00:00:00Ladies and gentlemen, welcome back to the channel.
00:00:01This video is all about how you can use journaling
00:00:04to change your life.
00:00:05I have been journaling consistently since 2015,
00:00:08pretty much every day through a combination
00:00:10of physical and digital format.
00:00:11And I found that journaling has been the single habit
00:00:13that has most positively impacted my life
00:00:15because it's led to all of the things
00:00:17that I've done over the last 10 years
00:00:18that have led to my life being completely transformed.
00:00:20And I genuinely think
00:00:21that if you haven't started journaling yet,
00:00:22if you start doing it,
00:00:23it will also drastically change your life for the better.
00:00:26So this video is gonna be split up into three parts.
00:00:28Firstly, we're gonna talk about
00:00:29why journaling is a big deal
00:00:30and why it's important in the first place.
00:00:31Secondly, we're gonna talk about
00:00:32the three levels of journaling.
00:00:34And thirdly, I'm gonna share some actionable tips
00:00:36that you can use to start applying journaling
00:00:37to your life today if you want your life to be changed.
00:00:40And if you're interested in a totally free list
00:00:41of my favorite journaling prompts,
00:00:43they'll be linked in a Google doc down below.
00:00:45I keep that updated and have done for years
00:00:47with my favorite journaling prompts.
00:00:48So you can just download that and go
00:00:50if that's what you are into.
00:00:51Now, the thing with journaling
00:00:56is that you've probably come across it before.
00:00:58You might even seen some of the videos
00:00:59I've done on the channel about the importance of journaling.
00:01:01But when I speak to people around this,
00:01:03most people know that they kind of should
00:01:04probably maybe be doing some journaling,
00:01:06but they are not doing it consistently.
00:01:08Or if they are doing consistently,
00:01:10they're not like seeing the results
00:01:12that they would really like to get from journaling.
00:01:14So the key thing here is that
00:01:16it's pretty uncontroversial to say
00:01:17that the actions that you take
00:01:19dictate kind of your outcomes in life, right?
00:01:22So you could take positive actions
00:01:24that would lead you on a good trajectory,
00:01:26or you could take actions
00:01:27that take you on a bad trajectory.
00:01:29Like probably scrolling TikTok for eight hours a day
00:01:31is probably not helpful,
00:01:32will probably take you on a negative trajectory.
00:01:34But learning some high income skills
00:01:35and choosing to start your business, for example,
00:01:37might take you on a more positive trajectory.
00:01:39All of this is the action that we take.
00:01:41Upstream of the action is a decision.
00:01:43So for example, the decision I made
00:01:45to start this YouTube channel in 2017
00:01:47directly led to the actions of me making YouTube videos
00:01:50for the last like eight years.
00:01:51And that has had a very positive impact on my life.
00:01:53As a result, I've become financially free
00:01:55and able to do all the fun things
00:01:56and this gets to be my career, which is amazing.
00:01:58So thank you if you've been following the journey
00:02:00for any length of time.
00:02:01But that all stemmed from a decision
00:02:02to let's start a YouTube channel, right?
00:02:04And so then the question becomes like,
00:02:05how does that decision form?
00:02:07And that decision forms as a result of thoughts
00:02:10and feelings and beliefs.
00:02:12And in many ways, beliefs are just the same thing as thoughts.
00:02:14They're just thoughts that we take more seriously
00:02:16than other thoughts.
00:02:17It basically just comes down to thoughts and feelings.
00:02:19Some combination of thoughts and feelings
00:02:20leads to a particular decision.
00:02:22And then that decision leads to actions that change your life.
00:02:24So for example, let's say you want to become
00:02:26financially free, that is a thought
00:02:27probably accompanied by some kind of feeling.
00:02:29It's like a desire for financial freedom,
00:02:31but loads of people have the desire for financial freedom.
00:02:33Almost no one actually does anything about it
00:02:35and almost no one achieves the result.
00:02:37So then you gotta have the thought of,
00:02:38I want financial freedom.
00:02:39And then you gotta have a sort of feeling of confidence
00:02:42or a feeling of like actually wanting to do the things
00:02:46that it takes to become financially free.
