How to change your life by journaling in 2026

AAli Abdaal
Mental HealthManagementAdult Education

Transcript

00:00:00Ladies and gentlemen, welcome back to the channel.
00:00:01This video is all about how you can use journaling
00:00:04to change your life.
00:00:05I have been journaling consistently since 2015,
00:00:08pretty much every day through a combination
00:00:10of physical and digital format.
00:00:11And I found that journaling has been the single habit
00:00:13that has most positively impacted my life
00:00:15because it's led to all of the things
00:00:17that I've done over the last 10 years
00:00:18that have led to my life being completely transformed.
00:00:20And I genuinely think
00:00:21that if you haven't started journaling yet,
00:00:22if you start doing it,
00:00:23it will also drastically change your life for the better.
00:00:26So this video is gonna be split up into three parts.
00:00:28Firstly, we're gonna talk about
00:00:29why journaling is a big deal
00:00:30and why it's important in the first place.
00:00:31Secondly, we're gonna talk about
00:00:32the three levels of journaling.
00:00:34And thirdly, I'm gonna share some actionable tips
00:00:36that you can use to start applying journaling
00:00:37to your life today if you want your life to be changed.
00:00:40And if you're interested in a totally free list
00:00:41of my favorite journaling prompts,
00:00:43they'll be linked in a Google doc down below.
00:00:45I keep that updated and have done for years
00:00:47with my favorite journaling prompts.
00:00:48So you can just download that and go
00:00:50if that's what you are into.
00:00:51Now, the thing with journaling
00:00:56is that you've probably come across it before.
00:00:58You might even seen some of the videos
00:00:59I've done on the channel about the importance of journaling.
00:01:01But when I speak to people around this,
00:01:03most people know that they kind of should
00:01:04probably maybe be doing some journaling,
00:01:06but they are not doing it consistently.
00:01:08Or if they are doing consistently,
00:01:10they're not like seeing the results
00:01:12that they would really like to get from journaling.
00:01:14So the key thing here is that
00:01:16it's pretty uncontroversial to say
00:01:17that the actions that you take
00:01:19dictate kind of your outcomes in life, right?
00:01:22So you could take positive actions
00:01:24that would lead you on a good trajectory,
00:01:26or you could take actions
00:01:27that take you on a bad trajectory.
00:01:29Like probably scrolling TikTok for eight hours a day
00:01:31is probably not helpful,
00:01:32will probably take you on a negative trajectory.
00:01:34But learning some high income skills
00:01:35and choosing to start your business, for example,
00:01:37might take you on a more positive trajectory.
00:01:39All of this is the action that we take.
00:01:41Upstream of the action is a decision.
00:01:43So for example, the decision I made
00:01:45to start this YouTube channel in 2017
00:01:47directly led to the actions of me making YouTube videos
00:01:50for the last like eight years.
00:01:51And that has had a very positive impact on my life.
00:01:53As a result, I've become financially free
00:01:55and able to do all the fun things
00:01:56and this gets to be my career, which is amazing.
00:01:58So thank you if you've been following the journey
00:02:00for any length of time.
00:02:01But that all stemmed from a decision
00:02:02to let's start a YouTube channel, right?
00:02:04And so then the question becomes like,
00:02:05how does that decision form?
00:02:07And that decision forms as a result of thoughts
00:02:10and feelings and beliefs.
00:02:12And in many ways, beliefs are just the same thing as thoughts.
00:02:14They're just thoughts that we take more seriously
00:02:16than other thoughts.
00:02:17It basically just comes down to thoughts and feelings.
00:02:19Some combination of thoughts and feelings
00:02:20leads to a particular decision.
00:02:22And then that decision leads to actions that change your life.
00:02:24So for example, let's say you want to become
00:02:26financially free, that is a thought
00:02:27probably accompanied by some kind of feeling.
00:02:29It's like a desire for financial freedom,
00:02:31but loads of people have the desire for financial freedom.
00:02:33Almost no one actually does anything about it
00:02:35and almost no one achieves the result.
00:02:37So then you gotta have the thought of,
00:02:38I want financial freedom.
00:02:39And then you gotta have a sort of feeling of confidence
00:02:42or a feeling of like actually wanting to do the things
00:02:46that it takes to become financially free.
00:02:47And then maybe you watch a video of mine
00:02:49or you come across some content that says,
00:02:51starting a business is a good route to financial freedom
00:02:54compared to just trying to get ahead in your career
00:02:56or whatever the thing might be.
00:02:57So you're like, all right, cool.
00:02:58Now you have another thought,
00:02:59which is I should start a business.
00:03:00And then when you have the thought
00:03:01of I should start a business,
00:03:02again, loads of people have the thought
00:03:03of I should start a business.
00:03:04And yet when I polled people in my audience,
00:03:06like 78% of you want to start a business,
00:03:08but you haven't yet started a business.
00:03:10So there's another blocker that holds you back.
00:03:12And that would be another thought in terms of like,
00:03:14what business idea should I pursue?
00:03:16And then along this way,
00:03:17along the thought of I want financial freedom,
00:03:18I should start a business.
00:03:19The thought of what business idea should I pursue
00:03:21or that question in your mind.
00:03:22This is also accompanied by a lot of different feelings
00:03:25and feelings are also these other internal things
00:03:27that, you know, internal bodily sensations
00:03:28that we apply some kind of label to.
00:03:30So the feeling of anxiety, the feeling of fear,
00:03:33the feeling of like cringe at the thought
