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00:00:00This is a video on how to get rich.
00:00:02Why am I making a video on how to get rich?
00:00:04When I was working as a doctor
00:00:06and doing the YouTube and business stuff on the side,
00:00:08no one ever asked me, how do you get rich?
00:00:09They would always ask me, how do you manage your time?
00:00:12How do you be so productive?
00:00:13And all of this sort of stuff.
00:00:14But now like eight years into this journey,
00:00:16I've now built a multimillion dollar business.
00:00:18I have a team.
00:00:19I never have to work again a day in my life
00:00:20if I don't want to.
00:00:21Now when I give talks and when I do Q and A's
00:00:24and when I do like events and stuff,
00:00:26people will come up to me and ask questions.
00:00:28And the questions are no longer about
00:00:30how do you manage your time and how do you be productive?
00:00:32The questions like 90% of them are basically,
00:00:35how do you get rich?
00:00:37It's framed in different ways.
00:00:38You know, what's your advice for getting a high paying job?
00:00:40What's your advice for, you know,
00:00:41how I can have a six figure lifestyle business
00:00:43doing what I love?
00:00:44And I want to talk about something
00:00:46that I don't think I've talked about on this channel before.
00:00:47Basically back in 2015,
00:00:49I was in my third year of medical school.
00:00:51It's a six year degree at Cambridge University.
00:00:53And after three years,
00:00:54we have like a halfway graduation type thing.
00:00:55I was at this halfway graduation
00:00:57with the other medical students in my colleagues
00:00:59that were like 15 of us and sitting with our professors
00:01:01who'd gotten to know us over the last three years.
00:01:03And one of the questions in the yearbook
00:01:05that the medics were talking about was,
00:01:07which of us is most likely to become a millionaire
00:01:09but be struck off the medical register?
00:01:12Which means you're no longer allowed to practice medicine
00:01:14because they've deemed you incompetent.
00:01:15They've struck you off the medical register, big deal.
00:01:18And one of the professors who had known me for three years
00:01:21and had taught me said, oh, it's obviously Ali.
00:01:26And I was like, oh shit.
00:01:28At the time I had not started this YouTube channel.
00:01:31This was 2015.
00:01:32I started the channel in 2017.
00:01:33At the time I spent quite a lot of effort,
00:01:36like trying to be a good doctor,
00:01:38trying to sort of do my, you know, get the grades
00:01:40and you know, whatever.
00:01:41And I got a first class degree in one of my exams.
00:01:42And then that year I sort of ranked in the top two
00:01:44in the subject and like won a prize and stuff.
00:01:46I thought I was pretty dedicated to medical school stuff.
00:01:50And this professor who I really looked up to
00:01:55casually in the dinner context, I was like, oh, you know,
00:01:58which of us is most likely to be a millionaire
00:02:00but be struck off the medical register?
00:02:02Which is like a really bad thing.
00:02:04He just, he said it would be me.
00:02:06I'd be most likely to be a millionaire
00:02:07but be struck off the medical register.
00:02:08I didn't actually get struck off the medical register.
00:02:10Thank goodness.
00:02:11I voluntarily took my name off of it when I quit medicine
00:02:14to do full-time business, entrepreneurship type stuff.
00:02:17But that makes me feel pretty bad.
00:02:19I was like, huh?
00:02:20Like part of me was like,
00:02:21oh, he thinks I'm gonna be a millionaire.
00:02:23But the bigger part of me was like, holy.
00:02:26He thinks that my pursuit of money
00:02:28is gonna get me struck off the medical register.
00:02:30What?
00:02:32I think the only reason I got rich or the main reason,
00:02:35not the only reason, the main reason I got rich
00:02:38was because I had an unhealthy obsession with making money.
00:02:42An unhealthy obsession with making money.
00:02:44There's a thread on Reddit.
00:02:45There's like a junior doctors subreddit
00:02:47and someone like posted something a few, like last year.
00:02:50Like, what do you think of Ali Abdaal?
00:02:51You know, and some comments on this thing were like,
00:02:53oh, you know, I like his productivity content
00:02:54and he helped me study for my exams.
00:02:56But there were a bunch of comments being like,
00:02:58you know, that dude is totally obsessed with money.
00:02:59He's just obsessed.
00:03:00He has an orgasm thinking about money.
00:03:01Dude is so obsessed with making money.
00:03:03And it's interesting 'cause this is now like 10 years on.
00:03:05This is 10 years after that graduation dinner
00:03:07where my professor basically told me
00:03:09I was obsessed with making money
00:03:10to now people on the internet telling me
00:03:12I'm obsessed with making money.
00:03:13And honestly, it's true.
00:03:17It's true.
00:03:18During the era where my business grew from zero to five
00:03:20figures to six figures to seven figures
00:03:22and suddenly I was making more money
00:03:24than a doctor would earn in a lifetime, in a year.
00:03:27In that era, I was totally obsessed with making money.
00:03:30If you wanna get rich,
00:03:31I kind of think you need to be obsessed with making money.
00:03:36I'm sorry.
00:03:37I think that's it.
00:03:38I know a lot of people who are rich now.
00:03:41You know, when you become rich,
00:03:42you start hanging out with other people who are very rich.
00:03:44I have been on business trips and stuff
00:03:47with people with net worths in the multi seven figures,
00:03:50like up to $10 million, like one to $10 million.
00:03:52I've hung out with people who are and have net worths
00:03:54in the 10 to $100 million.
00:03:56I interviewed a guy who's now a friend of mine actually.
00:03:59He wrote a book called Never Enough.
00:04:00His name's Andrew Wilkinson.