00:02:47And then maybe you watch a video of mine
00:02:49or you come across some content that says,
00:02:51starting a business is a good route to financial freedom
00:02:54compared to just trying to get ahead in your career
00:02:56or whatever the thing might be.
00:02:57So you're like, all right, cool.
00:02:58Now you have another thought,
00:02:59which is I should start a business.
00:03:00And then when you have the thought
00:03:01of I should start a business,
00:03:02again, loads of people have the thought
00:03:03of I should start a business.
00:03:04And yet when I polled people in my audience,
00:03:06like 78% of you want to start a business,
00:03:08but you haven't yet started a business.
00:03:10So there's another blocker that holds you back.
00:03:12And that would be another thought in terms of like,
00:03:14what business idea should I pursue?
00:03:16And then along this way,
00:03:17along the thought of I want financial freedom,
00:03:18I should start a business.
00:03:19The thought of what business idea should I pursue
00:03:21or that question in your mind.
00:03:22This is also accompanied by a lot of different feelings
00:03:25and feelings are also these other internal things
00:03:27that, you know, internal bodily sensations
00:03:28that we apply some kind of label to.
00:03:30So the feeling of anxiety, the feeling of fear,
00:03:33the feeling of like cringe at the thought
00:03:35of like outing yourself as a wannabe business owner.
00:03:38The feeling of like, oh,
00:03:39but like, am I gonna have to show my face?
00:03:41Am I gonna have to create content?
00:03:42Am I gonna have to speak to people?
00:03:43And like, what if I get rejected?
00:03:45And all this sort of stuff.
00:03:46And all of these are feelings accompanied by thoughts
00:03:49like thought feeling combinations that block loads
00:03:52of people in the world who have the thought of,
00:03:54I should start a business or I want financial freedom.
00:03:56The thoughts and the feelings block them
00:03:58from actually ever taking action and doing the thing.
00:04:00Now, what the hell does all of this have to do
00:04:01with journaling?
00:04:02Well, what it has to do with journaling is,
00:04:04journaling is literally the process of writing down
00:04:07your thoughts and your feelings
00:04:09and to an extent your beliefs.
00:04:10And the thing about thoughts and feelings,
00:04:12in particular thoughts, like when they are in your mind
00:04:14and they are not on paper, they have way more power over us.
00:04:18The thought of, if I start my business,
00:04:21then my colleagues will laugh at me,
00:04:24is a thought that I hear a lot from students
00:04:25in our Lifestyle Business Academy,
00:04:26which is kind of like my online business school.
00:04:28It tends to be like professionals who are successful
00:04:30in their day jobs and in their lives,
00:04:32who really wanna start a business
00:04:33to get to financial freedom,
00:04:34but they're really worried that their colleagues
00:04:36will laugh at them if they start posting on LinkedIn,
00:04:38for example.
00:04:38Now, saying that out loud, it seems dumb, right?
00:04:41Like, why would you let the thought of what Jane from HR
00:04:46thinks about your business,
00:04:47'cause you worked with her 10 years ago.
00:04:48Why would you let that stop you
00:04:49from achieving financial freedom?
00:04:51But when that thought is in the mind,
00:04:53and it's just like in our heads,
00:04:54and it's just sort of bouncing around,
00:04:55the thought of like, Jane from HR is gonna laugh at me,
00:04:57therefore everyone else will laugh at me,
00:04:59therefore my manager will laugh at me,
00:05:00therefore like I'm gonna lose my professional reputation
00:05:03and my social status,
00:05:03and therefore I'm gonna end up broken, homeless and alone.
00:05:06And these are not like conscious thought processes,
00:05:08but it tends to be what the mind does,
00:05:10because the mind is a survival machine
00:05:12and it's geared towards protecting us from bad things.
00:05:15It is not at all geared towards helping us
00:05:18live the life of our dreams.
00:05:19The mind is totally happy if we stay completely miserable,
00:05:23but in our comfort zone, in our comfort zone of safety.
00:05:26The mind is optimizing for safety, not for growth.
00:05:28And in general, if you want to take actions
00:05:30that optimize your life and take you in a direction
00:05:33that you feel your life has changed for the better,
00:05:35we wanna be optimizing for growth rather than for safety,
00:05:37and so the mind is just not the right tool to do this.