00:03:35of like outing yourself as a wannabe business owner.
00:03:38The feeling of like, oh,
00:03:39but like, am I gonna have to show my face?
00:03:41Am I gonna have to create content?
00:03:42Am I gonna have to speak to people?
00:03:43And like, what if I get rejected?
00:03:45And all this sort of stuff.
00:03:46And all of these are feelings accompanied by thoughts
00:03:49like thought feeling combinations that block loads
00:03:52of people in the world who have the thought of,
00:03:54I should start a business or I want financial freedom.
00:03:56The thoughts and the feelings block them
00:03:58from actually ever taking action and doing the thing.
00:04:00Now, what the hell does all of this have to do
00:04:01with journaling?
00:04:02Well, what it has to do with journaling is,
00:04:04journaling is literally the process of writing down
00:04:07your thoughts and your feelings
00:04:09and to an extent your beliefs.
00:04:10And the thing about thoughts and feelings,
00:04:12in particular thoughts, like when they are in your mind
00:04:14and they are not on paper, they have way more power over us.
00:04:18The thought of, if I start my business,
00:04:21then my colleagues will laugh at me,
00:04:24is a thought that I hear a lot from students
00:04:25in our Lifestyle Business Academy,
00:04:26which is kind of like my online business school.
00:04:28It tends to be like professionals who are successful
00:04:30in their day jobs and in their lives,
00:04:32who really wanna start a business
00:04:33to get to financial freedom,
00:04:34but they're really worried that their colleagues
00:04:36will laugh at them if they start posting on LinkedIn,
00:04:38for example.
00:04:38Now, saying that out loud, it seems dumb, right?
00:04:41Like, why would you let the thought of what Jane from HR
00:04:46thinks about your business,
00:04:47'cause you worked with her 10 years ago.
00:04:48Why would you let that stop you
00:04:49from achieving financial freedom?
00:04:51But when that thought is in the mind,
00:04:53and it's just like in our heads,
00:04:54and it's just sort of bouncing around,
00:04:55the thought of like, Jane from HR is gonna laugh at me,
00:04:57therefore everyone else will laugh at me,
00:04:59therefore my manager will laugh at me,
00:05:00therefore like I'm gonna lose my professional reputation
00:05:03and my social status,
00:05:03and therefore I'm gonna end up broken, homeless and alone.
00:05:06And these are not like conscious thought processes,
00:05:08but it tends to be what the mind does,
00:05:10because the mind is a survival machine
00:05:12and it's geared towards protecting us from bad things.
00:05:15It is not at all geared towards helping us
00:05:18live the life of our dreams.
00:05:19The mind is totally happy if we stay completely miserable,
00:05:23but in our comfort zone, in our comfort zone of safety.
00:05:26The mind is optimizing for safety, not for growth.
00:05:28And in general, if you want to take actions
00:05:30that optimize your life and take you in a direction
00:05:33that you feel your life has changed for the better,
00:05:35we wanna be optimizing for growth rather than for safety,
00:05:37and so the mind is just not the right tool to do this.
00:05:39One example that I quite like is like,
00:05:41imagine you're trying to do something complicated
00:05:42like designing a bridge.
00:05:44Would you try and do that in your head?
00:05:45Probably not, right?
00:05:46Like bridges are very, very complicated devices
00:05:48that require loads of like engineering and like mathematics
00:05:51and like architectural stuff and material science
00:05:53and all that stuff goes together with loads of people
00:05:55to make a bridge.
00:05:56They don't do it in their heads.
00:05:57They put it down on paper, right?
00:05:59And so if you're trying to calculate
00:06:01a complex mathematical equation,
00:06:02of course you would put it down on paper.
00:06:04And yet loads of us just never put our thoughts
00:06:07and feelings on paper.
00:06:07We have them in our heads at all times.
00:06:09And then what happens is that those thoughts and feelings
00:06:10run rampant and start running,
00:06:12going down rabbit holes and stuff.
00:06:13We end up making decisions as a result of those.
00:06:15But because we're doing them subconsciously,
00:06:17we don't realize that like anxiety and fear and cringe
00:06:20and like the fear of rejection
00:06:22and like what are people gonna say
00:06:23and all that kind of stuff.
00:06:24We just don't realize that that stuff is holding us back
00:06:27from achieving our dreams.
00:06:28And so when you start journaling,
00:06:30way back to journaling, when you start journaling,
00:06:31which is literally the process
00:06:32of writing down your thoughts and your feelings,
00:06:35when you write them down,
00:06:36I am not starting my business because I am worried
00:06:39that Sarah from accounting will laugh at me.
00:06:42You write that down and suddenly that particular thought
00:06:44loses like 95% of its power.
00:06:47And be like, Sarah, really?
00:06:48Am I really gonna let what Sarah from accounting thinks
00:06:50like stop me from achieving financial freedom?
00:06:51That's just fucking dumb.
00:06:52And then you can kind of see your thoughts for what they are.
00:06:55Most of us, unless we have a journaling practice
00:06:57or a meditation practice, which is sort of somewhat similar
00:07:00in that it has somewhat similar effects to an extent,
00:07:03unless you have a strong journaling or meditation practice,
00:07:05you probably take your thoughts way too seriously.
00:07:07And so when you have thoughts
00:07:08and you get into these rabbit holes,
00:07:09you are allowing those thoughts,
00:07:10which are really just, you know, thoughts are not real.
00:07:13It's kind of like cloud in the sky, right?
00:07:15Like, I mean, yeah, there's a cloud that's gone by.
00:07:17I currently have the thought of like,
00:07:18oh, lunchtime's in an hour.
00:07:19It's like, who cares?
00:07:20There's a cloud going there, there's a car going there.
00:07:22Like it's all just stuff, right?