00:04:01He's a billionaire with a B like net worth
00:04:04of $1,000 million plus.
00:04:06I have gotten to know a lot of really rich people.
00:04:08I have not met a single one who was not unhealthily obsessed
00:04:14with the goal of making money,
00:04:16with the goal of getting rich,
00:04:17with the goal of building their business.
00:04:19Once they get rich, that is when they start thinking
00:04:22about work-life balance.
00:04:24That's when they start doing side quests, right?
00:04:26You know, bro has completed the main storyline
00:04:27by getting rich.
00:04:28And now a bro is doing side quests.
00:04:30That's when they take up martial arts.
00:04:32That's when they take up video gaming.
00:04:34It's when they start writing books about like
00:04:36how to be more productive and how to like live your best life.
00:04:38And you know, I know lots of people who got rich.
00:04:41Through the process of them getting rich,
00:04:44they were married and had kids.
00:04:47And pretty much all of them felt as if
00:04:50they weren't present enough for their relationship
00:04:52and for their family.
00:04:54And then they get rich and then they realise,
00:04:56you know, there was a guy I was speaking to.
00:04:57He was like 42 or something.
00:04:59He was rich, way richer than I am.
00:05:02As I would estimate his net worth to be
00:05:03in the 10 to $100 million range-ish.
00:05:06He, I was chatting to him about a year ago on a trip.
00:05:09And he said that his unhealthy obsession
00:05:13with growing his business meant
00:05:17that he missed the first like 10 years
00:05:19of his kid's childhood because he was always working
00:05:22and was on the brink of divorce
00:05:24because he was always working.
00:05:26And it was just a stroke of luck that saved his marriage.
00:05:28And he became less obsessed with making money then
00:05:31and started to think about work-life balance.
00:05:34This is a video on how to get rich.
00:05:36How do you get rich?
00:05:37By having an unhealthy obsession with getting rich.
00:05:40To the point often that it sacrifices
00:05:44other areas of your life.
00:05:46In my case, I'm kind of lucky
00:05:48that my unhealthy obsession with getting rich,
00:05:50the thing that it sacrificed was my medical career.
00:05:55Thankfully, it didn't sacrifice it in the way
00:05:58that the medical career was taken away from me by force
00:06:01by me getting struck off the medical register.
00:06:03But it basically sacrificed my medical career
00:06:04because my obsession, my unhealthy obsession
00:06:06with getting rich made me build businesses and stuff.
00:06:09And I realised I enjoyed that more.
00:06:10And then I left the day job.
00:06:11That's actually very fortunate.
00:06:13If I'd gotten married and had kids
00:06:15and then developed an unhealthy obsession with getting rich
00:06:17or had an unhealthy obsession with getting rich
00:06:20and was growing my business and stuff
00:06:21to the point where I then got married and had kids.
00:06:23That unhealthy obsession with getting rich
00:06:26might well have caused me to look back on my time with regret
00:06:29thinking, man, I missed my kid's childhood.
00:06:31As I was getting rich, I had in the back of my mind
00:06:34that like, okay, this is fine.
00:06:35But really the important things in life
00:06:36are like health and relationships and stuff.
00:06:38And like, I don't wanna screw this up.
00:06:40You know, a really good book is
00:06:42"How Will You Measure Your Life?" by Clayton Christensen.
00:06:44A book like "Designing Your Life"
00:06:45by Bill Burnet and Dave Evans.
00:06:46There's books like "Siles, The Five Types of Wealth"
00:06:49which talks about how financial wealth
00:06:50is only one type of wealth.
00:06:51I think I managed to avoid
00:06:53a lot of the really negative consequences
00:06:55of being unhealthily obsessed with making money, thankfully.
00:06:58But it's interesting that even though
00:07:01I managed to avoid those consequences,
00:07:03my professor 10 years ago
00:07:04thought I was obsessed with making money.
00:07:05Random people on the internet now
00:07:07think I'm still obsessed with making money.
00:07:08Maybe it's true.
00:07:09Let's say you have a dream
00:07:11to become like a professional athlete, right?
00:07:13You wanna play football professionally.
00:07:14You wanna play squash or tennis professionally.
00:07:17Do you need to have an unhealthy obsession
00:07:18with the sport to make it?
00:07:20Yeah, pretty much.
00:07:21Like if you look at the training regimens
00:07:23of people who make it professionally,
00:07:24like top 1% people in any sport.
00:07:26From the outside, it looks as if
00:07:28they have an unhealthy obsession with the thing.
00:07:29They're just obsessed with it.
00:07:30It's all they think about.
00:07:31They live and breathe the thing.
00:07:32Their entire life is focused around the thing.
00:07:34And they go for that thing.
00:07:35Timote Chalamet, famous actor,
00:07:37talked about how he wants to be one of the greats.
00:07:39He wants to be a great actor.
00:07:40And I know we're in a subjective business,
00:07:43but the truth is I'm really in pursuit of greatness.
00:07:48I know people don't usually talk like that,
00:07:50but I want to be one of the greats.
00:07:51I'm inspired by the greats.
00:07:52I'm inspired by the greats here tonight.
00:07:55- It's kind of unusual.
00:07:55Like, you know, we've been in an era
00:07:57where aspiring to greatness is like frowned upon.
00:08:02You kind of want to be humble about it.
00:08:03Like, oh, you know, I just stumbled into acting.
00:08:05I don't know how I got these roles.
00:08:06I didn't try very hard.
00:08:07Like being a tryhard is considered,
00:08:08or used to be considered a bad thing.
00:08:10But I think people like Timote Chalamet
00:08:12are making it cool to be a tryhard.
00:08:14He's being a tryhard.
00:08:15He wants to be one of the great actors.
00:08:17That means he probably has an unhealthy obsession