00:05:39One example that I quite like is like,
00:05:41imagine you're trying to do something complicated
00:05:42like designing a bridge.
00:05:44Would you try and do that in your head?
00:05:45Probably not, right?
00:05:46Like bridges are very, very complicated devices
00:05:48that require loads of like engineering and like mathematics
00:05:51and like architectural stuff and material science
00:05:53and all that stuff goes together with loads of people
00:05:55to make a bridge.
00:05:56They don't do it in their heads.
00:05:57They put it down on paper, right?
00:05:59And so if you're trying to calculate
00:06:01a complex mathematical equation,
00:06:02of course you would put it down on paper.
00:06:04And yet loads of us just never put our thoughts
00:06:07and feelings on paper.
00:06:07We have them in our heads at all times.
00:06:09And then what happens is that those thoughts and feelings
00:06:10run rampant and start running,
00:06:12going down rabbit holes and stuff.
00:06:13We end up making decisions as a result of those.
00:06:15But because we're doing them subconsciously,
00:06:17we don't realize that like anxiety and fear and cringe
00:06:20and like the fear of rejection
00:06:22and like what are people gonna say
00:06:23and all that kind of stuff.
00:06:24We just don't realize that that stuff is holding us back
00:06:27from achieving our dreams.
00:06:28And so when you start journaling,
00:06:30way back to journaling, when you start journaling,
00:06:31which is literally the process
00:06:32of writing down your thoughts and your feelings,
00:06:35when you write them down,
00:06:36I am not starting my business because I am worried
00:06:39that Sarah from accounting will laugh at me.
00:06:42You write that down and suddenly that particular thought
00:06:44loses like 95% of its power.
00:06:47And be like, Sarah, really?
00:06:48Am I really gonna let what Sarah from accounting thinks
00:06:50like stop me from achieving financial freedom?
00:06:51That's just fucking dumb.
00:06:52And then you can kind of see your thoughts for what they are.
00:06:55Most of us, unless we have a journaling practice
00:06:57or a meditation practice, which is sort of somewhat similar
00:07:00in that it has somewhat similar effects to an extent,
00:07:03unless you have a strong journaling or meditation practice,
00:07:05you probably take your thoughts way too seriously.
00:07:07And so when you have thoughts
00:07:08and you get into these rabbit holes,
00:07:09you are allowing those thoughts,
00:07:10which are really just, you know, thoughts are not real.
00:07:13It's kind of like cloud in the sky, right?
00:07:15Like, I mean, yeah, there's a cloud that's gone by.
00:07:17I currently have the thought of like,
00:07:18oh, lunchtime's in an hour.
00:07:19It's like, who cares?
00:07:20There's a cloud going there, there's a car going there.
00:07:22Like it's all just stuff, right?
00:07:25And unless you journal or meditate or both, ideally,
00:07:29you will take those very seriously
00:07:30and you will allow your thoughts,
00:07:31which are simply patterns of energy
00:07:33in the neurons in your mind,
00:07:35you will allow those to dictate your actions
00:07:37and your decisions.
00:07:38And therefore you end up on a trajectory
00:07:41where you're living with regret
00:07:43because you never pursued your dreams
00:07:44because you allowed fear to get in your way and stuff.
00:07:47So basically that's our long roundabout way
00:07:49of saying that journaling, i.e. writing down thoughts
00:07:51and feelings is really, really important
00:07:52if you wanna change your life.
00:07:53Now, in other exciting news, as you might've heard,
00:07:55my team and I are currently building
00:07:56an online business school
00:07:57called the Lifestyle Business Academy.
00:07:59And we're iterating on things at a pretty fast pace.
00:08:01Now, one of the big perks of having so many students
00:08:03going through our program
00:08:04is that we now have a ton of data points
00:08:06and moving parts to manage,
00:08:08including content and feedback and workflows and automations.
00:08:10And all of that gets way easier
00:08:11when you understand how to use AI properly.
00:08:14And something that has really helped me
00:08:15and the team with this is Brilliant,
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00:09:12Okay, so now we get to, how do you actually do this?
00:09:14And I think of this as the three levels of journaling.
00:09:17Level one is great for complete beginners to journaling
00:09:20and it's super, super easy.
00:09:21You just write down what you did today.
