.
00:12:15I can't show speed on the graph,
00:12:17but the point is you move slowly here and much faster here.
00:12:20Second,
00:12:20some problems get worse if you ignore them,
00:12:23and eventually become completely unsolvable.
00:12:26The prime examples are health problems and relationship problems.
00:12:29The third reason is similar to the second: the more you get used to negative thinking,
00:12:33the harder it becomes to change.
00:12:35Negative emotions like hate become addictive through dopamine release,
00:12:38and they turn into habits.
00:12:40There's something particularly scary about hate among negative emotions.
00:12:43In my 20s, I myself harbored hate toward certain groups.
00:12:45I had some prejudice against women,
00:12:47against foreign laborers,
00:12:48against sexual minorities.
00:12:50I'm still consciously trying to escape that shadow..
00:12:52Before my kids grow up,
00:12:54I want to be a better person,
00:12:56and I'm making that effort.
00:12:57Looking at my fellow younger viewers in their 20s and 30s,
00:13:01I see many following a similar path..
00:13:03Especially these days,
00:13:04the biggest issue is gender relations.
00:13:06Regional divides and generational conflicts have faded,
00:13:10and now hatred toward women and toward men make up 70-80% of social conflict.
00:13:14Society as a whole has systemic structures that amplify hatred in our hearts..
00:13:19Through five stages,
00:13:20hatred gets reproduced and becomes widespread in society,
00:13:24and I might cover that in a future video.
00:13:26Topics this sensitive get criticized no matter what,
00:13:29so it might be wiser not to cover them on YouTube.
00:13:32But if it can reach the hearts of some of my younger friends like siblings,
00:13:36I think it's worth the risk,
00:13:38so I'll cover it sometime..
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00:13:57So we've covered steps one through three of pursuing economic freedom correctly.
00:14:02Step four we covered in the previous episode.
00:14:05Pursue economic freedom with the right methods and mindset: skill,
00:14:09risk,
00:14:09inefficiency,
00:14:10and time.
00:14:10Polish your skills,
00:14:11manage risk appropriately,
00:14:13invest sufficient time,
00:14:14and explore inefficiencies.
00:14:15See the previous episode for details..
00:14:18The final step is developing habits that optimize happiness,
00:14:21not wealth.
00:14:22Our goal is to move upward on the graph,
00:14:25not just to the right.
00:14:27We move right because it helps us move upward.
00:14:31And another important thing: it needs to be about increasing happiness long-term,
00:14:35not just short-term.
00:14:37For example, let's say you get some extra free time.
00:14:39How should you use it?
00:14:41If you meditate,
00:14:42enjoy hobbies,
00:14:42or spend time with family,
00:14:43it won't help you accumulate wealth,
00:14:45but it will increase your happiness a bit.
00:14:47On the other hand,
00:14:48if you spend that time working without rest to make more money and become extremely stressed,
00:14:52you'll accumulate wealth,
00:14:53but your happiness will decrease even more.
00:14:55Or if you find a side job you enjoy or personal development you can actually look forward to,
00:14:58then you'll see upward momentum.
00:14:59Of course,
00:14:59these choices are just extreme examples,
00:15:01and there are actually many different ways to use your leisure time.
00:15:04In those cases,
00:15:05you shouldn't automatically spend all that extra time making more money.
00:15:08Instead,
00:15:08you should take a moment to think about where true happiness optimization lies before making your decision..
00:15:12Let me give another example: an office worker who absolutely hates their job.
00:15:16They can't stand their boss,
00:15:17they're constantly stressed,
00:15:18but the salary is excellent.
00:15:20So they earn good money,
00:15:20but their happiness decreases,
00:15:21and they try to compensate on weekends with hobbies and leisure activities.
00:15:24In that case,
00:15:25it might actually maximize happiness to switch to a less stressful company with more comfortable work environment,
00:15:30even if it pays less,
00:15:31and spend the extra free time on personal development or less frequent hobbies.
00:15:35Here's another example: the amateur full-time investor.
00:15:37The stock market happens to be in a good period,
00:15:39so they make significant profits.
00:15:40Thinking they're actually talented,
00:15:42they quit their job and become a full-time investor..
00:15:44Initially,
00:15:44even with small losses,
00:15:45they're happy because they don't have to see their boss or deal with workplace stress.
00:15:49But just because they're happy without losses should they go ahead with this decision?
00:15:51Of course not.
00:15:52As losses continue from full-time investing,
00:15:54their assets shrink,
00:15:55and their happiness drops too.
00:15:57Of course,
00:15:57all these examples are just hypothetical scenarios.
00:16:00Everyone faces completely different circumstances,
00:16:03and these patterns might not be accurate.
00:16:05But you understand the main point, right?
00:16:07What I'm saying is,
00:16:08try to find your own optimization within this kind of framework.
00:16:11As you pursue financial freedom,
00:16:13channeling all your limited time,
00:16:15capital,
00:16:15mental energy,
00:16:16and stress tolerance solely into earning more money isn't the best approach.