00:08:19with the craft of acting, which is how he's getting there.
00:08:22And also he's really good looking and stuff.
00:08:24And also a great actor.
00:08:25But you don't get there without having
00:08:26an unhealthy obsession with the thing.
00:08:27Everyone who has a top 1% or above outcome in anything
00:08:31tends to have an unhealthy obsession with the thing.
00:08:33We don't look down upon it when it's an Olympic athlete
00:08:37or when it's a musician or when it's a concert violinist
00:08:40or when it's an actor or something.
00:08:42But when it comes to making money,
00:08:46there's something about that that we like to look down upon.
00:08:48If you want to get rich,
00:08:51you probably don't look down upon it, right?
00:08:53I mean, if you're watching this video,
00:08:53you probably wouldn't look down upon someone
00:08:55who has an unhealthy obsession with getting rich.
00:08:57But if you want to get rich
00:08:58and you're at this point in the video
00:08:59and you've sat through me talking about
00:09:01how I think the way to get rich
00:09:02is to have an unhealthy obsession with it,
00:09:05your friends and family will probably look down on you
00:09:09for having an unhealthy obsession with getting rich.
00:09:12Especially if you're in a country like the UK.
00:09:14And I've heard Canada is similar to this.
00:09:16I think in the US, they're a bit more chill about,
00:09:18you want to get rich, go for it.
00:09:20Like, you know, that kind of rah rah,
00:09:22helping like big you up for wanting a big outcome.
00:09:25In the UK and a lot of European countries,
00:09:27and I've heard Canada is like this as well.
00:09:29It's more like, you want to get rich?
00:09:31Bro, what's wrong with you?
00:09:32Like, you know, think about the finer things in life.
00:09:35Like, money won't buy you happiness.
00:09:36It's not gonna make you happy.
00:09:37Like, you know, why do you need to get rich?
00:09:39Like, there's this whole, like, this thing,
00:09:43this idea that if you're trying to get rich,
00:09:44that is somehow bad.
00:09:45And I don't know, maybe it is, maybe it is.
00:09:52But like, again, I don't know anyone who's gotten rich
00:09:53without being unhealthily obsessed with it.
00:09:55This is a video about how to get rich.
00:09:57How do you get rich?
00:09:58By becoming unhealthily obsessed with getting rich.
00:10:00What does it look like to be unhealthily obsessed
00:10:02with getting rich?
00:10:03I was having a conversation with a friend.
00:10:04This is a friend who wants to be rich.
00:10:06She wouldn't say I want to be rich,
00:10:07but what she would say is,
00:10:08"Oh, I'd love to have a lifestyle business
00:10:10that helps me make at least 10,000 pounds a month
00:10:12so that I can retire my parents,
00:10:14so that I can work whenever I want, wherever I want,
00:10:15and do work I love with people I love."
00:10:17That basically translates to I want to be rich, right?
00:10:19You know, how many people have the money
00:10:21to be able to retire their parents,
00:10:22have a lifestyle business,
00:10:23work from wherever they want, wherever they want,
00:10:24making at least 10,000 a month in profit?
00:10:26Like, man, basically she wants to be rich, right?
00:10:29And so we kind of had a bit of a conversation
00:10:31and I was like, "Come on, come on, man.
00:10:32You know, that's called a spade a spade. Is it fair to say
00:10:34that you want to be rich?"
00:10:35And she was like, "Yeah, I want to be rich."
00:10:37I was like, "Great, fantastic.
00:10:38You know, we're owning the fact that we want to be rich."
00:10:40She was saying that she's doing all these different things,
00:10:42but feels like she's stuck in one place
00:10:44because she's not actually becoming rich.
00:10:45And she's been watching the content
00:10:47and reading some of the books
00:10:47that I've been recommending and stuff,
00:10:49'cause, you know, she watches the channel occasionally,
00:10:50but she's still no richer than she was five years ago.
00:10:53She is still stuck in her job.
00:10:56That she enjoys sometimes and doesn't enjoy something like,
00:10:58whatever, still stuck in a job, not getting rich.
00:11:00And so I'm kind of talking about this.
00:11:01You know, she is training for a marathon.
00:11:04And at the same time, she wants to create YouTube videos,
00:11:06exploring her artistic side.
00:11:09And at the same time,
00:11:10she wants to document her life on Instagram
00:11:13because it gives her artistic fulfillment to do that.
00:11:16And at the same time, she wants to host events for friends
00:11:21because she's very sociable
00:11:22and enjoys hanging out with friends.
00:11:23And at the same time, you know,
00:11:24she really cares about her family,
00:11:25wants to spend a lot of time hanging out with the family
00:11:26and visiting her parents a lot.
00:11:27And like, just has all these different things
00:11:30that she wants to do.
00:11:30And she also has a day job for the record.
00:11:32So it's like, you know, 40 to 50 hours of a week
00:11:34are taken up by the day job.
00:11:36I asked a simple question.
00:11:37I was like, okay, let's call it Jane.
00:11:39Okay, Jane, how many hours a week would you say
00:11:42you are devoting to the goal of getting rich?
00:11:44And she had never thought about this question before.
00:11:47Like literally never.
00:11:48It's like for five years, she'd had the goal of,
00:11:5010 years, she'd had the goal of I want to get rich.
00:11:52Was wondering why she's not there yet,
00:11:54which is why she was talking to me about this.
00:11:55Cause it was a conversation about how to get rich, basically.
00:11:58And I asked how many hours a week
00:11:59are you dedicating to the goal?
00:12:00And she was like, oh, damn.
00:12:02I mean, I've got my day job.
00:12:03And I was like, okay, come on, you know, let's be honest.
00:12:05The day job is probably unlikely to get you rich.