00:09:23So either in the morning,
00:09:24you can write down what you did yesterday
00:09:26or in the evening, you can write down what you did today.
00:09:28And there is a fantastic book by a lovely chap
00:09:30called Matthew Dix called "Storyworthy."
00:09:32And there is a strategy in that book called "Homework for Life."
00:09:34And it's basically a book about like,
00:09:35how to tell better stories, but it's more than about that.
00:09:37It's just, it's one of my favorite books of all time.
00:09:39Anyway, the idea behind "Homework for Life"
00:09:40is at the end of every day, you just ask yourself,
00:09:42what was the most storyworthy moment that happened today?
00:09:46And then you just sort of write down what it might be.
00:09:48And if you can't think of anything that was storyworthy,
00:09:50it doesn't matter, you've got to come up with something.
00:09:52Like what was just one thing that happened in your day
00:09:54that was at least slightly interesting
00:09:56or at least slightly more interesting than everything else?
00:09:58Even if you have a really boring life,
00:10:00you have to come up with something.
00:10:01And that is a great journaling practice because A,
00:10:04it's amazing for being able
00:10:05to actually relive your own memories
00:10:06because our memories are in many ways what we retire on.
00:10:09And so when you go back through your journals,
00:10:11like I've got journals over here from like years,
00:10:13I've been journaling regularly since 2015.
00:10:15So now I have like 10 years worth of journal entries
00:10:17where, you know, if I do them on an app,
00:10:19I can see the sort of on this day in 2015,
00:10:21on this day in 2014, this is what I was thinking,
00:10:23this is what happened.
00:10:24And reliving those memories is generally quite nice
00:10:27because it's quite nostalgic 'cause it's been a while.
00:10:29And it's also nice because it lets you see
00:10:31how far you've come.
00:10:32So at the very basic level,
00:10:34this doesn't require you to open up about your feelings
00:10:36or about your childhood trauma or anything like that.
00:10:38You literally just write out what you did today.
00:10:40Then you have the next level of journaling,
00:10:42which is you write out what you are thinking.
00:10:43Now there is a technique from Julia Cameron's book,
00:10:46The Artist's Way called morning pages, which is amazing.
00:10:49Loads of people swear by it.
00:10:50And the idea behind morning pages is that every morning,
00:10:52you just write out three pages.
00:10:53You can do less than three, three is too many.
00:10:56You're just literally writing down
00:10:57whatever is coming to your mind.
00:10:59So I like to start up my morning pages when I do it with,
00:11:01today is gonna be a great day because,
00:11:04and then I just keep writing.
00:11:05And then the idea is you just keep writing.
00:11:06You don't judge what you're writing.
00:11:08No one else has to read what you're writing.
00:11:09You're not writing for publication.
00:11:11You are merely just writing out stuff
00:11:13that comes to your mind.
00:11:13And you generally find that in the process of doing this,
00:11:16as you build the connection between the thoughts
00:11:18that are happening in your brain and what your pen is saying,
00:11:21or if you're typing it out.
00:11:22Technically she says you should write it out by hand,
00:11:24but sometimes that's annoying.
00:11:25So I do type it out.
00:11:27Sorry, Julia, apologies.
00:11:28As you develop that connection between actually being able
00:11:30to type out or write out what you're thinking,
00:11:33you actually get a lot of insight
00:11:34into your thought processes.
00:11:36You start to realize that, wait a minute,
00:11:37the thoughts that I keep thinking
00:11:38are actually kind of negative.
00:11:39Huh, it's interesting.
00:11:40Why am I talking to myself like that?
00:11:42You also, if you have any kind of creative practice,
00:11:44any kind of like if you're creating content
00:11:46or trying to write a book or trying to do any art
00:11:48or anything that involves creating
00:11:50and putting anything out there into the world,
00:11:52often the process of like getting your thoughts out on paper
00:11:55can really help with your creativity as well.
00:11:57Then as a sort of addition to that,
00:11:58instead of just writing what you're thinking,
00:12:00you also write what you are feeling
00:12:02and trying to put your feelings into words.
00:12:04Again, this is just super, super helpful.
00:12:06It gives us a lot of self-awareness
00:12:07about the feelings that we all have.
00:12:09We are all experiencing different feelings
00:12:10at different times of the day.