00:16:22You can invest these resources into earning more money and find happiness with that extra income.
00:16:27Or you can directly spend that time and capital on pursuing happiness right now and gain happiness that way..
00:16:34You should examine both options from a long-term perspective and optimize for the greatest happiness increase.
00:16:38Working two extra hours daily to earn an extra million won a month to give your parents might not bring as much happiness as calling them for 30 minutes daily.
00:16:48Or stressing over stock price fluctuations chasing a 10% annual return might be less fulfilling than a peaceful passive investment at 5% return while spending quality time with your daughter..
00:16:59But what if there's a way to increase your current happiness without spending any of these limited resources—your time,
00:17:05capital,
00:17:06or mental energy?
00:17:07That's like a free lunch in happiness optimization,
00:17:09so you absolutely should do it.
00:17:10So what is it?
00:17:11The hint can be found in the life of Buddha,
00:17:13Siddhartha Gautama.
00:17:14Buddhism,
00:17:15in its essence,
00:17:15isn't actually a religion in the traditional sense.
00:17:17Going to temples,
00:17:18bowing,
00:17:19praying for wishes to Buddha—those are devotional practices people added socially later.
00:17:23The historical Siddhartha spent his life pursuing an answer to one question: how can we escape the suffering of birth,
00:17:28aging,
00:17:29illness,
00:17:29and death??
00:17:30So he can be called a philosopher who pursued and researched this question.
00:17:32The direction Buddha pursued was this: complete liberation from all suffering.
00:17:35In Buddhist terms, this is called enlightenment.
00:17:37But I don't think we need to actually renounce the world and pursue enlightenment in our modern lives.
00:17:41However,
00:17:41I believe we can take useful hints and tips from Buddha's life and the lives of other practitioners to apply in our own pursuit of happiness.
00:17:49The most representative of these is meditation.
00:17:51I've briefly mentioned meditation in another video,
00:17:53and many people already know meditation is good,
00:17:56but it's actually difficult to start practicing it immediately.
00:17:59So today I'll introduce you to a simple method that doesn't even take much time.
00:18:02First,
00:18:03let me briefly explain the principle: our human autonomic nervous system is divided into two parts—the sympathetic and parasympathetic nervous systems.
00:18:09The sympathetic nervous system activates during stressful situations.
00:18:12In a crisis,
00:18:13the sympathetic nervous system kicks in,
00:18:15tenses our body,
00:18:16makes our heart race,
00:18:17and gives us the ability to respond to emergencies.
00:18:20But ancient humans lived alongside African predators,
00:18:23so the sympathetic nervous system was essential for survival.
00:18:25Modern humans,
00:18:26though,
00:18:26don't really face situations where we're likely to be attacked by wild animals or fall to our deaths..
00:18:31Due to evolutionary reasons,
00:18:32we're experiencing unnecessary stress and tension.
00:18:34Even when a boss yells at us at work,
00:18:36it's not actually a threat to survival,
00:18:37so we shouldn't be nervous,
00:18:39yet our sympathetic nervous system automatically responds.
00:18:41Beyond that,
00:18:42smartphones,
00:18:42gaming,
00:18:43pornography,
00:18:43sensational social media content,
00:18:45and malicious comments all overstimulate the sympathetic nervous system.
00:18:47This causes stress hormones like cortisol to be released while suppressing serotonin,
00:18:52which provides happiness.
00:18:53When this becomes chronic,
00:18:54it leads to various health problems..
00:18:56Actually,
00:18:56many problems we experience in daily life stem from this.
00:18:59In contrast to the sympathetic nervous system,
00:19:01the parasympathetic nervous system acts to counterbalance it,
00:19:04providing calm and relaxation.
00:19:05It reduces anxiety and stress while promoting healing.
00:19:08So we need to activate the parasympathetic nervous system,
00:19:10and Harvard Medical School researcher Dr.
00:19:12Herbert Benson's team has been conducting long-term studies on meditation..
00:19:16For example,
00:19:16research shows that transcendental meditation using mantras suppresses gene expression that triggers the sympathetic nervous system,
00:19:23which helps prevent cellular damage.
00:19:25This content is well-covered in this book,
00:19:26which I recommended in my last video.
00:19:28It's not an advertisement,
00:19:29and the author is a psychology professor at Seoul National University with no connection to me,
00:19:33though I found out he sadly passed away last year.
00:19:35But it's a really great book,
00:19:36so I recommend it to anyone interested in this topic.
00:19:39However,
00:19:39even if I talk about this in a video,
00:19:41not many people will go meditate immediately.
00:19:43Most will think,
00:19:44'Oh,
00:19:44that's nice,
00:19:45I should try it someday,
00:19:46' and forget about it.
00:19:47Or even if they get motivated and start,
00:19:48most will likely give up after three days..
00:19:50Because I'm the same way—I start and stop meditation constantly.