00:12:08The way you get rich from a day job
00:12:10is either you work in tech or you work in finance.
00:12:12Those are broadly the two fields
00:12:15where your day job can get you rich.
00:12:17Tech and finance.
00:12:18Is there anything else?
00:12:19Pretty much just tech and finance, right?
00:12:21If you have a really high paying job in tech
00:12:23or a really high paying job in finance,
00:12:24you can get rich off that, right?
00:12:26Cause you make way more money than you spend,
00:12:27even if you're living in London.
00:12:29And if you're living in London,
00:12:30you're making 500 grand.
00:12:31You're only spending 100 grand on like rent
00:12:33and food and drinks and shit.
00:12:34You've got 400 grand left, taxes, et cetera, et cetera.
00:12:36Put it in an index fund, S&P 500, compounding.
00:12:39By the time you're about 40, you'll be rich.
00:12:41If you work in finance, similarly, if you work in tech.
00:12:43This person, Jane, does not work in finance or tech.
00:12:46Therefore, being honest,
00:12:48she's unlikely to get rich off of her day job.
00:12:50So time spent working towards the day job,
00:12:53broadly does not really count
00:12:55for the goal of trying to get rich.
00:12:56Basically it transpired.
00:12:57She was spending zero hours a week
00:12:59focused on the goal of getting rich.
00:13:00Let's say you're trying to become a professional athlete.
00:13:03Let's say a professional football player.
00:13:04How many hours a week would you need to be dedicating
00:13:07to that goal of being a professional footballer?
00:13:08Like many, many, many hours a day, forever,
00:13:11for like a 10 year period.
00:13:12And yet my friend Jane had the goal of being rich,
00:13:16which is a 1% goal,
00:13:17and was putting zero effort towards the thing.
00:13:20And we've realized at the end of the conversation
00:13:21that this is a big part of why she feels sad.
00:13:24A lot of the time that she's not getting
00:13:25to where she wants to be.
00:13:26Cause she wants to be here.
00:13:27And the actions that she's taking are completely de-correlated
00:13:31from like this thing that she wants.
00:13:33What else does an unhealthy obsession look like?
00:13:35So we've talked about kind of the hours per week
00:13:37that you're spending trying to get rich.
00:13:39What else does an unhealthy obsession look like?
00:13:41I want to tell you a little story.
00:13:43And I want to compare, in this little story,
00:13:46I'm going to take a snapshot of my life right now in 2025.
00:13:51I'm currently 30 years old, three zero.
00:13:53And I want to compare it with a snapshot of my life,
00:13:55let's say five years ago.
00:13:57Yeah, five years ago, it would have been 2020.
00:13:59That was when I was in the peak of my getting rich phase.
00:14:032020 was the year where I went from earning 100,000 a year
00:14:08on my YouTube business to like 1.2 million a year
00:14:10from my YouTube business for the regular.
00:14:11So 2020 was a massive year of growth.
00:14:13I want to talk about the idea of mental bandwidth
00:14:16and content, content diet.
00:14:20So back in 2020, there were two types of content
00:14:22that I was consuming.
00:14:24Number one was fantasy fiction audiobooks
00:14:28on my drive to and from work some of the time.
00:14:31And while I was at the gym, some of the time.
00:14:32That was maybe 10% of my content consumption.
00:14:34The other 90% of my content consumption
00:14:37was about getting rich.
00:14:39It wasn't explicitly about getting rich.
00:14:40Back in 2020, there wasn't that much content about it,
00:14:42but it was about business.
00:14:43It was about how to grow a YouTube channel.
00:14:44I was listening to literally all of the podcasts
00:14:46about how to grow a YouTube channel.
00:14:47I was listening to all of the podcasts
00:14:48about how to build a business and how to market a business.
00:14:51The Smart Passive Income podcast,
00:14:52the Online Marketing Made Easy podcast,
00:14:54Noah Kagan's podcast.
00:14:55I was reading all the books,
00:14:56listening to all the audiobooks about business.
00:14:58The E-Myth Revisited and Traction
00:15:00and dozens and dozens of books and audiobooks
00:15:03about how to get rich.
00:15:0490% of the stuff that I was consuming
00:15:06that I was listening to every single day
00:15:08at like two times and three times speed
00:15:10was content about how to get rich.
00:15:12The way you get rich is by having an unhealthy obsession
00:15:14with getting rich.
00:15:15What that unhealthy obsession looks like
00:15:17is that in your discretionary time, in your spare time,
00:15:20the thing that you are thinking about,
00:15:21the thing that you're consuming content about,
00:15:23the thing you're reading about,
00:15:24the thing you're listening about,
00:15:26the thing you are listening to stuff about,
00:15:27the thing you're watching videos on
00:15:28is on how to get rich.
00:15:29Going back to this friend, Jane,
00:15:31I also asked her how much time do you spend watching
00:15:34or reading or listening to content
00:15:35that is specifically towards this goal of getting rich?
00:15:37And she said, well, I watch a lot of content
00:15:40about like content creation because I'm interested in that.
00:15:42I'm like, okay, but like,
00:15:43do you plan to get rich through content creation?
00:15:45She was like, okay, probably not, right?
00:15:47She's doing the content creation thing as a hobby
00:15:49rather than as a vehicle to getting rich.
00:15:50And I was like, okay, do you watch or listen
00:15:52or to read anything else about getting rich?
00:15:54And she was like, yeah,
00:15:55I sometimes watch some of your videos
00:15:56about finance and stuff, but other than that, not really.
00:15:58And so this is someone who has the goal of getting rich,
00:16:01which is like a 1% goal.
00:16:02'Cause you know, let's say rich is top 1%,
00:16:04however you wanna define it, whatever.
00:16:06And she's putting zero hours a week towards the goal,