00:12:11It is remarkable just how much our feelings
00:12:14subconsciously dictate our decisions and our actions.
00:12:16And so being, again, being able to write it out,
00:12:18huh, I'm currently feeling a little anxious.
00:12:20Why am I feeling a little anxious?
00:12:21I feel a sense of like franticness
00:12:23that's sort of just coming into my life.
00:12:25I feel like I'm maybe running out of time
00:12:27and that's leading to a feeling of like agitation
00:12:30and franticness that if I don't do all the things,
00:12:32then I don't know, something bad will happen.
00:12:34Now that thought process or that feeling process
00:12:37in our brains and in our bodies will run rampant
00:12:39and we'll just be like a little stressed,
00:12:42a little on edge at risk of burnout without realizing it.
00:12:45But as soon as you start journaling
00:12:46and you write it out and put it on paper,
00:12:48you can be like, huh, that's interesting.
00:12:50Why do I act as if I'm running out of time?
00:12:52Am I running out of time?
00:12:53Well, no, not really.
00:12:54I wonder where that thought comes from.
00:12:55And then what happens is that you start like
00:12:57approaching your thoughts and your feelings
00:12:59kind of like a detective or like an investigator.
00:13:02You're like, huh, it's interesting that I have the thought,
00:13:05this video sucks right now
00:13:06because I don't have any scientific data in it.
00:13:08I wonder where that thought comes from.
00:13:10Maybe that comes from thinking that like the only value
00:13:12I have to add as a YouTuber is in like
00:13:14whether I add scientific data to my videos.
00:13:16Huh, that's interesting, is that true?
00:13:18In the process of journaling,
00:13:19you're sort of like having this sort of conversation
00:13:21with yourself, but you're not having a conversation
00:13:22with yourself in your head where it's very easy for it
00:13:24to get, to derail into like negativity and stuff.
00:13:27You're having the conversation with yourself on paper
00:13:28or copy paste into chat GPT and then get an analysis
00:13:32from chat GPT or Claude or whatever.
00:13:33All of this just gives you way more insight
00:13:34into your own thought patterns
00:13:36and your own feeling patterns.
00:13:37Oh, by the way, if you're watching this
00:13:38before the 3rd of January, 2026,
00:13:40I am hosting a completely free two day series of workshops
00:13:43called Spark on Saturday the 3rd
00:13:45and Sunday the 4th of January, 2026.
00:13:47So the idea that it will be me and my wife
00:13:49and a few guest speakers that you might've heard of
00:13:51and we're gonna be taking you through
00:13:52a bunch of different exercises to help you reflect on 2025
00:13:55and set goals for 2026 so that we can hopefully
00:13:57help you make 2026 the best year of your life.
00:14:00It is completely free.
00:14:01There'll be a link down below to register if you would like.
00:14:04And then level three, I think is that once you're able
00:14:05to do that kind of stuff, which is, it's not that hard.
00:14:07You then start journaling about your goals and your plans.
00:14:10Now this is where I really like journaling, right?
00:14:11Like there's a lot of value in journaling
00:14:13and just being able to write out what you're feeling.
00:14:15But for me as a productivity bro,
00:14:17who cares about like goal achievement
00:14:18and like getting places like becoming financially free
00:14:21or whatever, you then start writing about your goals
00:14:23and plans, you then start writing like, okay, cool.
00:14:25I've written out what I've done today.
00:14:26I've done my morning pages, whatever the thing,
00:14:28thinking and feeling.
00:14:28And then at some point,
00:14:29you'll start writing about the future.
00:14:31You might see a journaling prompt that says something like,
00:14:33you know, what would you like people to say at your funeral?
00:14:35And you're like, huh, that's an interesting question.
00:14:37What would I like people to say at my funeral?
00:14:38Well, at my funeral, most people don't,
00:14:40won't really care about like my sort of achievements.
00:14:42They're not really gonna care how much money I have.
00:14:44But at my funeral, you know,
00:14:45people generally talk about service
00:14:46and they talk about character.
00:14:47So, hmm, what's the kind of service
00:14:49that I would like to offer to people or to the world?
00:14:51What's the kind of character I'd like to develop?