00:07:25And unless you journal or meditate or both, ideally,
00:07:29you will take those very seriously
00:07:30and you will allow your thoughts,
00:07:31which are simply patterns of energy
00:07:33in the neurons in your mind,
00:07:35you will allow those to dictate your actions
00:07:37and your decisions.
00:07:38And therefore you end up on a trajectory
00:07:41where you're living with regret
00:07:43because you never pursued your dreams
00:07:44because you allowed fear to get in your way and stuff.
00:07:47So basically that's our long roundabout way
00:07:49of saying that journaling, i.e. writing down thoughts
00:07:51and feelings is really, really important
00:07:52if you wanna change your life.
00:07:53Now, in other exciting news, as you might've heard,
00:07:55my team and I are currently building
00:07:56an online business school
00:07:57called the Lifestyle Business Academy.
00:07:59And we're iterating on things at a pretty fast pace.
00:08:01Now, one of the big perks of having so many students
00:08:03going through our program
00:08:04is that we now have a ton of data points
00:08:06and moving parts to manage,
00:08:08including content and feedback and workflows and automations.
00:08:10And all of that gets way easier
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00:09:12Okay, so now we get to, how do you actually do this?
00:09:14And I think of this as the three levels of journaling.
00:09:17Level one is great for complete beginners to journaling
00:09:20and it's super, super easy.
00:09:21You just write down what you did today.
00:09:23So either in the morning,
00:09:24you can write down what you did yesterday
00:09:26or in the evening, you can write down what you did today.
00:09:28And there is a fantastic book by a lovely chap
00:09:30called Matthew Dix called "Storyworthy."
00:09:32And there is a strategy in that book called "Homework for Life."
00:09:34And it's basically a book about like,
00:09:35how to tell better stories, but it's more than about that.
00:09:37It's just, it's one of my favorite books of all time.
00:09:39Anyway, the idea behind "Homework for Life"
00:09:40is at the end of every day, you just ask yourself,
00:09:42what was the most storyworthy moment that happened today?
00:09:46And then you just sort of write down what it might be.
00:09:48And if you can't think of anything that was storyworthy,
00:09:50it doesn't matter, you've got to come up with something.
00:09:52Like what was just one thing that happened in your day
00:09:54that was at least slightly interesting
00:09:56or at least slightly more interesting than everything else?
00:09:58Even if you have a really boring life,
00:10:00you have to come up with something.
00:10:01And that is a great journaling practice because A,
00:10:04it's amazing for being able
00:10:05to actually relive your own memories
00:10:06because our memories are in many ways what we retire on.
00:10:09And so when you go back through your journals,
00:10:11like I've got journals over here from like years,
00:10:13I've been journaling regularly since 2015.
00:10:15So now I have like 10 years worth of journal entries
00:10:17where, you know, if I do them on an app,
00:10:19I can see the sort of on this day in 2015,
00:10:21on this day in 2014, this is what I was thinking,
00:10:23this is what happened.
00:10:24And reliving those memories is generally quite nice
00:10:27because it's quite nostalgic 'cause it's been a while.
00:10:29And it's also nice because it lets you see
00:10:31how far you've come.
00:10:32So at the very basic level,
00:10:34this doesn't require you to open up about your feelings
00:10:36or about your childhood trauma or anything like that.
00:10:38You literally just write out what you did today.
00:10:40Then you have the next level of journaling,
00:10:42which is you write out what you are thinking.
00:10:43Now there is a technique from Julia Cameron's book,
00:10:46The Artist's Way called morning pages, which is amazing.
00:10:49Loads of people swear by it.
00:10:50And the idea behind morning pages is that every morning,
00:10:52you just write out three pages.
00:10:53You can do less than three, three is too many.
00:10:56You're just literally writing down
00:10:57whatever is coming to your mind.
00:10:59So I like to start up my morning pages when I do it with,
00:11:01today is gonna be a great day because,
00:11:04and then I just keep writing.
00:11:05And then the idea is you just keep writing.
00:11:06You don't judge what you're writing.
00:11:08No one else has to read what you're writing.
00:11:09You're not writing for publication.
00:11:11You are merely just writing out stuff
00:11:13that comes to your mind.
00:11:13And you generally find that in the process of doing this,
00:11:16as you build the connection between the thoughts
00:11:18that are happening in your brain and what your pen is saying,
00:11:21or if you're typing it out.
00:11:22Technically she says you should write it out by hand,
00:11:24but sometimes that's annoying.
00:11:25So I do type it out.
00:11:27Sorry, Julia, apologies.
00:11:28As you develop that connection between actually being able
00:11:30to type out or write out what you're thinking,
00:11:33you actually get a lot of insight
00:11:34into your thought processes.
00:11:36You start to realize that, wait a minute,
00:11:37the thoughts that I keep thinking
00:11:38are actually kind of negative.
00:11:39Huh, it's interesting.
00:11:40Why am I talking to myself like that?
00:11:42You also, if you have any kind of creative practice,
00:11:44any kind of like if you're creating content
00:11:46or trying to write a book or trying to do any art
00:11:48or anything that involves creating
00:11:50and putting anything out there into the world,
00:11:52often the process of like getting your thoughts out on paper
00:11:55can really help with your creativity as well.
00:11:57Then as a sort of addition to that,
00:11:58instead of just writing what you're thinking,
00:12:00you also write what you are feeling
00:12:02and trying to put your feelings into words.
00:12:04Again, this is just super, super helpful.
00:12:06It gives us a lot of self-awareness