00:16:09acting towards the goal of getting rich.
00:16:11And she's putting zero hours a week of consuming content
00:16:14towards the goal of getting rich.
00:16:16That is not what an unhealthy obsession
00:16:17with getting rich looks like, unfortunately.
00:16:19Yeah, so back in 2020,
00:16:20when I was in the process of getting rich,
00:16:21on my income 10x'd,
00:16:22I was listening to some fantasy audio books.
00:16:24I was occasionally going to the gym,
00:16:25but literally all of the rest of my time,
00:16:27even while I was at work in my day job,
00:16:29all of the rest of my time was focused
00:16:32on how do I do stuff towards building my business
00:16:36and therefore getting rich?
00:16:37Or how do I learn stuff towards the goal
00:16:40of building my business and therefore getting rich?
00:16:41And my personal view is I think that's what it takes.
00:16:44I think that's what it takes.
00:16:47It's so hard to get rich.
00:16:48It's not an easy thing.
00:16:49Social media will make you think it's an easy thing.
00:16:51Social media will make you think
00:16:52that you can get super rich.
00:16:55And while you're in the process of getting super rich,
00:16:57you can also have a balanced life, right?
00:16:59You can go to the gym.
00:17:00You can have your friends and family.
00:17:01You can go on the holidays.
00:17:02You can do the things.
00:17:03You can have so much fun.
00:17:04You can train for a marathon.
00:17:05You can do a high rocks, whatever the fucking high rocks is.
00:17:07You can do all those things.
00:17:09In reality, those are the things that rich people do
00:17:12once they are already rich.
00:17:14They are not the things that they did
00:17:16while they were on the way,
00:17:18while they were switching from day job,
00:17:20earning 50 grand to business earning 500 grand.
00:17:23While they were growing the business from like,
00:17:25100K in revenue and no profit to a million in revenue
00:17:28and like lots of profit.
00:17:29Generally, pretty much everyone I've spoken to
00:17:32who has been in that position
00:17:35has been unhealthily obsessed with the goal of getting rich
00:17:38or building a business or whatever the vehicle
00:17:40to where it's getting rich they are.
00:17:42Unhealthily obsessed with that goal
00:17:45to the point that it has created imbalance in their life
00:17:50because they've been single-mindedly pursuing that goal.
00:17:53This is a video about how to get rich.
00:17:55How do you get rich?
00:17:56You become unhealthily obsessed with the goal.
00:17:58What else does an unhealthy obsession with a goal look like?
00:18:01So I talked about what my life was like back in 2020.
00:18:03I wanna contrast that with what it's like in 2025.
00:18:07Let's have a look through my YouTube feed.
00:18:09A man's content feed can tell you a lot
00:18:12about what they value and what their priorities are.
00:18:15So let me show you what my YouTube feed
00:18:17looks like these days.
00:18:19Okay, a video from Alex O'Connor about philosophy.
00:18:22A community post from Leila Homozi.
00:18:26A Gary's economics video about why growth is stupid.
00:18:29Okay, oh, here we go, Simon Squibb.
00:18:31This is a video about how to get rich.
00:18:32I have one video about how to get rich.
00:18:34Method versus mythic sprocket monger, lemon stock.
00:18:37Lock and stock, protection warrior POV.
00:18:39This is a video about World of Warcraft.
00:18:41This is not a video about getting rich.
00:18:43Shorts, is this rogue genius?
00:18:45Another video about World of Warcraft.
00:18:47Why you can tax billionaires?
00:18:49This is a economics type thing,
00:18:51another World of Warcraft thing.
00:18:52Oh, Alex Homozi, video about getting rich.
00:18:55This new weapon modification is amazing for speed runs
00:18:57in Horizon Forbidden West.
00:18:58This is not a video about getting rich.
00:19:00This is a video about a video game, hmm.
00:19:02Sahil Bloom quote.
00:19:04This is a video about how to get ripped,
00:19:06which is not about getting rich.
00:19:08This is a Darby CEO episode about fear and anxiety.
00:19:11This is Rory Sutherland, not about getting rich.
00:19:13I don't know what this is.
00:19:15This is another World of Warcraft video,
00:19:17not a video about getting rich.
00:19:18This is an art video,
00:19:19'cause I'm doing a side quest and learning how to draw.
00:19:21You know, bro is running side quests.
00:19:23I'm doing a side quest
00:19:24and I just completed Horizon Forbidden West
00:19:25on the PlayStation 5.
00:19:26I've gotten back into World of Warcraft,
00:19:28the war within season two on my character,
00:19:30which is a paladin where I'm trying to play holy
00:19:32and pro and retribution and stuff.
00:19:34I'm trying to learn how to draw.
00:19:35I'm running all these various different side quests.
00:19:37I'm taking Muay Thai lessons.
00:19:39I'm starting going to the gym very regularly.
00:19:40I'm taking squash lessons.
00:19:42Here's a book.
00:19:43This is one on how to get rich.
00:19:44I've read this book, by the way.
00:19:45It's a good book.
00:19:46This is music.
00:19:47Another side quest I'm running
00:19:48is trying to improve my guitar, piano and singing skills.
00:19:50Not a video about how to get rich.
00:19:52This is Lewis Howes and Jay Shetty,
00:19:54sort of a video about how to get rich,
00:19:55but not really.
00:19:56They're going to talk about feelings and stuff.
00:19:57World of Warcraft.
00:19:58Iman Godsey, video about how to get rich.
00:20:00Sell Something, video about how to get rich.
00:20:02Survive or Thrive.
00:20:03I don't know what that means.
00:20:05Australian Grand Prix.
00:20:07Networking.
00:20:08Storytelling, not about getting rich.
00:20:10I worked out David Goggins for 100 days,
00:20:12not about getting rich.
00:20:13My content feed these days reflects what my priorities are.
00:20:16If you were to look at that,
00:20:18what would you say are the things