00:19:54So the method I found effective is starting with the simplest,
00:19:57minimal meditation possible,
00:19:58without any time or money required.
00:20:00And that is breathing.
00:20:02Most of the time, we breathe shallowly using our chest.
00:20:05But try changing just this one thing to deep belly breathing.
00:20:08It's simple—just let your belly expand and contract,
00:20:11not your chest.
00:20:11Do it consciously,
00:20:12and when you forget,
00:20:13just pick it up again the next time you remember.
00:20:15You can do it while walking,
00:20:16or right before sleep—whenever you remember.
00:20:18Each time you do this,
00:20:19your parasympathetic nervous system gets activated..
00:20:22If you observe animals,
00:20:23carnivores breathe deeply and maintain constant alertness,
00:20:26while prey animals breathe shallowly and rapidly,
00:20:29always tense.
00:20:29Another way to increase happiness is managing your unconscious mind.
00:20:34You've probably heard that beneath our conscious awareness lies a much deeper and wider world of the unconscious.
00:20:39Managing this part is actually quite important.
00:20:42When children are very young,
00:20:43they absorb experiences into their unconscious without filtering,
00:20:46which is why we need to be careful what TV shows we expose babies to.
00:20:49But even as we grow older,
00:20:50this management remains necessary..
00:20:51If negative experiences,
00:20:52emotions,
00:20:53and stress accumulate in the unconscious,
00:20:55they get expressed negatively in your emotions.
00:20:57When you don't process these in healthy ways and instead continuously seek stimulation through gaming or pornography,
00:21:02or vent through malicious comments,
00:21:03these negative patterns feed back into your unconscious,
00:21:05creating a vicious cycle..
00:21:07For example,
00:21:07leaving malicious comments comes from inner pain you're trying to release by hurting others' feelings,
00:21:13but the person who experiences this most vividly and immediately is yourself.
00:21:18The greatest harm comes to you,
00:21:20and it becomes the deepest imprint on your unconscious.
00:21:23So the second way to increase happiness vertically without spending time or money is managing your unconscious mind.
00:21:28But since words alone make it hard to practice,
00:21:30let me give you one simple tip..
00:21:32It's something I'm working on lately: consciously acknowledging positive experiences.
00:21:37Once a day,
00:21:37when something good or happy happens,
00:21:39try to consciously hold it in your mind for a few seconds and intentionally store it in your memory.
00:21:45Even the most exhausting,
00:21:47difficult day contains at least one small moment of happiness.
00:21:50When you find it—maybe you drank an incredibly refreshing glass of water,
00:21:53or on a truly hard day,
00:21:55the relief of lying in bed—try your best to imprint these moments in your unconscious..
00:21:59If consciously doing this feels difficult,
00:22:01a helpful method is keeping a gratitude journal.
00:22:04Writing a journal is a conscious, intentional act.
00:22:06When you write a gratitude journal,
00:22:07you're improving your unconscious mind through this conscious action.
00:22:09Also,
00:22:10among the people around you,
00:22:11there might be some you see regularly but who constantly give off negative energy.
00:22:15Try praising and thanking those people.
00:22:18As their unconscious gradually improves,
00:22:21that positive feedback will come back to you.
00:22:23Of course,
00:22:24I tried complimenting my wife yesterday,
00:22:27and I still need to see if it works out.
00:22:30So to summarize today's second part of the financial freedom formula: we pursue financial freedom because we want to escape suffering—the inability to control the world according to our wishes.
00:22:39However,
00:22:39only some of the suffering people experience can actually be solved with money,
00:22:43and there can be side effects if freedom is given to someone unprepared for it.
00:22:46Just like NBA and NFL players,
00:22:48we shouldn't blame all our current unhappiness on money or postpone happiness while pursuing financial freedom.
00:22:56Keeping these points in mind,
00:22:58the right ways to pursue financial freedom are: 1) Make a list of your suffering,
00:23:022) Acknowledge that not all your suffering is caused by lack of money,
00:23:063) Start solving problems you can address right now,
00:23:084) Pursue financial freedom with the correct methods and mindset,
00:23:125) Develop habits that optimize happiness,
00:23:14not just wealth.
00:23:15And for simple methods you can do right now to increase happiness: activate your parasympathetic nervous system and calm your sympathetic nervous system through meditation.
00:23:24You can simply develop a habit of breathing deeply to achieve this.
00:23:27Second,
00:23:28manage your unconscious by consciously recognizing positive experiences,
00:23:31keeping a gratitude journal,
00:23:33and so on.
00:23:33That concludes today's discussion on the financial freedom formula's final destination and the true purpose of financial freedom.
00:23:40I'm not someone who has it all figured out.
00:23:42Rather,
00:23:43I share the trial-and-error lessons I've learned and continue learning,
00:23:46hoping we can all make this effort together.
00:23:49Thank you for watching,
00:23:50and I'll prepare the next video to see you again..