00:14:53And now you are in the mode of processing
00:14:57where you're actually able to make sensible decisions
00:14:59about what you wanna do with your life.
00:15:00You might come across a journaling prompt.
00:15:02What does your ideal end state look like?
00:15:04Like, imagine you've achieved everything you want.
00:15:06What does your day-to-day look like?
00:15:08You're like, huh, I've never thought about that.
00:15:09Okay, let's imagine I have achieved everything I want.
00:15:11Let's imagine I have started that business
00:15:13or got that promotion or gotten married,
00:15:15had the kids, et cetera, et cetera.
00:15:17What then?
00:15:18What would I actually be spending my time doing?
00:15:20And I'm like, well, maybe.
00:15:21You know, I just, I'd really like to do stand-up comedy.
00:15:25You're like, oh, interesting.
00:15:26Where did that thought come from?
00:15:27Yeah, I'd really like to do stand-up comedy.
00:15:29That would be really interesting.
00:15:29Or I'd really like to write songs
00:15:31or like release my own album
00:15:32or whatever that thing might be.
00:15:34Often, like, we don't give ourselves permission
00:15:37to think in those sorts of ways
00:15:39because we are so fixated on what's the next thing
00:15:42that I have to do.
00:15:43A lot of us are running through life,
00:15:44ticking things off a to-do list,
00:15:46acting as if our time is running out.
00:15:48And we're so focused on like just getting through the day
00:15:52and just getting the stuff ticked off
00:15:53and like removing these sources of stress from our lives.
00:15:55Like, oh, I've got to pay the electricity bill,
00:15:56got to pay the water bill, oh shit.
00:15:57Like the radiator next door is broken,
00:16:00so I've got to call a plumber about that,
00:16:01et cetera, et cetera, et cetera.
00:16:02That when you journal, even for five minutes or 10 minutes,
00:16:04and you do it consistently,
00:16:06you get distance from the day-to-day
00:16:08and you can start thinking about the future
00:16:10and you can start asking yourself, what do I actually want?
00:16:13That is like one of the key things
00:16:15that I have personally gotten through journaling
00:16:17over the years, just a better sense
00:16:21of what do I actually want?
00:16:23Because if you really figure out what you want,
00:16:25and then, you know, not in terms of like,
00:16:27I want a Lamborghini or I want a yacht or whatever,
00:16:28but like what you intrinsically want,
00:16:31what you intrinsically want or value,
00:16:33you can then start to make decisions
00:16:34that take your life closer in alignment
00:16:37to what you want and what you value.
00:16:38And so you might think that you want a lot of money,
00:16:40but in the process of journaling,
00:16:41you might realize that like, okay, well,
00:16:43what would I do with the money if I had it?
00:16:44You might realize that what you would do
00:16:46is that you just want freedom.
00:16:47You want freedom to be able to spend your time
00:16:49however you want.
00:16:49And then you're like, all right, cool.
00:16:50So it's not really money I want.
00:16:51It's more like freedom that I want.
00:16:53And then you're like, okay,
00:16:54but like, why do I want the freedom, right?
00:16:55Like what would I do if assuming I had all the money
00:16:58and all the freedom, how would I spend my time?
00:17:00And you might land on something like I did
00:17:01that like, you know what?
00:17:03I would really just focus on teaching.
00:17:04I just really like teaching.
00:17:05It's like, oh, interesting.
00:17:06Teaching is the thing that I wanna do.
00:17:07Like that kind of thought process
00:17:09was what helped me realize that, you know,
00:17:11my career as a doctor wasn't really for me.
00:17:12And I realized that like the most enjoyment
00:17:14I ever had as a doctor was when either
00:17:16I was learning something new or I was teaching something.
00:17:19So I'm like, huh, that's interesting.
00:17:20Like learning and teaching are the things
00:17:22that I seem to want.
00:17:23Is that true?
00:17:24And then do some journaling, figure that out.
00:17:25It's not like, yeah, actually a lot of the past experiences
00:17:28of fulfillment in my life have been involved
00:17:30either when I've been learning something new
00:17:31or I've been teaching something.
00:17:32So I don't really care about the money
00:17:33for the sake of the money.
00:17:34I care about the money because the money gets me freedom
00:17:36and the freedom lets me teach.
00:17:37Oh, okay.