00:20:19that Ali Abdaal cares about?
00:20:21According to his YouTube thing.
00:20:22According to his YouTube feed.
00:20:23He cares about World of Warcraft.
00:20:24Cares about gaming on the horizon, Forbidden West.
00:20:26Cares a little bit about making money
00:20:27because 20% of the videos were about how to get rich.
00:20:30Cares about becoming healthy.
00:20:31A handful of those videos were about health and stuff.
00:20:34If you'd looked at this two weeks ago,
00:20:37it was filled with baby gear recommendations,
00:20:40'cause I was on a fricking rabbit hole about like,
00:20:42you know, we've got a baby on the way
00:20:44and like researching the absolute best crib,
00:20:47pram, stroller, car seat, this, that and the other.
00:20:49And so my entire YouTube feed was recommendations
00:20:52for like baby gear.
00:20:52If you compared this to my YouTube feed back in 2020,
00:20:55all you would have seen is content about how to get rich.
00:20:58Content about how to build a business.
00:20:59Content about how to manage a team.
00:21:00Content about how to grow a YouTube channel.
00:21:01Content about how to grow on social media.
00:21:03Content about sales funnels and all of this sort of stuff.
00:21:05That's all you would have seen.
00:21:06This video is about how to get rich.
00:21:09The way you get rich is by having an unhealthy obsession
00:21:11with getting rich.
00:21:11What does that look like?
00:21:12What it looks like is that your content diet
00:21:15is towards that unhealthy obsession with getting rich.
00:21:18The unfortunate truth is that the more different goals
00:21:20you're working towards, the more balanced your life is,
00:21:23the less likely you are to get rich.
00:21:25Maybe there are a handful of exceptions to this rule,
00:21:27but in general, the pattern I've seen through,
00:21:29I know a hell of a lot of people who are rich.
00:21:31I've interviewed a lot of them on podcast,
00:21:33read a bunch of their books.
00:21:34None of, basically 100% of them did not have much
00:21:38of a balanced life while they were in the process
00:21:39of getting rich.
00:21:41They started, they got rich first
00:21:42and then they got the balanced life second.
00:21:44I am not saying that this is what you should do.
00:21:47I am saying that if you have the goal of getting rich,
00:21:49any or becoming a professional athlete
00:21:52or becoming a professional actor
00:21:53or becoming a professional musician,
00:21:55anything where this is a goal that only 1% of people attain,
00:22:00like to be better than 99% of people requires you
00:22:05to be more dedicated than 99% of people.
00:22:08Generally requires you to work harder than 99% of people.
00:22:11People say, you know, work, but I can work smart.
00:22:14It's like, okay.
00:22:16But like everyone else is also trying to work smart.
00:22:17Like also when you're a beginner at the thing,
00:22:19you don't know what working smart looks like.
00:22:21Like when you're a beginner to the goal of getting rich,
00:22:24are you building business or whatever,
00:22:25you just have to work really hard.
00:22:26And in the process of working really hard,
00:22:28you will figure out what does working smart look like
00:22:32so that further down the line, you can now work smart.
00:22:34Right now, I don't need to work that hard.
00:22:36Right now, my multi and decker millionaire friends
00:22:39don't need to work very hard.
00:22:40They still choose to anyway,
00:22:41'cause they're kind of obsessed.
00:22:42Still, a lot of them are obsessed,
00:22:43but you know, the ones with families and like balance,
00:22:45they don't need to work very hard.
00:22:46Why?
00:22:47Because they have employees who do the hard work for them.
00:22:49They've got systems, they've got leverage,
00:22:50they've got personal brands, they've got books,
00:22:52they've got passive income assets.
00:22:53They don't need to work hard anymore.
00:22:56But all of them had an unhealthy obsession
00:22:58with getting rich while they were younger,
00:23:00when they were building it up.
00:23:02So if you're at this point in the video
00:23:05and you would like to get rich,
00:23:07it's really worth asking yourself,
00:23:09do you have an unhealthy obsession with getting rich?
00:23:13Would your friends and family say
00:23:14that you have an unhealthy obsession with getting rich?
00:23:17Does your content diet
00:23:18reflect an obsession with getting rich?
00:23:21Does the way you spend your time
00:23:23reflect an obsession with getting rich?
00:23:26If the answer is no, then you have two options.
00:23:29I think all of this is just my opinion, whatever.
00:23:32I think you have two options here.
00:23:33Either you can decide to develop an unhealthy obsession.
00:23:36You can change your content diet.
00:23:38You can start consuming all the content about getting rich.
00:23:40You can start waking up two hours early before your day job,
00:23:42putting an effort towards building your business.
00:23:44You can start while you're at your day job,
00:23:45taking slightly longer lunch breaks
00:23:47and squeezing in half an hour
00:23:48of work on your business here and there.
00:23:50In the evenings, you can not go out with your friends
00:23:52every night or whatever the thing is.
00:23:53You can stop playing fricking video games.
00:23:54You can stop watching Netflix,
00:23:55stop watching random YouTube videos,
00:23:56even videos like this one,
00:23:58and only ever work on your business.
00:23:59While you're going on a walk while you're doing the dishes,
00:24:01you can switch your content diet
00:24:02so that you are listening to audio books and podcasts
00:24:04and videos about getting rich.
00:24:05On weekends, you can be like, oh, weekends, incredible.
00:24:07I've got like 16 full hours on Saturday
00:24:09and 16 full hours on Sunday,
00:24:11where I can literally just wake up, lock myself in a room,
00:24:13work for 16 straight hours on my business.