00:12:07about the feelings that we all have.
00:12:09We are all experiencing different feelings
00:12:10at different times of the day.
00:12:11It is remarkable just how much our feelings
00:12:14subconsciously dictate our decisions and our actions.
00:12:16And so being, again, being able to write it out,
00:12:18huh, I'm currently feeling a little anxious.
00:12:20Why am I feeling a little anxious?
00:12:21I feel a sense of like franticness
00:12:23that's sort of just coming into my life.
00:12:25I feel like I'm maybe running out of time
00:12:27and that's leading to a feeling of like agitation
00:12:30and franticness that if I don't do all the things,
00:12:32then I don't know, something bad will happen.
00:12:34Now that thought process or that feeling process
00:12:37in our brains and in our bodies will run rampant
00:12:39and we'll just be like a little stressed,
00:12:42a little on edge at risk of burnout without realizing it.
00:12:45But as soon as you start journaling
00:12:46and you write it out and put it on paper,
00:12:48you can be like, huh, that's interesting.
00:12:50Why do I act as if I'm running out of time?
00:12:52Am I running out of time?
00:12:53Well, no, not really.
00:12:54I wonder where that thought comes from.
00:12:55And then what happens is that you start like
00:12:57approaching your thoughts and your feelings
00:12:59kind of like a detective or like an investigator.
00:13:02You're like, huh, it's interesting that I have the thought,
00:13:05this video sucks right now
00:13:06because I don't have any scientific data in it.
00:13:08I wonder where that thought comes from.
00:13:10Maybe that comes from thinking that like the only value
00:13:12I have to add as a YouTuber is in like
00:13:14whether I add scientific data to my videos.
00:13:16Huh, that's interesting, is that true?
00:13:18In the process of journaling,
00:13:19you're sort of like having this sort of conversation
00:13:21with yourself, but you're not having a conversation
00:13:22with yourself in your head where it's very easy for it
00:13:24to get, to derail into like negativity and stuff.
00:13:27You're having the conversation with yourself on paper
00:13:28or copy paste into chat GPT and then get an analysis
00:13:32from chat GPT or Claude or whatever.
00:13:33All of this just gives you way more insight
00:13:34into your own thought patterns
00:13:36and your own feeling patterns.
00:13:37Oh, by the way, if you're watching this
00:13:38before the 3rd of January, 2026,
00:13:40I am hosting a completely free two day series of workshops
00:13:43called Spark on Saturday the 3rd
00:13:45and Sunday the 4th of January, 2026.
00:13:47So the idea that it will be me and my wife
00:13:49and a few guest speakers that you might've heard of
00:13:51and we're gonna be taking you through
00:13:52a bunch of different exercises to help you reflect on 2025
00:13:55and set goals for 2026 so that we can hopefully
00:13:57help you make 2026 the best year of your life.
00:14:00It is completely free.
00:14:01There'll be a link down below to register if you would like.
00:14:04And then level three, I think is that once you're able
00:14:05to do that kind of stuff, which is, it's not that hard.
00:14:07You then start journaling about your goals and your plans.
00:14:10Now this is where I really like journaling, right?
00:14:11Like there's a lot of value in journaling
00:14:13and just being able to write out what you're feeling.
00:14:15But for me as a productivity bro,
00:14:17who cares about like goal achievement
00:14:18and like getting places like becoming financially free
00:14:21or whatever, you then start writing about your goals
00:14:23and plans, you then start writing like, okay, cool.
00:14:25I've written out what I've done today.
00:14:26I've done my morning pages, whatever the thing,
00:14:28thinking and feeling.
00:14:28And then at some point,
00:14:29you'll start writing about the future.
00:14:31You might see a journaling prompt that says something like,
00:14:33you know, what would you like people to say at your funeral?
00:14:35And you're like, huh, that's an interesting question.
00:14:37What would I like people to say at my funeral?
00:14:38Well, at my funeral, most people don't,
00:14:40won't really care about like my sort of achievements.
00:14:42They're not really gonna care how much money I have.
00:14:44But at my funeral, you know,
00:14:45people generally talk about service
00:14:46and they talk about character.
00:14:47So, hmm, what's the kind of service
00:14:49that I would like to offer to people or to the world?
00:14:51What's the kind of character I'd like to develop?
00:14:53And now you are in the mode of processing
00:14:57where you're actually able to make sensible decisions
00:14:59about what you wanna do with your life.
00:15:00You might come across a journaling prompt.
00:15:02What does your ideal end state look like?
00:15:04Like, imagine you've achieved everything you want.
00:15:06What does your day-to-day look like?
00:15:08You're like, huh, I've never thought about that.
00:15:09Okay, let's imagine I have achieved everything I want.
00:15:11Let's imagine I have started that business
00:15:13or got that promotion or gotten married,
00:15:15had the kids, et cetera, et cetera.
00:15:17What then?
00:15:18What would I actually be spending my time doing?
00:15:20And I'm like, well, maybe.
00:15:21You know, I just, I'd really like to do stand-up comedy.
00:15:25You're like, oh, interesting.
00:15:26Where did that thought come from?
00:15:27Yeah, I'd really like to do stand-up comedy.
00:15:29That would be really interesting.
00:15:29Or I'd really like to write songs
00:15:31or like release my own album
00:15:32or whatever that thing might be.
00:15:34Often, like, we don't give ourselves permission
00:15:37to think in those sorts of ways
00:15:39because we are so fixated on what's the next thing
00:15:42that I have to do.
00:15:43A lot of us are running through life,
00:15:44ticking things off a to-do list,
00:15:46acting as if our time is running out.
00:15:48And we're so focused on like just getting through the day