00:17:39So maybe that's what I want.
00:17:40I want the freedom to learn and teach on my own terms.
00:17:42And so that kind of insight can come through journaling.
00:17:45It can come through like having a life coach.
00:17:47It can come through talking about your thoughts and feelings
00:17:49to like an AI model and, you know,
00:17:51hopefully it's someone guiding you in the right direction.
00:17:53All of it requires externalizing your own thoughts
00:17:56and your own feelings because when they are internal,
00:17:59there's not much we can do with them.
00:18:00And we end up going in all these sorts of different places,
00:18:02but externalizing them in any way,
00:18:03be it through journaling or through talking to an AI,
00:18:05which is kind of basically journaling
00:18:07or talking to a life coach,
00:18:08which is basically just like journaling out loud
00:18:09and they're just asking you questions.
00:18:11All of that is getting at the question
00:18:12of what do I actually want?
00:18:14And then once you figure out what you want,
00:18:16then you turn it into a goal.
00:18:18You turn it into a plan.
00:18:19You turn it into a system to follow the plan.
00:18:21This is sort of like my GPS method for goal setting,
00:18:25which will be linked up there and down there
00:18:26if you're interested in learning more about it.
00:18:27And it's all based on what do you actually want?
00:18:29I have people who come up to me at my events a lot
00:18:31being like, hey, how do I figure out what to do with my life?
00:18:33Or questions like that.
00:18:34And my first question is often,
00:18:35have you tried journaling about it?
00:18:37And often the answer is no, not really.
00:18:39Or like, oh yeah, I've been in meaning too,
00:18:40but I haven't really got around to it.
00:18:42It is remarkable how much clarity you can get
00:18:44by just setting a 10 minute timer
00:18:46and just asking yourself a question
00:18:48and then just typing out whatever comes to mind
00:18:50or speaking out whatever comes to mind as a response.
00:18:53If you're interested in an app to help you with that,
00:18:55my team and I have built a tool called VoicePal,
00:18:57which is kind of like voice-based journaling or note-taking.
00:19:00You just go for a walk.
00:19:01It's got a few journaling prompts within it as well.
00:19:02And you can just like pick a prompt
00:19:04and you can just like speak out whatever you want.
00:19:05That'll be linked down below.
00:19:06It's on the app store, it's on Android.
00:19:07People are loving it.
00:19:08It's great, you should check it out if you would like.
00:19:11Okay, so that was a lot of theory.
00:19:13Let's now talk about the actionable tips.
00:19:15What are the things you can tangibly, actionably do
00:19:17to start incorporating journaling into your life
00:19:18so that you can change your life?
00:19:20Number one, I would say get a physical journal.
00:19:23These are just some of the physical journals
00:19:26that I have had over the years.
00:19:28I got a new one recently.
00:19:31Basically, I just love getting Harry Potter themed journals.
00:19:34So this is like a Ravenclaw.
00:19:36I got this from a Ravenclaw sculpted journal.
00:19:39I got this from South Africa.
00:19:40Oh, I got this one.
00:19:43This is one that I got, I think this is from London.
00:19:46Expecto Patronum, another Harry Potter Moleskine-like journal.
00:19:49It's just nice having a nice journal.
00:19:51I think a lot of people would do more journaling.
00:19:54Where's the other one?
00:19:54Ah, here we go, we've got some more here.
00:19:57More journals.
00:19:58Like, you know, when you've been journaling for a while,
00:20:00then you just end up collecting like journals and stuff.
00:20:03And it's just super cool.
00:20:05Like this was my experiment with like bullet journaling.
00:20:07Where it's like, there's so much stuff in here.
00:20:09It's really cool.
00:20:10Basically, get a physical journal
00:20:13that you feel good about using.
00:20:15The whole concept behind my book, "Feel Good Productivity"
00:20:17is that we are far more likely to do things
00:20:19and to do things better if we feel good about doing them.
00:20:21And so when I bust out my cute blue
00:20:24Expecto Patronum type journal, then I feel good
00:20:27and I'm much more likely to actually journal as a result.
00:20:29So I would say just go on Amazon, go to your local shop
00:20:32and get a nice, cute physical journal
00:20:34that you feel good about writing in.