00:24:16That is what an unhealthy obsession
00:24:17with getting rich looks like.
00:24:19That is often what it takes.
00:24:21Getting rich is not easy.
00:24:22That's option number one.
00:24:24If you decide that, hey, I wanna get rich,
00:24:27I trust Ali's advice on this.
00:24:28I trust that he knows what he's talking about
00:24:29sort of somewhat anecdotally.
00:24:32And I trust that, okay,
00:24:33I currently don't have an unhealthy obsession
00:24:35with getting rich and I would like to develop one.
00:24:37Or you can decide, you know what?
00:24:40Actually, this isn't for me.
00:24:43If getting rich requires having an unhealthy obsession
00:24:48to the point where my life becomes imbalanced,
00:24:50if getting rich requires me to stop running my marathons
00:24:54and stop hanging out with friends
00:24:55and like work on the weekends
00:24:56and like wake up a bit earlier to work before work
00:24:58and like work during work,
00:24:59if getting rich requires my medical school professors
00:25:02to think I'm gonna get struck off the medical register
00:25:05because like I'm so obsessed with getting rich,
00:25:07man, if that's what's required to get rich,
00:25:09I actually don't wanna be rich.
00:25:11If that's the path you wanna go down,
00:25:13man, I'm so glad you watched this video
00:25:15because this video might have saved you
00:25:17all of this angst that you've currently got
00:25:19from like you have a goal of getting rich,
00:25:20but you're not doing the thing,
00:25:21which is to have an unhealthy obsession
00:25:22in terms of action and in terms of like learning
00:25:24to towards getting rich.
00:25:25You could just decide to make the goal
00:25:27less ambitious on that front.
00:25:30I'm not putting a moral judgment on this.
00:25:31I'm not saying anyone should have a goal of getting rich.
00:25:34I'm not saying getting rich is a morally good thing
00:25:35or a morally bad thing.
00:25:36It's a morally neutral thing.
00:25:37In the same way, I'm not saying
00:25:38that being a professional football player is good or bad.
00:25:41It just is what it is.
00:25:42If you have the goal
00:25:42of being a professional football player,
00:25:44it makes sense that you're either willing
00:25:46to put in the effort required
00:25:47to be a professional football player or not.
00:25:49But if you're not willing to put in the effort,
00:25:51you're not willing to pay the price that it takes
00:25:52to become a professional football player,
00:25:54why set yourself the goal
00:25:55of becoming a professional football player?
00:25:56The more we have this gap,
00:25:58the gap between where we want,
00:25:59the gap between the thing that we want
00:26:01and the actions we're taking,
00:26:03this gap creates misery.
00:26:04Misery is created in the gap.
00:26:05If I have the goal of being a professional squash player,
00:26:07for example, I don't, but if I did,
00:26:09and I'm only training two hours a week,
00:26:11I'm like, bro, that's gonna make me miserable
00:26:12because I'm never gonna get to that goal
00:26:14by only training two hours a week.
00:26:15Similarly, if you have the goal of getting rich
00:26:17and you're not willing to pay the price,
00:26:18which in my opinion is having an unhealthy obsession
00:26:21with it to the point that the rest of your life
00:26:22becomes imbalanced,
00:26:23if you're not willing to pay that price,
00:26:25either become willing to pay the price,
00:26:27i.e. become unhealthily obsessed,
00:26:31or just don't have it as a goal.
00:26:33You know, various people in my team, for example,
00:26:34are totally chill, not being rich.
00:26:36They do not have the goal
00:26:37of becoming financially free, financially independent.
00:26:39The ones that do often tend to go out
00:26:42and start their own business.
00:26:43And then they make videos
00:26:44about why they left the Oliveira team
00:26:45to start their own business.
00:26:46And they've joined our team,
00:26:47got inspired and decided to run their own businesses
00:26:49'cause they wanted to get rich, right?
00:26:51But there's a lot of people in my team who are like,
00:26:52you know what, I don't really wanna get rich.
00:26:54I just want a nice job that pays reasonably well,
00:26:57that gives me flexibility, that gives me fun,
00:26:59gives me autonomy, lets me learn,
00:27:00and lets me hang out with people that I like,
00:27:02and lets me travel the world while I'm doing it.
00:27:03That's actually the position of half the people in my team.
00:27:05They're like, you know what, actually, this is great.
00:27:08I love my job, I love my life, that's fantastic.
00:27:11They do not have the goal of getting rich,
00:27:12and therefore the fact
00:27:13that they're not unhealthily obsessed with getting rich,
00:27:15it's fine.
00:27:16It's not causing any misery because there's no misalignment.
00:27:18But there are various people I know,
00:27:19including Jane, for example, who has a job,
00:27:22and has the goal of getting rich,
00:27:23which is there, and her actions are here.
00:27:26And she feels misery every day
00:27:27because she feels the pain of misalignment,
00:27:30the pain that her goals are misaligned with her actions.
00:27:34And whenever you're in a situation
00:27:36where what you want is misaligned with what you are doing,
00:27:39it creates misery.
00:27:41So either change what you're doing or change what you want.
00:27:44That's my honest advice.
00:27:45That's my hot take on how to get rich.
00:27:46And if you enjoyed that video,
00:27:47then you will absolutely love my weekly email newsletter.
00:27:50It's called Life Notes,
00:27:51and it's where I share whatever I'm learning,
00:27:52watching, listening to, and just notes
00:27:54that I'm generally taking away from my work and my life.
00:27:56Thank you so much for watching.
00:27:57I hope you found this useful,
00:27:58and I'll see you hopefully in the next video.
00:27:59Bye-bye.