00:15:52and just getting the stuff ticked off
00:15:53and like removing these sources of stress from our lives.
00:15:55Like, oh, I've got to pay the electricity bill,
00:15:56got to pay the water bill, oh shit.
00:15:57Like the radiator next door is broken,
00:16:00so I've got to call a plumber about that,
00:16:01et cetera, et cetera, et cetera.
00:16:02That when you journal, even for five minutes or 10 minutes,
00:16:04and you do it consistently,
00:16:06you get distance from the day-to-day
00:16:08and you can start thinking about the future
00:16:10and you can start asking yourself, what do I actually want?
00:16:13That is like one of the key things
00:16:15that I have personally gotten through journaling
00:16:17over the years, just a better sense
00:16:21of what do I actually want?
00:16:23Because if you really figure out what you want,
00:16:25and then, you know, not in terms of like,
00:16:27I want a Lamborghini or I want a yacht or whatever,
00:16:28but like what you intrinsically want,
00:16:31what you intrinsically want or value,
00:16:33you can then start to make decisions
00:16:34that take your life closer in alignment
00:16:37to what you want and what you value.
00:16:38And so you might think that you want a lot of money,
00:16:40but in the process of journaling,
00:16:41you might realize that like, okay, well,
00:16:43what would I do with the money if I had it?
00:16:44You might realize that what you would do
00:16:46is that you just want freedom.
00:16:47You want freedom to be able to spend your time
00:16:49however you want.
00:16:49And then you're like, all right, cool.
00:16:50So it's not really money I want.
00:16:51It's more like freedom that I want.
00:16:53And then you're like, okay,
00:16:54but like, why do I want the freedom, right?
00:16:55Like what would I do if assuming I had all the money
00:16:58and all the freedom, how would I spend my time?
00:17:00And you might land on something like I did
00:17:01that like, you know what?
00:17:03I would really just focus on teaching.
00:17:04I just really like teaching.
00:17:05It's like, oh, interesting.
00:17:06Teaching is the thing that I wanna do.
00:17:07Like that kind of thought process
00:17:09was what helped me realize that, you know,
00:17:11my career as a doctor wasn't really for me.
00:17:12And I realized that like the most enjoyment
00:17:14I ever had as a doctor was when either
00:17:16I was learning something new or I was teaching something.
00:17:19So I'm like, huh, that's interesting.
00:17:20Like learning and teaching are the things
00:17:22that I seem to want.
00:17:23Is that true?
00:17:24And then do some journaling, figure that out.
00:17:25It's not like, yeah, actually a lot of the past experiences
00:17:28of fulfillment in my life have been involved
00:17:30either when I've been learning something new
00:17:31or I've been teaching something.
00:17:32So I don't really care about the money
00:17:33for the sake of the money.
00:17:34I care about the money because the money gets me freedom
00:17:36and the freedom lets me teach.
00:17:37Oh, okay.
00:17:39So maybe that's what I want.
00:17:40I want the freedom to learn and teach on my own terms.
00:17:42And so that kind of insight can come through journaling.
00:17:45It can come through like having a life coach.
00:17:47It can come through talking about your thoughts and feelings
00:17:49to like an AI model and, you know,
00:17:51hopefully it's someone guiding you in the right direction.
00:17:53All of it requires externalizing your own thoughts
00:17:56and your own feelings because when they are internal,
00:17:59there's not much we can do with them.
00:18:00And we end up going in all these sorts of different places,
00:18:02but externalizing them in any way,
00:18:03be it through journaling or through talking to an AI,
00:18:05which is kind of basically journaling
00:18:07or talking to a life coach,
00:18:08which is basically just like journaling out loud
00:18:09and they're just asking you questions.
00:18:11All of that is getting at the question
00:18:12of what do I actually want?
00:18:14And then once you figure out what you want,
00:18:16then you turn it into a goal.
00:18:18You turn it into a plan.
00:18:19You turn it into a system to follow the plan.
00:18:21This is sort of like my GPS method for goal setting,
00:18:25which will be linked up there and down there
00:18:26if you're interested in learning more about it.
00:18:27And it's all based on what do you actually want?
00:18:29I have people who come up to me at my events a lot
00:18:31being like, hey, how do I figure out what to do with my life?
00:18:33Or questions like that.
00:18:34And my first question is often,
00:18:35have you tried journaling about it?
00:18:37And often the answer is no, not really.
00:18:39Or like, oh yeah, I've been in meaning too,
00:18:40but I haven't really got around to it.
00:18:42It is remarkable how much clarity you can get
00:18:44by just setting a 10 minute timer
00:18:46and just asking yourself a question
00:18:48and then just typing out whatever comes to mind
00:18:50or speaking out whatever comes to mind as a response.
00:18:53If you're interested in an app to help you with that,
00:18:55my team and I have built a tool called VoicePal,
00:18:57which is kind of like voice-based journaling or note-taking.
00:19:00You just go for a walk.
00:19:01It's got a few journaling prompts within it as well.
00:19:02And you can just like pick a prompt
00:19:04and you can just like speak out whatever you want.
00:19:05That'll be linked down below.
00:19:06It's on the app store, it's on Android.
00:19:07People are loving it.
00:19:08It's great, you should check it out if you would like.
00:19:11Okay, so that was a lot of theory.
00:19:13Let's now talk about the actionable tips.
00:19:15What are the things you can tangibly, actionably do
00:19:17to start incorporating journaling into your life
00:19:18so that you can change your life?
00:19:20Number one, I would say get a physical journal.
00:19:23These are just some of the physical journals
00:19:26that I have had over the years.
00:19:28I got a new one recently.