00:20:36Actionable tip number two is I would recommend
00:20:39also having a digital journal of some description.
00:20:42And so you can use some kind of journaling app for that.
00:20:44Apple has a built-in free journaling app.
00:20:46The one I've been using for literally years
00:20:48is called Day One.
00:20:49I've been using that basically every week since like 2014-ish.
00:20:54And so when you use an app, it's also nice
00:20:56because I tend to photograph and scan in pictures
00:20:58of my physical journal.
00:20:58So I sort of do a physical and digital hybrid here.
00:21:01And it's really cool because then you can look back
00:21:02on stuff super easily rather than having to bust out
00:21:05the journals and then like find stuff.
00:21:07So yeah, having an app generally quite helpful.
00:21:10Actionable tip number three is to get a list of prompts.
00:21:12If you're a beginner to journaling,
00:21:14actually just having some good prompts
00:21:16is a very good way of getting started.
00:21:18And I have linked my own favourite journaling prompts
00:21:20for free down below if you wanna check them out.
00:21:22It's a Google doc that I keep updated
00:21:23with my favourite journaling prompts.
00:21:25Actionable tip number four,
00:21:26and maybe this should have been number one,
00:21:27is that these days it's never been easier to start
00:21:30because you can always just talk to an AI.
00:21:32My favourite AI for this is Claude
00:21:33'cause I freaking love Claude, but you can use Claude,
00:21:35you can use ChatGPT, you can use Grok, you can use DeepSeek,
00:21:37you can use Poe, you can use freaking Gemini,
00:21:39you can use whatever you want.
00:21:41You can literally talk to any AI tool and you can say,
00:21:43I am interested in getting started with journaling.
00:21:46Can you give me some interesting prompts?
00:21:48And it will give you some interesting prompts.
00:21:50And then you can just talk to the AI
00:21:51and you can do your journaling in that way
00:21:53if you are just getting started with it.
00:21:54Final thing I wanna talk about is journaling as a daily habit
00:21:57versus journaling as a deep dive.
00:21:59So the daily habit form of journaling,
00:22:01when I personally do it, it's like,
00:22:03somewhere between two and five minutes per day.
00:22:05I don't do it every day, I just do it most days
00:22:06where I'll get the notification from day one, the app,
00:22:09or I'll go down to the local coffee shop
00:22:11with my little Harry Potter journal thing
00:22:13and while drinking a coffee, just do some journaling.
00:22:16That's like a nice daily type thing.
00:22:18And I can kind of go as shallow
00:22:20or as deep on that as I would like.
00:22:21I think that's quite nice.
00:22:22It's quite a nice way of building the habit
00:22:24and maintaining the habit.
00:22:26But what's really cool about journaling
00:22:27and if you really, really wanna make specific,
00:22:29tangible changes to your life is setting out time
00:22:32like half a day or even a couple of hours,
00:22:35go to a new location, take some journaling prompts with you
00:22:38and without getting distracted by your phone,
00:22:41actually just taking two hours
00:22:42to almost do a mini retreat with yourself,
00:22:45like a mini personal discovery
00:22:46or self-discovery type retreat,
00:22:48where in the process of going to a new location
00:22:50outside of your normal experience
00:22:52and taking some journaling prompts with you with a notebook
00:22:55and not getting distracted with your phone,
00:22:57you're able to genuinely have insights into your life
00:22:59that help you make decisions, that help you set goals
00:23:01and those goals ultimately lead to plans and systems
00:23:04and then you take the actions
00:23:05that ultimately changes your life.
00:23:06And if you're interested in the specific approach
00:23:08of how to do journaling on this deep dive method,
00:23:10I have a video over here
00:23:11that talks about the think day approach to journaling.
00:23:13And it's a video where I take you through my own process
00:23:16for journaling across a period of like four hours.
00:23:18Don't worry, the video is not four hours long,
00:23:20but I take you through my own process of journaling
00:23:21as I go to like a new place here in Hong Kong where I live
00:23:24and I share with you my top 10 journaling prompts
00:23:26that I really in particular love
00:23:28for like the think day approach to journaling.
00:23:30So that'll be linked right over there.
00:23:31Thank you very much for watching
00:23:32and I'll see you in the next video.
00:23:33Bye bye.