Key Takeaway

To achieve extraordinary wealth, one must embrace a period of intense, single-minded obsession with business and money-making that temporarily prioritizes financial goals over a balanced lifestyle.

Highlights

Getting rich at a top 1% level requires an 'unhealthy obsession' that often sacrifices balance in other life areas.

Realizing wealth typically involves a massive shift in content consumption, focusing almost exclusively on business and finance.

High-income fields like tech and finance are the primary day-job vehicles for wealth; otherwise, entrepreneurship is necessary.

The 'misery gap' occurs when there is a significant misalignment between an individual's ambitious goals and their daily actions.

Once 'rich' status is achieved, people often transition to 'side quests' like health, hobbies, and family to regain life balance.

Success in any competitive field, such as professional sports or acting, mirrors the obsessive dedication required to build a fortune.

Timeline

Transitioning from Productivity to Wealth

Ali Abdaal reflects on his journey from being a medical student and doctor to a multimillionaire entrepreneur. He notes that while people used to ask him about time management and productivity, 90% of current inquiries now center on how to get rich. He shares a pivotal story from 2015 when a Cambridge professor predicted he would become a millionaire but might be struck off the medical register due to his drive. This section establishes the speaker's credibility by highlighting his transition from a traditional profession to a high-scale business. It matters because it sets the stage for the controversial central thesis of the video regarding the cost of ambition.

The Necessity of Unhealthy Obsession

The speaker argues that the primary reason he became wealthy was an 'unhealthy obsession' with making money, a sentiment echoed by critics on Reddit. He observes that every rich person he knows, including billionaires like Andrew Wilkinson, shared this single-minded focus during their wealth-building phase. Many of these individuals sacrificed family presence and work-life balance, only seeking 'side quests' like martial arts or wellness after completing the 'main storyline' of getting rich. This section explains that balance is a luxury of the wealthy rather than a tool for the aspiring. It highlights the stark reality that top-tier financial success usually comes at a significant personal cost.

Comparing Wealth to Professional Greatness

Ali discusses how society views obsession differently depending on the field, using professional athletes and actors like Timothée Chalamet as examples. While we celebrate Olympic athletes for living and breathing their sport, society often looks down upon those who are obsessed with making money. He notes that being a 'tryhard' is essential for any 1% outcome, yet cultural attitudes in the UK and Canada often discourage overt financial ambition. This comparison serves to normalize the pursuit of wealth as a craft requiring mastery and dedication. The core argument is that greatness in any subjective or objective field is unattainable without total immersion.

Analyzing the Goal-Action Gap

Using a friend named 'Jane' as a case study, Ali explores why many people fail to get rich despite having the desire. Jane wants a lifestyle business making £10,000 a month but spends zero hours a week actually working toward that specific goal. The speaker points out that unless one works in high-paying sectors like tech or finance, a standard day job is unlikely to generate 1% wealth. This section introduces the concept of 'de-correlation,' where a person's desired outcome has no link to their actual behavior. It emphasizes that wishing for wealth without allocating time to the vehicle of wealth creation is a recipe for stagnation.

The Content Diet and Mental Bandwidth

Ali contrasts his mental bandwidth in 2020 during his peak growth phase with his current lifestyle. In 2020, 90% of his content consumption consisted of business podcasts and books like 'The E-Myth Revisited' and 'Traction,' consumed at high speeds. He argues that an obsession is reflected in what you think about during your 'discretionary time' or while doing chores. Social media often portrays a false narrative that you can get rich while maintaining a perfectly balanced, fun-filled life. This section matters because it provides a practical metric for the viewer to measure their own level of dedication to their financial goals.

The Rich Man's Side Quests

The speaker performs a live audit of his 2025 YouTube feed to show how his priorities have shifted since becoming wealthy. His feed is now filled with 'side quests' like World of Warcraft, philosophy, Muay Thai, baby gear research, and learning to draw. This stands in stark contrast to his 2020 feed, which was entirely focused on sales funnels, team management, and social media growth. He clarifies that he is not recommending this path but rather reporting the pattern he has observed among the wealthy. This distinction helps viewers understand that the 'balanced' version of Ali Abdaal they see today is a result of the 'obsessed' version from five years ago.

The Choice: Obsession or Realignment

In the final section, Ali presents the viewer with two clear options: develop an unhealthy obsession or change the goal to something less ambitious. He explains that misery is created in the gap between what we want and what we are doing, leading to constant internal conflict. He highlights that many members of his own team are perfectly happy not being rich because their actions are aligned with their desire for a flexible, fun job. The video concludes with the advice to either 'pay the price' of 16-hour workdays and obsessive learning or to embrace a more modest, balanced life without the guilt of not being rich. This final takeaway encourages radical honesty about one's own priorities to avoid long-term unhappiness.

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