00:19:31Basically, I just love getting Harry Potter themed journals.
00:19:34So this is like a Ravenclaw.
00:19:36I got this from a Ravenclaw sculpted journal.
00:19:39I got this from South Africa.
00:19:40Oh, I got this one.
00:19:43This is one that I got, I think this is from London.
00:19:46Expecto Patronum, another Harry Potter Moleskine-like journal.
00:19:49It's just nice having a nice journal.
00:19:51I think a lot of people would do more journaling.
00:19:54Where's the other one?
00:19:54Ah, here we go, we've got some more here.
00:19:57More journals.
00:19:58Like, you know, when you've been journaling for a while,
00:20:00then you just end up collecting like journals and stuff.
00:20:03And it's just super cool.
00:20:05Like this was my experiment with like bullet journaling.
00:20:07Where it's like, there's so much stuff in here.
00:20:09It's really cool.
00:20:10Basically, get a physical journal
00:20:13that you feel good about using.
00:20:15The whole concept behind my book, "Feel Good Productivity"
00:20:17is that we are far more likely to do things
00:20:19and to do things better if we feel good about doing them.
00:20:21And so when I bust out my cute blue
00:20:24Expecto Patronum type journal, then I feel good
00:20:27and I'm much more likely to actually journal as a result.
00:20:29So I would say just go on Amazon, go to your local shop
00:20:32and get a nice, cute physical journal
00:20:34that you feel good about writing in.
00:20:36Actionable tip number two is I would recommend
00:20:39also having a digital journal of some description.
00:20:42And so you can use some kind of journaling app for that.
00:20:44Apple has a built-in free journaling app.
00:20:46The one I've been using for literally years
00:20:48is called Day One.
00:20:49I've been using that basically every week since like 2014-ish.
00:20:54And so when you use an app, it's also nice
00:20:56because I tend to photograph and scan in pictures
00:20:58of my physical journal.
00:20:58So I sort of do a physical and digital hybrid here.
00:21:01And it's really cool because then you can look back
00:21:02on stuff super easily rather than having to bust out
00:21:05the journals and then like find stuff.
00:21:07So yeah, having an app generally quite helpful.
00:21:10Actionable tip number three is to get a list of prompts.
00:21:12If you're a beginner to journaling,
00:21:14actually just having some good prompts
00:21:16is a very good way of getting started.
00:21:18And I have linked my own favourite journaling prompts
00:21:20for free down below if you wanna check them out.
00:21:22It's a Google doc that I keep updated
00:21:23with my favourite journaling prompts.
00:21:25Actionable tip number four,
00:21:26and maybe this should have been number one,
00:21:27is that these days it's never been easier to start
00:21:30because you can always just talk to an AI.
00:21:32My favourite AI for this is Claude
00:21:33'cause I freaking love Claude, but you can use Claude,
00:21:35you can use ChatGPT, you can use Grok, you can use DeepSeek,
00:21:37you can use Poe, you can use freaking Gemini,
00:21:39you can use whatever you want.
00:21:41You can literally talk to any AI tool and you can say,
00:21:43I am interested in getting started with journaling.
00:21:46Can you give me some interesting prompts?
00:21:48And it will give you some interesting prompts.
00:21:50And then you can just talk to the AI
00:21:51and you can do your journaling in that way
00:21:53if you are just getting started with it.
00:21:54Final thing I wanna talk about is journaling as a daily habit
00:21:57versus journaling as a deep dive.
00:21:59So the daily habit form of journaling,
00:22:01when I personally do it, it's like,
00:22:03somewhere between two and five minutes per day.
00:22:05I don't do it every day, I just do it most days
00:22:06where I'll get the notification from day one, the app,
00:22:09or I'll go down to the local coffee shop
00:22:11with my little Harry Potter journal thing
00:22:13and while drinking a coffee, just do some journaling.
00:22:16That's like a nice daily type thing.
00:22:18And I can kind of go as shallow
00:22:20or as deep on that as I would like.
00:22:21I think that's quite nice.
00:22:22It's quite a nice way of building the habit
00:22:24and maintaining the habit.
00:22:26But what's really cool about journaling
00:22:27and if you really, really wanna make specific,
00:22:29tangible changes to your life is setting out time
00:22:32like half a day or even a couple of hours,
00:22:35go to a new location, take some journaling prompts with you
00:22:38and without getting distracted by your phone,
00:22:41actually just taking two hours
00:22:42to almost do a mini retreat with yourself,
00:22:45like a mini personal discovery
00:22:46or self-discovery type retreat,
00:22:48where in the process of going to a new location
00:22:50outside of your normal experience
00:22:52and taking some journaling prompts with you with a notebook
00:22:55and not getting distracted with your phone,
00:22:57you're able to genuinely have insights into your life
00:22:59that help you make decisions, that help you set goals
00:23:01and those goals ultimately lead to plans and systems
00:23:04and then you take the actions
00:23:05that ultimately changes your life.
00:23:06And if you're interested in the specific approach
00:23:08of how to do journaling on this deep dive method,
00:23:10I have a video over here
00:23:11that talks about the think day approach to journaling.
00:23:13And it's a video where I take you through my own process
00:23:16for journaling across a period of like four hours.
00:23:18Don't worry, the video is not four hours long,
00:23:20but I take you through my own process of journaling
00:23:21as I go to like a new place here in Hong Kong where I live
00:23:24and I share with you my top 10 journaling prompts
00:23:26that I really in particular love
00:23:28for like the think day approach to journaling.
00:23:30So that'll be linked right over there.
00:23:31Thank you very much for watching
00:23:32and I'll see you in the next video.
00:23:33Bye bye.

Key Takeaway

Journaling is a transformative habit that externalizes thoughts and feelings, reducing their unconscious control over your decisions and enabling you to align your life with your authentic values and goals.

Highlights

Journaling externalizes internal thoughts and feelings, reducing their power over decision-making and enabling life-changing clarity

The speaker has journaled consistently since 2015 and credits it as the single habit that most positively transformed his life

Three levels of journaling exist: recording daily activities, writing down thoughts and feelings, and journaling about goals and future vision

Thoughts and feelings control actions and outcomes, but humans underestimate their influence when they remain unexamined in the mind

Daily journaling takes only 2-5 minutes but deep-dive journaling sessions of 2-4 hours can generate significant personal insights and life direction

Modern AI tools like Claude and ChatGPT can serve as journaling partners, providing prompts and helping process thoughts and feelings

Journaling reveals what you truly want by separating intrinsic values from surface-level desires, enabling better life decisions aligned with authentic goals

Timeline

Introduction and Video Overview

The speaker introduces journaling as a life-changing habit he has practiced consistently since 2015 through physical and digital formats. He explains that the video will cover three main sections: why journaling matters, the three levels of journaling, and actionable tips for starting a journaling practice. The speaker emphasizes that journaling has been the single habit most positively impacting his life and transformed it completely over the past decade. He offers a free Google Doc with his favorite journaling prompts available to viewers who are interested in getting started.

The Problem: Why People Know But Don't Practice Journaling

The speaker acknowledges that most people know they should journal but either don't do it consistently or see no results from their efforts. He explains that the key to understanding journaling's importance lies in recognizing the action-thought-feeling chain: actions produce outcomes, decisions drive actions, and thoughts and feelings determine decisions. The speaker uses the example of wanting financial freedom but being blocked by fears about what colleagues might think, showing how unconscious thoughts and feelings prevent people from taking necessary actions. He illustrates how the mind prioritizes safety over growth, acting as a survival mechanism rather than a tool for achieving dreams.

How Journaling Externalizes and Diminishes Thought Power

The speaker explains the core mechanism of journaling: when you write down thoughts and feelings, they lose approximately 95% of their power over you. He uses the example of the thought 'my colleagues will laugh at me if I start a business,' noting that this fear seems absurd when written down but feels paralyzing when kept internally. The speaker compares thoughts to clouds passing through the sky, arguing that most people take their thoughts far too seriously because they lack journaling or meditation practices. He emphasizes that the mind creates catastrophic narratives (such as imagining homelessness from one action) without conscious examination. By externalizing thoughts on paper or digitally, you can examine them objectively and realize their illegitimacy, similar to how complex problems like bridge design require external documentation rather than mental processing.

Level 1 Journaling: Recording Daily Life and Memorable Moments

The speaker introduces the first level of journaling as the easiest entry point for beginners: simply writing down what happened during the day. He references the 'Homework for Life' technique from Matthew Dix's book 'Storyworthy,' which involves identifying the most storyworthy moment of each day. This practice serves two purposes: it helps you relive and cherish memories, and it demonstrates how far you've come when reviewing past entries. The speaker shares that he has kept 10 years of journal entries since 2015, which allows him to reflect on personal growth and nostalgia. This level requires no emotional vulnerability about childhood trauma or deep feelings, making it an accessible starting point for newcomers to journaling.

Level 2 Journaling: Morning Pages and Processing Thoughts and Feelings

The speaker describes the second level as writing out your thoughts and feelings using the 'morning pages' technique from Julia Cameron's 'The Artist's Way,' where you write three pages of stream-of-consciousness material each morning without judgment. He explains how this process builds a connection between your mind and pen, revealing negative thought patterns and providing creative benefits for content creators, writers, and artists. Adding feeling awareness to this practice creates significant self-awareness about emotions that unconsciously dictate decisions and actions throughout the day. The speaker gives an example of noticing anxious feelings stemming from thoughts about running out of time, which when externalized becomes a question worth investigating rather than something to act on. This investigative approach to your own thoughts and feelings, conducted on paper rather than mentally, prevents the mind from spiraling into rabbit holes of negativity.

Level 3 Journaling: Goal Setting, Vision, and Life Direction

The speaker describes the third level as using journaling to explore goals, plans, and your ideal future life through prompts like 'what would people say at your funeral?' or 'what does your ideal end state look like?' This level helps distinguish between intrinsic values and surface-level desires, such as realizing that the real goal is freedom or the ability to teach rather than money itself. The speaker shares his own journey of discovering through journaling that his deepest fulfillment comes from learning and teaching, which led him to leave medicine for YouTube content creation. He emphasizes that journaling provides the clarity needed to answer the fundamental question 'what do I actually want?' which most people never properly explore due to their focus on daily tasks and stress removal. This clarity then leads to setting authentic goals, creating plans, and building systems that align with your true values rather than external expectations.

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Actionable Tips: Tools and Approaches to Start Journaling

The speaker provides four concrete actionable tips for starting a journaling practice: first, obtain a physical journal that you feel good about using, referencing his collection of themed Harry Potter journals to illustrate the importance of journal aesthetics. Second, use a digital journaling app like Day One or Apple's built-in journaling app, which allows you to photograph physical entries and easily search past entries. Third, obtain journaling prompts (with a free Google Doc linked in the description) to help structure your journaling sessions, especially as a beginner. Fourth, he explains that modern AI tools like Claude, ChatGPT, Grok, and DeepSeek can serve as journaling partners, providing prompts and helping you process thoughts and feelings if you're just starting out. The speaker emphasizes that the key is choosing an approach that feels good to you, as reflected in his book 'Feel Good Productivity.'

Daily Habits Versus Deep-Dive Journaling Sessions

The speaker distinguishes between two journaling approaches: daily habit journaling (2-5 minutes most days using apps or a physical journal) and deep-dive sessions (2-4 hours in a new location without phone distractions). Daily journaling builds and maintains the habit while allowing flexibility in depth, whereas deep-dive sessions generate profound personal insights about goals, values, and life direction. He references his 'think day' approach, detailed in a linked video, which involves going to a new location in Hong Kong with journaling prompts and a notebook for extended reflection. The speaker explains that these focused sessions are particularly effective for making specific, tangible life changes because they create the space for genuine self-discovery outside normal daily routines. Both approaches are valuable: daily journaling maintains the practice, while periodic deep-dive sessions create breakthrough insights that lead to significant life transformation.

Special Announcement: Free Workshops and Closing Remarks

The speaker announces a free two-day workshop series called 'Spark' scheduled for January 3-4, 2026, featuring himself, his wife, and guest speakers to help viewers reflect on 2025 and set goals for 2026. He mentions his VoicePal app, a voice-based journaling and note-taking tool available on iOS and Android that includes built-in journaling prompts and allows users to journal while walking. The speaker also references his GPS method for goal-setting, which builds on the journaling process to convert desires into concrete goals, plans, and systems. He encourages viewers to reach out to him with questions about finding their life direction, noting that his primary recommendation is always to start journaling. The announcement emphasizes that clarity about what you actually want, achievable through journaling, is the foundation for all subsequent decision-making and life changes.

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